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Sanda, 54

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About Me

Depending on the situation or activity, I can be low-key and reserved or high-energy. And, it's difficult to compare myself with others but I feel I'm in very good physical shape...I enjoy hiking, cycling (road cycling and rail-trails) and still use my cross-country skis. My preference would be to enjoy your company and get to know you while we spend time together outdoors...why don't we meet up to go kayaking, canoeing, hiking, or sailing together? (There are many rivers and lakes to explore in Pa.) When I have any free time, I prefer spending it outdoors or going to concerts. I studied visual arts in college and taught arts & humanities for most of my career.- June through mid- At some point, I would like to ..canoe in the Adirondackes, sail anywhere, hike in the White Mts. of NH, Shining Rock Wilderness Area in NC or State Parks in Pa., do some star-gazing in remote areas, and find time to draw/paint outdoors. I've had to be practical while raising my daughter and have stuck it out for her (in the middle of nowhere and hours from anywhere). Now that I can retire..or cut back to an easier part-time job, I will have more time to travel. I am seeking direction on this site (but, I wonder is this too idealistic or unrealistic?..).), enjoy the outdoors, learn a folk ***, and spend more of my free time volunteering. Music: americana 'roots', folk, world, celtic, swing/big band, some rock. Favorite recent songs: 'That's the way love goes.' (Shawn Colvin &; Ride). Books: currently reading The Plot Against America. Favorite books last year: The Warmth of Other Suns: The Epic Story of America's Great Migration, Blink, Outliers. It's also nice to get together for an activity such as a hike.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    The dreaded box that is supposed to tell any and all possible readers about ourselves and what we are looking for. Sounds easy enough ... So then why do I have writers block ? Laughter and great conversation are at the top of my list. A real connection with someone who genuinely wants to get to know me and will allow me the honor to know his thoughts and feelings. I would like to have someone in my life , to share adventures , bottles of wine , silly text messages. I am easy going and do not come with a big bag of drama ! It is a start at least ... Update : It donned on me this morning that online dating is kind of like shoe shopping ...When I first hit the "search" button and all the various profiles come up on my screen, I recognize the same excited feeling I get when I enter a shoe store. All the many types and styles catch my curious eye. At first darting quickly from one to another, and then, choosing a few that make my heart race - just a little. I see the flashy, sparkly man / stiletto. Always a good choice for a fun night out. Alas, in the end however, the evening usually ends with my feet feeling a little sore and my heart longing for more.The athletic man / shoe is also a choice at times. Flash forward to climbing The Grouse Grind as a first date. I am sucking on my asthma inhaler , my perfectly straightened hair going frizzy from all the perspiring I am doing and my water bottle being drank with the same enjoyment that I sometimes feel for a lovely bottle of Pinot Grigio. Not always my first choice, but with the right encouragement can be good for the soul.High on the shelf there is also the comfy man / shoe. Perfect for quiet evenings at home, watching a movie or grabbing take out food. Sweet. The never go wrong kind of guy / shoe. The ever popular flip flops / man ! Let's grab a blanket and head to the beach with your guitar and some food ! ( Note to self : get a pedicure ) Oh , and then there are boots / men !!.. The choices are endless ... Some days on here, a few catch my eye. Some days, I need to keep looking as nothing quite fits my life right now. I wonder what today will bring ?Good luck to all in finding just the right fit for our perfect day !! A bottle of wine and a quiet spot , so we can have a real conversation.

  • Leonida

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Men that I have been serious with have all been different in many ways. Most of the men I have been attracted to are athletic and good looking at least to me. My 21 year old son lives with me some of the time and enjoy the time I spend with him.( which isn't much) I am a teacher part time. I also tutor at an after school program. I used to ride and train horses at the racetrack. I lived many places in the eastern part of the country. I loved living near the beach and traveling. I returned home after an injury and completed college. I live independently and would like to have someone special in my life. I like to be outdoors, riding my horse in the woods. My parents lived a lifetime of happiness together. They enjoyed their family and the simple things that mean the most in life. I would like to find what they had. maybe meet and have dinner and talk to get to know each other. Maybe go for a walk. something that we both would like to do.

  • Dionne

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I told my friend this is what I'm looking for. She thought it was cute and told me I should use it the next time I make a profile. This should tell you something about my personality... any good looking (or mediocre) rich (or at least working) with a cool (or at least running) car, and living on his own (or with a dog) SINGLE guys! He MUST be sarcastic, or at least have a thick enough skin to not be offended easily! I'm not a mean sarcastic, just a fun one... :)I love camping, country music, riding quads and being on the back of a motorcycle (but it's not a requirement for my guy to have one!) , my dog (minpin/chichiuhau mix) I like gardening (flowers mostly), woodworking, hiking, the ocean, the mountains, big cities, and small towns. I live in the country and was born and raised there, but have also lived in a small town.I like Nascar but haven't gotten to go to a race for a few years.I've been at the same job for almost 8 years. I drive a Subaru Forester, which isn't paid off but also is paid for by me and me alone. One of the most important things to me is honesty. I've been let down by the best. It's left me sad, but not bitter and still able to believe there's one good one still out there for me.Also, if you live more than an hour away, I'm probably not the one for you. I believe distance can be a huge factor in a good relationship.I don't wanna give you all the dish...we'll need something to talk about on the phone and maybe a first date! Take care and happy fishing!p.s. I don't believe in chatting on here for weeks either. If you are genuinely looking for someone special, you will make the time to meet early on and save each other time. if you're not compatible, you can get back to fishing..if you are, well...then let the good times roll!p.s.s isn't it common courtesy to respond to a person who says hi to you? when in public, do you just rudely turn your back and walk away when someone says hi? why is it ok to do it on here? if someone takes the time to drop you a line, the least you could do is respond with a NO THANK YOU if you're not interested. A first date can be anything from a drive in the country, a walk in the park, dinner, or just an ice cream cone. But, it's important to be in a public place until we are both comfortable.

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