Lee, 54
Online
About Me
I wish to attract a nice lady to be my trusted companion, lover, friend, and teacher. I'm looking for someone possessing warm feminine qualities and an affinity for physical affection and touch. And most important of all, someone who understands and welcomes my innate desire to simply be myself when in her company… imperfections and all. The very same would be extended to her, of course.I'm loyal and trustworthy and of the monogamous variety. My words are solid and backed by integrity and followthrough. On the topics of loyalty and faithfulness — I have never deceived a female partner who walked the path with me, nor will I ever, and you can take that to the bank. I'm honest and transparent, even when situations arise that make it challenging to do so.I'm slender, physically active, youthful in spirit and body, and a non smoker. I wish to attract a lady having these same qualities. I have an enormous amount of gratitude for my health. I'm romantic, funny in a dry Northeastern way, and I like to tease and prank and surprise. My favorite sport is motocross, of which I'm a former participant and current fan. I don't follow traditional stick and ball sports.I'd like to meet a lady who can go-with-the-flow of life's unfolding rather than swimming against the current of what-is. I have little tolerance for unnecessary relationship drama because it's such a waste of life's precious energy! This is our time and it's a time for fun, joyfulness, playfulness, and lightheartedness.If you have emotional buttons or triggers— welcome to the human race! I feel it's unrealistic and naive to expect any person to have escaped the gauntlet of life's conditioning, since we've all been marinating in it forever. I feel it's important to have an awareness of what our buttons or triggers are so we can actively practice not reacting to them. It has been said that those who stomp on our buttons are in our lives specifically to do so, in order to help us grow.Whether a potential love connection lasts 30 minutes or 30 years is beyond me to predict or control. I'll get out of the way and allow life to dictate how that manifests and simply enjoy the surprise. Marriage does not guarantee happiness in my view, so while I'm open to considering whatever live brings, including marriage, it's not something I long for or need in order to be happy. I feel true happiness is an inside job, rather than being something we discover outside ourselves. And, for the record, I do not pretend to have the pursuit of happiness all figured out. Regardless, as you well know… the right partner can sure add some sweet icing to the cake!— as I was when I was 4. Simple pleasures like sitting hand-in-hand with that special someone, receiving a surprise package in the mail, or smelling apple crisp in the oven on a cool fall day can leave me as happy as a pig in mud. I don't need to be doing what some may consider extraordinary things to be content. Life's simple pleasures, of all sorts, really float my boat.I've filled my life with activities that scare me a little, or a lot, and I love the feeling of aliveness derived from those pursuits. I enjoy going out from time to time but always enjoy returning home where I can recharge. Seen on a bar graph I'd probably show up as 80% homebody and 20% party animal. I'm super-grateful for the way my home, car, and possessions take care of me so I take care of them in return. I maintain a clean home and I'm an organized person. I remove my shoes in the house, for example, and I'd do so whether I owned a multimillion dollar home or I was tenting in the woods. I'm very intrigued by contemplating the changeless force that animates our bodies and presumably doesn't die with the bodysuit I'm in. I enjoy studying many aspects of spiritual expansion. I'm not at all religious and view much of religions manmade doctrine as divisive.I'm a creative person, dabbling in things like singing, drumming, songwriting, photography, and videography. I very much enjoy many creative aspects of the Apple computer platform and spend a fair amount of time there.By choice, I'm currently unemployed. I'm using this hiatus to thoughtfully create the next chapter of my working life. I'm motivated by helping and inspiring people and want to do exactly that through the integration of several personal interests.Thanks for reading and best wishes! PS: Don't be frightened by this lengthy profile— I'm not nearly as much of a chatterbox in person. In the history of man there has never been a better dating tool than the internet, so I figure why not be as specific as possible? If you're interested after all this detail I may have made a really fine connection? Whatever would make my date feel most comfortable and safe.
PERSONAL INFORMATION
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Looking for
woman
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Relationship
Never married
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Have kids
No
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Wants kids
No
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Ethnicity
Caucasian
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Faith
Other
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Body type
Slim
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Height
5'8"
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Eye color
Blue
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Smoke
No
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Drink
No
INTERESTS
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