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Bernie, 51

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About Me

I am a compassionate, sincere and a generous person; deep in culture, rich in spirit and in touch with my soul. I am funny in a sarcastic and playful way, and I have never outgrown my inner child and never will, I like to enjoy all that life has to offer while staying youthful in spirit! Life is an adventure and you truly have to treat it as such! For my work, I travel some, including WPB - I Truly have a passion and love for all that is in a warmer climate.I enjoy being outdoors in nature, being active, and working towards being of a more sound mind while staying more physically fit! I am always on the go, no couch potato here, but I do like my down time where I like to read, cook, watch a good movie in front of the fireplace or just talk and chill. I love my Lab, and spend a ton of time exercising and playing, so if you don't like the beach or you are not a dog lover, I am not for you.I am craddled in positive energy, and do not have the time for those who espouse negativity or who are judgmental or prejudiced in any way. I am interested in those who give back and who are selfless; that in and of itself is the essence to this life, the more you give the more you get. If you have a similar outlook in life, are drama free, adventurous, active, physically fit, a sports fan, especially FOOTBALL and enjoy the beach with a roaring fire, then even better!! Long term I am interested in meeting someone who is solid, who is spiritually, intellectually, emotionally and physically connected with me. I believe in developing a friendship first and allowing the foundation to settle.;Wow" factor for each of us, and then choose to embrace and commit to what we both feel and see. Namaste. “ Put out some healthy food to nibble on & enjoy GR8 conversation. Watch the sunset.”""

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Weston

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    Man. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 50-60

    I am an active, caring, funny, educated, social and romantic man who is looking for a woman who embraces life, is emotionally stable, has a great sense of humor, and is over any past relationships. I think trust is the foundation of any relationship. Without trust you can’t really have a relationship. My parents were not just husband and wife, they were best friends as well, and I want that in my life.I love the sun and being outdoors. I enjoy bicycling, water skiing, fishing, and just plain being outside, no matter what I am doing. I like trying new restaurants and like almost all kinds of food and a good beer, but most importantly great company. I have 3 children and they are my top priority. So I would prefer someone who also has kids and is preferably divorced, because otherwise you might not “get it”.I like to write and could write a book about me and who I am looking for, but I don’t want this to become War & Peace. I can share more later if you like. In the meantime I’ll try to be brief.My profile is what it is; honest and current although I need more photos. I am a soccer dad. I used to drive a minivan. Now I drive a VW convertible, but often miss the practicality of the minivan. I have no sports cars or motorcycles so if you are looking for all that you are looking at the wrong profile. Not that I don’t like those things, in fact I love them, I just don’t have them now. They may be in my near future.I also avoided the pictures of me holding dead animals. And the bare-chested speedo shot. I suppose I could supply one if necessary. Sans the Speedo though. I only have traditional swim trunks. I am not vain but we are probably not compatible if :1. YOUR PROFILE IS ALL IN CAPS and contains numerous speling errers.2. You have 20 pictures, 18 of them are from your vacations, and you are not in them. If we ever meet I would LOVE to look at your vacation pictures, but right now I am interested in learning about you, not a beach.3. Your only pictures are from the neck up. Come on, if we eventually meet (isn't that the goal?) unless you're wearing a box with a hole in the top, I will see you.4. You have more than 3 cats.5. I need to be the masculine one; it’s a guy thing.My ideal woman would iron my shirts in 1 minute flat, get me a beer the first time I asked and be able to start a lawnmower on the first pull. Just kidding!I don't watch a lot of TV but I love the early stages of "American Idol" (the idiot rounds), "The Office" reruns, & "Tosh.0". If you watch those last 2 shows and don't laugh we probably won't hit it off. I also find Jenna Marbles on YouTube amusing, although I can see that getting old soon.If you read this far, bless you. If my outlook and humor have not turned you off I would love to hear from you.Favorite & somewhat recent movies include The HangoverI & II, Bridesmaids, & I love the Lethal Weapon, Die Hard, &Finally, I want to point out that while looks are important to me, and are certainly something, looks aren’t the only thing. I do care about looks, but they have been rearranged on my priority list. The rest of your life is a long time. Looks fade, and when they do you better be with someone who you can talk to & carry on a conversation with. I also think personality plays a huge role in attractiveness. I have met very attractive women that I could not stand to be around because of their personality or intelligence. If you don’t have some redeeming qualities past looks, I won't find you attractive. A drink somewhere that has atmosphere, where we can talk. I am wide open for possibilities. I think if we chat we can probably figure out something we both would like. Not a movie. That is a 2nd or 3rd date activity, not a first date.

