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Gwendolyn, 49
United States, Minnesota, Stillwater

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About Me

I'm looking for my best friend who wants to have a normal, happy life and home. Someone to grow old with. You could say I want what my parents had. My kids are grown except for my 18 year old still in school. I'm a kid at heart, I love life and feel I have been blessed with wonderful family and friends. I'm a pretty content person and I don't need someone to "make me happy", if that makes sense, yet I want to have someone with whom to share all life has to offer. I was married at the age of 20 and spent over 20 years hoping things would get better. Being married to an alcoholic, I don't have tolerance for heavy drinkers and drunks, I don't like being around them. It's not that I have anything against someone having an occasional drink, I can count on 1 hand how many drinks I've had in the last ***years, I can live without it. My faith is pretty important to me, it has gotten me through the tough times and has helped mold the person I am. I like animals, I volunteered last year at the Human Society's "Walk for Animals" along with my daughters. I've thought about volunteering at the humane society. I have one dog, my daughter has a cat and bird.I like Saturday and Sunday mornings, not being in a hurry to go anywhere, having my first cup of coffee with the sun streaming through the window. When it's not winter out, I like sitting outside in the morning with my coffee and listening to all the outdoor sounds. My favorite seasons are probably spring and fall. Summer is good too. Listening to music while working, cleaning, dancing with my grand daughter in the living room, I like most kinds of music, especially songs with meaning to them. One Republic is probably one of my favorites lately. And I will sing out loud sometimes, much to my 18 year old's dismay, I am pretty sure I sometimes mouth the words to songs at work too, when I have my earphones on. As long as no one hears me. Gardening is a hobby that I have been missing some. I am stuck with container gardening for now, working towards buying my own house, I don't care too much for apartment living, I miss having a yard to work in. Gardening is a good release after a day at work, getting my hands in the dirt. It's peaceful and a wonderful stress reliever and a good place to have a silent talk with God while pulling weeds....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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