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Aldrich, 54
United States, New York, Lake Grove

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About Me

i am generally happy, fairly well-adjusted man. not a boy, but a man. chivalrous (my armor is currently rusting in the garage but i can drag it out and polish it up for the right woman), romantic (i cry at movies - i had a wonderful upbringing, my parents were so normal it's kinda creepy. really, who has normal parents for crying out loud. i have a great many interests and pursuits. anything outdoors, especially in or near water. skating, mountain biking, snowboarding or just getting lost in the woods - got breadcrumbs ? and lest you think i'm only a jock, i also qualify as a culture vulture : museums, art and design, a huge appreciation for the built environment. a perpetual tourist, enjoy playing in the city or going far enough that cellular cannot reach. also an intense interest in music, live or otherwise, it's always on and moves me. people (who i pay well) describe me as kind, affectionate and a true giver. also as their favorite renaissance man as i am one of those who can build or fix anything, well except the human condition.i'm 6' tall, 165#, still move like i am ***ok, ***just turned ***still very ggg) and very much unencumbered. which means that i am an empty nester for the first time in 18 years and i am enjoying it. i would prefer the same (isn't it nice to not have to worry about closing the door ?). my amazing 20 year old son is out on his own and it is wonderful and sad all at once. where did the years go...what i seek: a woman close in age with a youthful spirit (the inner child should be available at the first sign of a silly string fight), intelligent, witty (laughing at me counts just as much). happy and living in the present. hopefully she would like camping (in style and comfort) and the outdoors as much as she would enjoy getting dressed for dinner at musso and frank's. of course this like everything else in life is negotiable. i'm nothing if not a realist. i would prefer a woman with a bit of an edge and did i mention happy with herself and her life ? like everyone else i'm visual so please provide some full-length photos. i did (do the jeans in pic #3 make my butt look big ?) cute shoes and a killer smile much appreciated. so how did i do ? if nothing else i hope that you get a laugh out this and are enjoying your search. this is supposed to be fun wouldn't you think ? a nice way to meet for the first time would be someplace quiet. perhaps at the bar so as to sit closer and to be able to really hear what each other is saying eye to eye without the imposed spacing of a table.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

French Spanish Vietnamese Adult Mystery Romance Archery Sailing Tennis
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