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Elise, 46
United States, Nebraska, York

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About Me

Life needs to be truly celebrated, and I try to do that in all ways possible. There are lots of things I'm passionate about, but all you really need to know is my son is #1 in my life... music, friends and family are tied for second, good food & good wine, and career is definitely in there somewhere. I'm pretty well-travelled, have lived in many places, and lean to the far left on all things political and social- not afraid to debate but don't ever think you can change my POV, and to be honest, as open-minded as I am, I'd prefer someone with the same left- I also think religion is the opiate of the masses and a detriment to society! I don't feel guilty for celebrating life, but I believe everyone deserves to celebrate it, and I try to help others when I can. I've so far had an interesting time on this earth with amazing experiences; it's how I've developed such independence and strength. I'm self-sufficient and don't "need" a man, but wouldn't mind sharing some of life's experiences with the right person because I'm human and we're made to couple (most of us). Open and unhindered communication is essential with me, as well as a sense of humor and some good house music (if you don't know what that is, I'll pass). I try to be considerate of your time and space, as long as you respect mine and know that nothing is more important than raising a child in a stable, safe and loving home. Tattoos are a bonus. I'm also not offended by killer abs.***update*** After being active on here for a couple of weeks, I have received messages from some of you attacking some of my interests... Look, it's real simple. If you don't like it, why bother wasting your energy telling me you don't like it? Just move along. And, don't ask dumb questions like, "Are you really a Marxist?". Just because I have an interest in Marxism doesn't make me a Marxist (news flash, I live in the USA, a capitalist society). I'm also interested in Native American culture. But that doesn't make me a Native American. I'm interested in neuroscience, too. Doesn't make me a neuroscientist. Cop on people. I don't respond to stupid questions or hateful ***, and have a nice day.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hardcore Pop French Greek Vietnamese Bowling
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