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Janett, 33
United States, Pennsylvania, Schwenksville

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About Me

Ambivertnerdgeek. Sapiosexual. Digital artist. Vegan Fibromyalgia Goddess. Music obsessed. Sarcasm practitioner. Art fan. Readerwriterlearner. Sci-fi / fantasy obsessed. Wounded Healer. Astral traveller. Sleepless dancer.I saw a space photo which was labelled as a bipolar protoplanetary nebula, and it reminded me of some of the guys I've dated :). But yet that is the past, and I spend a lot more time looking towards the future. If you get the metaphors in the first sentence of this paragraph, let's talk :)."the love that consists in this:that two solitudes protect,and limit,and embrace each other."- RilkeThe six things I could never do without:- Love / spirituality [like, universal love for all, man :)]- Vegetables- All art-forms- Esoteric studies / psychology / general sciences- All forms of Humour- Nature / animalsI'm usually contemplating everything around me. I am more of a thinker than a talker, although when talking to someone I have things in common with, we can easily talk for hours about anything and everything (multimedia, humour, politics, people, science, life, randomness, whatever).For a possible long term relationship, here is what I'm looking for:I'm looking for a partner who has a lot of imagination, and is balanced enough emotionally to be able to just let his guard down and trust people. Or at least to let his guard down enough so that I can try to convince him that not all women are secretly selfish, shallow, vapid ****es just waiting to happen. When I convince a guy of this, even if we ultimately decide to just be friends, that makes me feel great :). I have an understanding of that type of situation; men can have those qualities just as easily. So, someone who isn't afraid to be himself, with no fear that his experiences and vulnerabilities will chase me away. I am a very caring and accepting person when given openness and honesty in exchange. A man who is confident, yet not arrogant, and knows what he wants. I'm rather forthright with what I want, and only want to be with someone who can give me the same in return.I would love to find a guy who takes the time to consider radically different points of view, even if just with the aim of pure learning, not necessarily to change his opinion. Someone who is comfortable entertaining ideas *** having set, unmoveable opinions. The ideal boyfriend would practice knowledge-gathering and contemplation, combined with multimedia appreciation. I'm only open to someone who is well-rounded enough to be at least a little bit spiritually curious in some way (you can even consider yourself to be atheist as there are different interpretations for what that means). But it's not always serious time - I'd like a joker who isn't afraid to just be silly sometimes and appreciates a wide range of humour.I would like someone who can balance romance with straight-up, throw-down sexytime, and even combine the two :). No, real romance is not shallow overly-commercialized stuff like flowers and expensive dates in the hopes of getting your poor neglected pants pal pleasured :P. It's flirting and giggles and cuddles in the sun, or in the rain :). It's a look, turning into a stare - leading to gentle caresses and soft kisses that grow passionate. It's timelessness lost in each others eyes. This is the stuff that can get a woman to write you poetry, gents. If you can find someone to make that sort of connection with.I'm looking for friends too and in general I prefer to meet people who are nerdy / arty / intelligent (without being arrogant), or some other self assessed variety of weirdness, and who like that. I thrive on conversations with all kinds of diverse people :).However...considering the majority of the people who message me on this site, I don't even know if anyone reads this, but I'm going to try. Please don't send a message if you have no photo (because that makes you look like a cheater or like you think you're ugly), or if all you are going to say is something like "Hi" or "How's it going?" or "You're sexy". Have an actual topic of conversation (I don't mean this to sound high-pressure, as if you have to say something complex and impressive - Just have something to say), otherwise you (possibly by mistake) make yourself look stupid and boring :). Make a random, ridiculous, humourous comment that sounds intriguing but that references something I might not know :). The more obscure the better even. I find it hard to understand why so many of you appear timid enough to look at a profile (multiple times and days as well), and yet can't seem to think of a basic subject to talk about. :) I'm a nice, fun person and don't mean to come off as some sort of hard-ass. It's just that people need to stop thinking that all they have to do is lazily present themselves and the other person will come up with something to talk about. Also, you will have more luck getting people to talk to you if you fill out at least some of your profile. Just some helpful advice.I am not looking for casual sex. In other words, don't be a random, predictable ****in creeper, unless you want to get owned. If you know what a troll is, trust me, you don't want to be spamming me your copypasta "dtf, measurements?" (besides, now my measurements are obvious considering all most people seem to do is look at pics *** also reading a profile - and I put up a pic of me that shows my chubby hourglass figure), snicker-worthy and predictable man-whore messages :). Message me to (maybe) figure that out together. Somewhere we can go and talk.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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  • Dorla from Schwenksville | Woman | 35 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    Don't ask stupid questions, please. Read this and if it isn't your fit move on! It's just a waste of time if you don't!First lets talk about body type. Average doesn't mean you got a big ole gut and a flabby ass! Athletic means you have a muscular body (not some muscle buried under a bunch of fat!). A few extra pounds means you should stop eating McDs and get your a$$ to the gym. Just sayin.I DO NOT WANT TO SEE YOUR PENIS BEFORE I MEET YOU!!!!! I WILL NOT SEND YOU NUDIE PICS OF MYSELF!I am a passionate person who emphasizes family values and being a good friend to people.I have an 18 year old cat and a 10 week old cat. I love my cats like they are my kids--they aren't going anywhere!If you want to meet for a drink and change your mind please be courteous and let me know in a timely fashion. First of all my time is precious (so is yours) and I don't appreciate losing any of it. Second, it's just disrespectful.Dancing, hiking, camping, bonfires, wild animals (I know right), dining, cooking, sleeping, cuddling, festivals, music, picnics, parties, wine, good beer-especially on a patio on a hot summer day, fabulous conversation, intellects, water, beaches, estuaries, science, math: All words that describe things I enjoy. "The meaning of the word *** and "Trust me on the sunscreen" videos are quite frankly my favorite videos (youtube)--the messages are very near and dear to me. I am a huge fan of grainy 80s movies in addition to 80s music. I enjoy movies and I watch shows like Desperate Housewives and Glee. Big fan of 2 TVs in the house--that way, while you watch sports (unless its hockey or football) I can watch what I like to watch too!Music is a blessing. I enjoy all types (well OK I tolerate country and am learning to like it) but mostly I am trance and house junkie.I have a very colorful background. If you don't want to hear the stories about the madness of my youth, move on! I talk to some of my x's-I hope you do too. My best friend is a guy. These things aren't changing. If you can't spell--don't bother. If you can't have an intelligent conversation please don't waste my time! If you are lazy and/or unemployed, live with your mom or dad, are in the middle of a divorce (this means separated too!!!), have jealousy issues or really any issue with me going out with my friends get-lost!I am NOT religious in a traditional sense--will never be (I am a pantheist). Don't thump me in the head with a bible! I think the coolest thing is the diversity that religion offers--I am ashamed of those who think that what they believe is any better than the rest! I do believe in the 10 commandments--if that helps.Politics...hmmmm. Probably a liberal on the conservative side. I seem to get more conservative as I get older.If you have pictures of your kids on THIS website there is something wrong with you and I would prefer never to hear from you. Please don't allow your children to be the awwww factor--It is just plain gross! They shouldn't even meet a new "friend" until a few months into a relationship.Your opinion is just as important as mine.Honesty is the best policy! Somewhere for a drink or coffee, walk at the lake--public. I am not just gonna swing by your place or have you to mine before I meet you!