  • Lee

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    Man. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 51-61

    I wish to attract a nice lady to be my trusted companion, lover, friend, and teacher. I'm looking for someone possessing warm feminine qualities and an affinity for physical affection and touch. And most important of all, someone who understands and welcomes my innate desire to simply be myself when in her company… imperfections and all. The very same would be extended to her, of course.I'm loyal and trustworthy and of the monogamous variety. My words are solid and backed by integrity and followthrough. On the topics of loyalty and faithfulness — I have never deceived a female partner who walked the path with me, nor will I ever, and you can take that to the bank. I'm honest and transparent, even when situations arise that make it challenging to do so.I'm slender, physically active, youthful in spirit and body, and a non smoker. I wish to attract a lady having these same qualities. I have an enormous amount of gratitude for my health. I'm romantic, funny in a dry Northeastern way, and I like to tease and prank and surprise. My favorite sport is motocross, of which I'm a former participant and current fan. I don't follow traditional stick and ball sports.I'd like to meet a lady who can go-with-the-flow of life's unfolding rather than swimming against the current of what-is. I have little tolerance for unnecessary relationship drama because it's such a waste of life's precious energy! This is our time and it's a time for fun, joyfulness, playfulness, and lightheartedness.If you have emotional buttons or triggers— welcome to the human race! I feel it's unrealistic and naive to expect any person to have escaped the gauntlet of life's conditioning, since we've all been marinating in it forever. I feel it's important to have an awareness of what our buttons or triggers are so we can actively practice not reacting to them. It has been said that those who stomp on our buttons are in our lives specifically to do so, in order to help us grow.Whether a potential love connection lasts 30 minutes or 30 years is beyond me to predict or control. I'll get out of the way and allow life to dictate how that manifests and simply enjoy the surprise. Marriage does not guarantee happiness in my view, so while I'm open to considering whatever live brings, including marriage, it's not something I long for or need in order to be happy. I feel true happiness is an inside job, rather than being something we discover outside ourselves. And, for the record, I do not pretend to have the pursuit of happiness all figured out. Regardless, as you well know… the right partner can sure add some sweet icing to the cake!— as I was when I was 4. Simple pleasures like sitting hand-in-hand with that special someone, receiving a surprise package in the mail, or smelling apple crisp in the oven on a cool fall day can leave me as happy as a pig in mud. I don't need to be doing what some may consider extraordinary things to be content. Life's simple pleasures, of all sorts, really float my boat.I've filled my life with activities that scare me a little, or a lot, and I love the feeling of aliveness derived from those pursuits. I enjoy going out from time to time but always enjoy returning home where I can recharge. Seen on a bar graph I'd probably show up as 80% homebody and 20% party animal. I'm super-grateful for the way my home, car, and possessions take care of me so I take care of them in return. I maintain a clean home and I'm an organized person. I remove my shoes in the house, for example, and I'd do so whether I owned a multimillion dollar home or I was tenting in the woods. I'm very intrigued by contemplating the changeless force that animates our bodies and presumably doesn't die with the bodysuit I'm in. I enjoy studying many aspects of spiritual expansion. I'm not at all religious and view much of religions manmade doctrine as divisive.I'm a creative person, dabbling in things like singing, drumming, songwriting, photography, and videography. I very much enjoy many creative aspects of the Apple computer platform and spend a fair amount of time there.By choice, I'm currently unemployed. I'm using this hiatus to thoughtfully create the next chapter of my working life. I'm motivated by helping and inspiring people and want to do exactly that through the integration of several personal interests.Thanks for reading and best wishes! PS: Don't be frightened by this lengthy profile— I'm not nearly as much of a chatterbox in person. In the history of man there has never been a better dating tool than the internet, so I figure why not be as specific as possible? If you're interested after all this detail I may have made a really fine connection? Whatever would make my date feel most comfortable and safe.

  • Danial

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    Man. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 48-58

    I like going out to dinner, movies, concerts, or just chilling at home. I really like sports (hockey and football mainly). I’m looking for someone attractive, smart, funny, loyal and a true friend.

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