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Jayson, 53
United States, New York, Holtsville

Offline, last seen Thu, 19 Mar 2026 06:06:02

About Me

I’m looking for a best friend and playmate, someone who would rather get out and paddle a canoe than lounge on a cruise ship; who thinks music is for dancing; and who’s always up for trying something new. But more than that, I’m looking for someone who wants to get to know me as deeply as I want to know her, and has the emotional intelligence to get there. Someone who listens as well as I do, responds with empathy more easily than anger, takes responsibility for her stuff, and challenges me to take responsibility for mine. We all have baggage, but if we open the suitcase and get to know what’s inside, it becomes part of what makes us interesting.About me: gentle, thoughtful, easy-going, kind, wicked smart, generous to a fault, and frequently guilty of atrocious puns. I try to live with integrity in as many ways as I can: honesty in relationships, work that helps the planet, bringing a smile to the people I run into during the day. I work way too much, but I still seem to fit more play into my life than just about anybody I know.What’s the most fun you’ve had recently? Walking, talking, laughing, losing track of time.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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