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  • Londyn from Schwenksville | Woman | 34 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I am 34 years old and tired of the whole bar scene. If you are just looking for a piece of a** leave me alone. If you decide to message me please write more than one word that is rude and totally inappropriate. I like white guys between the ages of 28 and 37. I am looking for a great guy and when I say great that's what I mean, not these ***hole's that seem to think they are GOD. I have a son he is 12 years old who is my world so if you don't like kids do not even bother talking to me. Not trying to be mean but just being honest. I don't have time to deal with someone else's problems.I don't want anymore kids or raise anyone else's. My son is number one and I want him to be number one in my life also in my significant other's life. I want someone who can take care of themselves and don't need their own babysitter. If you are 30 years old and have never left your parents house, have no job, no car and no education and are stuck up your mother's a** then leave me the hell alone. I have one child to raise I am not about to raise you either. If your on drugs or have to take pills for the rest of you life to stay off drugs don't bother either. I am not dealing with any sh*t anymore I am a great person and I deserve to be treated that way. I want a guy that is affectionate and attentive. Someone that will be there for me just as I will be there for them. I love attention-I need a lot of attention. A guy with a great sense of humor, someone that cannot only laugh at others for being funny but also at themselves. Cause God knows I laugh at myself all the time. Sometimes I am not the brightest crayon in the box lol. :) I want to feel the butterflies again. I would love to try new things. I have never really gotten a chance to try a lot of things so new things sound amazing. I love going out to dinner, movies, concerts. I love sitting by the water and just breathing in the fresh air. I can be very shy at first and nervous but if someone can make me comfortable and feel secure it is an amazing feeling. I guess it just depends on the situation. I would maybe like to go to dinner and then maybe take a walk by the water and watch the sunset. I can be very shy at first and get nervous easily, but if I am comfortable then look the f*ck out. I won't shutup. lol ***\\***Plz***\\\***Put This***On Your***account If***You Know***\\\***Someone***\\***Who Died***\***Of***\\\***Cancer***

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  • Alana from Schwenksville | Woman | 35 years old | Aries
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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    My family (including my fur babies), friends and job are very important to me; everything else is a bonus. I love to travel... Such great memories. I am looking forward to traveling some more and to hopefuly find some one who would like to join me.....I have a great job and I work hard but in my spare time, I like to walk my dogs (2), go to live rodeos, country fairs and outdoor concerts. Although I like a lot of different music it is country I listen to most often. I have recently starting learning french... mais je prefere l'anglais lol....My favorite sports are bull riding and football, and my favorite seasons are summer and fall. I don't own a bike, but love to ride. I love to swim (as long as the water is weed free, lol), boating, kayaking as well as camping and hiking. This past summer I have taken up paddle boarding and really enjoyed it. I am not afraid to try new things. I am looking for a mature man who has a good heart. Best of luck out there......

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