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Lillie, 49

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About Me

I am very active and enjoy most outdoor activities. I run, cycle, hike, swim, and I like to do races of all kinds. I'm not competitive; I like the medals :) These are the sorts of things I like to do in my spare time. I also enjoy traveling and checking out new places locally, out of state, and even internationally. I'm not much of a tv watcher, but I do like movies--sometimes. I enjoy reading probably more than watching tv, and reading is pretty much part of my job anyway. I also enjoy good conversation. I like to hear and consider different viewpoints, but I do not like to argue. A sense of humor is essential, as is a social life. I'd like to be with someone who is comfortable meeting and hanging out with my friends, but who wants to include me in his circle of friends, as well. When it comes to dating, I am very picky about three things: having things in common, feeling comfortable, and having chemistry. All three gotta be in place.I really hate writing this laundry list. I know it's necessary, but it makes me come across as very stiff and pragmatic. Don't get me wrong, I'm definitely cursed with a Type-A personality for some things, but when dealing with people, especially someone I'm dating, I love to laugh, have a good time, make jokes, and just enjoy our time together. I can usually do a pretty good job of keeping the type-A stuff under control ;) A quick and painless drink together just to see if there's a connection.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Carlee

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I'm really hoping to meet an HONEST man that CAN and WILL be faithful. He's gotta be outgoing and willing to do things with me...fun. I'm pretty family oriented, so I hope he is ok with that and that he is too. I love to spend time together; whether it's movies, drives, shooting pool, shooting, dinner, family get togethers or with friends, karaoke, clubs, or staying in and cuddling. I love a wide variety of activities. But I also love to spend time with my man alone. Goals: do really well in my career and see my grandbabies grow up, see my kids successful. I want to see them all happy. I was married for a long time, been single even longer. I was born and raised in the South and proud of it. However, I have lived in many places, being ex military spouse and Travel Nurse. I am not close minded about my dating...I hope he's not either. If you wanna ask me...ask me what I mean. What makes me unique is Im more openminded than MOST women, period...lolMy taste in music runs anywhere from Country, Techno, R&B, Top 40s...try me. Favorite foods?...Favorite is seafood, least Fav is Mexican. A first date can be so many different things. Always want it to be in a public place though. None of this "well, we can order in" or "you can come over here" stuff. PLEASE. A nice dinner in a place that's not LOUD is good for conversation and getting confortable with each other. Maybe a movie that we both are interested in to help us relax with each other, but then we need a chance to talk. Sometimes it's nice to meet over a cup of coffee or a drink and talk. I also like to sit and talk with a good beer,(maybe wings).. First dates don't always have to be the same and don't have to be limited to certain things. But should always be in a public location.

  • Alice

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I absolutely hate this whole on line dating thing but where else can a person in this day and age find someone to have a relationship? I am not looking for marriage right away but for a relationship that could possibly eventually lead somewhere. I am tired of being alone, how about you?I have been single for a long time so in a lot of ways I am used to it BUT it would be nice to have a special someone. I am self sufficient financially, emotionally and physically. I don't "Need" a man, but would like to find someone in which to spend my free time. My profile pictures are not the best (I think I look better in person).I am looking for a Christian man. A man who has a relationship with Jesus, but doesn't have to talk about it all the time. One that shows it through their actions *** you are overly religious you are not for me.I am NOT into the whole party scene. I enjoy spending time working around the house or relaxing. I work hard so that I can relax. I like going on adventures, watching movies at home or at the movie theater. Cooking & Baking are also fun.A lot of guys say they do not want drama or games, neither do I. I absolutely do not like drama or games, I don't participate so if you are looking for a player, I am not for you. Honesty is very important and so are trust, if you have trouble with these, please pass me by. Finally any addiction issues, well not interested in those either.The achievements that I am most proud of are my two wonderful kids, and earning my college degree while working full time, wife/mother. It was a lot of hard work but once again worth it.The best first dates are a quiet restaurant in which to really visit and get to know each other. Best date I ever had was a boat ride in the middle of the lake, we just sat, talked & enjoyed the night sky & quiet.Love to hear from you.p. s. please be sure you have a picture, I am not comfortable responding to anyone that doesn't have a picture. On a "first date" I would do like to do something casual such as going to a quiet restaurant or Star Bucks. I think the first date or two should be time invested in really getting to know if it is even worth putting in more time and effort.

  • Jayde

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I am a happy fun lady who is looking to have fun and enjoy living. I am wanting someone who wants to get out and do things and who can stay home and enjoy being at home for the day as well. I love going to the beach, riding bikes, hiking, swimming and almost anything outside. I would appreciate someone who likes being outside as well. I am open to doing new things and trying things I haven't yet experienced also. I love going out to eat. My favorite food is seafood. I love sushi and oysters as well as shrimp, lobster, crab legs and gator tail.I am very honest, maybe too honest. I would appreciate the same in any man I meet. There is no need to be someone else when we meet and then change in a week or two. Being yourself is far more important to me. I am very down to earth and am hopeful that I can meet someone laid back and easy going. Sometimes I can be too serious and try not to take everything so serious except when I absolutely need to haha.I am a hard worker who likes to leave work behind when I am not there. I am independent and appreciate someone who also works hard but can enjoy himself when he leaves his work. I have 2 older sons ages 17 and 21. I have raised them myself and did an awesome job as one is about to graduate from college and the other high school. I am not looking to raise anymore children. Just wanted to put that out there. Life for me is about me now and moving forward beyond the children phase.Life is short and I am excited in finding that person who excites me just by hearing his voice. I want to be the one he thinks of and can't wait to see at the end of his day. I want to be like the kid in the candy store that gets to buy her favorite candy no matter what it is and gets to open the prettiest fanciest package under the tree at Christmas. I am looking for love, happiness and excitement. I hope it is out there somewhere. A first date should be somewhere where we can talk and get to know some basic information about each other and mainly get past any nerves that either of us may have on a first date. We could go to dinner or have drinks or meet in a park or the mall. Depending on our connection could determine all of this. I think talking on the phone a few times before meeting is important for me to see if we connect. The weekends are the best time for me to go on dates at first.

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