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Barbara, 42

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About Me

I guess this is where I have to condense my life into a few short paragraphs, I will give it a shot. But I have to say-these profiles are mind-numbing, my account has ***matches nearby,and well honestly I lose interest after the first 12. I have always tried to keep my life well balanced. Spending time with family, friends, and on myself. I know what I want and where I am headed. I am pretty down to earth, way too honest, I hate drama, especially in my own life.I love spending time outside, you won’t find me in a gym, I would rather hike, walk or run outside. I will get on a treadmill as my last alternative, but it is way too boring. I have two amazing boys 8 and 10 who are always on the go. They live with me half of the time, maybe a little more. But our favorite place is just the good old outdoors, we can always find something on a walk/hike that is worth learning or to remember. We recently went on a overnight campout, and slept in a tent that I built, and a I have to say faster than the other guy!In my free time I can be found running, at the farmer’s market, cooking up a summer batch of my much requested salsa, or reading a book with a nice glass of wine. I don’t like to watch sports on TV much, or TV really, but I love going to baseball or hockey games.I was married for 15 years and get along well with my ex, no drama, just friends.Well short but sweet, I guess, it is a very small caption of me. I am very happy with my life, but as with everything I think there is always room for more..

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kala

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am looking for that certain chemistry that goes beyond words,the physical has to be there but without the right chemistry the physical fades fast.I'm am driven and love what I do, so hopefully someone with the same drive and passion. Being creative in my work life as well as my social life, also having a sense of humor about it all, and never taking myself or life to seriously.....being able to laugh is mandatory.I strive to live a healthy and overall well balanced life style between eating well working out and keeping it all in perspective.The rest will have to wait until we meet. Relaxed simple, grab a drink at a neighborhood bar, cafe.The most important thing is the company not the place.

  • Talullah

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Ok, so not sure what to put here.. But here goes.. I'm loyal, faithful and honest to a fault. Im far to old to play games. So you wont have to guess with me.I'd like to meet someone who's not into games, can take me as I am without attempting to change me. Can be there for me when i need someone and can back off when i dont. I dont want someone who wants to control my life but is willing to *** and be a part of it.I do not play games and wont be played. I am strong and independant. I dont need to be told that i need to loose weight or quit smoking, i'm very well aware of my faults and would rather not have them pointed out on a daily basis. I've alot to give the right person, and i'm loyal to a fault.Update: I actually quit smoking (again) in November of last year. I use an ECig now, and it gives me the kick I love without all the added chemicals which are harmful. I've joined a gym (again last year) and I'm working on getting healthier re my weight. I'm proud of my accomplishments and am working to continue this work. I like who I am!Note to those interested in me: I feel compelled to write this as its been my experiance that alot of the men who talk to me here seem inclined to jump right into discussing Sex. I'm not comfortable discussing sex with someone I dont really know yet. I'm sorry if this offends you, but i find it extremely disconcerting that alot of the guys I meet here, think its ok to jump right onto the sex topic after only a conversation or two. I need to take this slow. I'm an open and honest woman, i like sex as much if not more than most. However I dont want to be used. I want you to take the time to get to know me and I you before we become intimate. If this isnt what you want, i understand. I insist on being treated with respect. I'm not a pick-up in a bar who's too drunk to care about whats said to them. I'd love a little romance and surprise in my life

  • Gwendolyn

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I'm looking for my best friend who wants to have a normal, happy life and home. Someone to grow old with. You could say I want what my parents had. My kids are grown except for my 18 year old still in school. I'm a kid at heart, I love life and feel I have been blessed with wonderful family and friends. I'm a pretty content person and I don't need someone to "make me happy", if that makes sense, yet I want to have someone with whom to share all life has to offer. I was married at the age of 20 and spent over 20 years hoping things would get better. Being married to an alcoholic, I don't have tolerance for heavy drinkers and drunks, I don't like being around them. It's not that I have anything against someone having an occasional drink, I can count on 1 hand how many drinks I've had in the last ***years, I can live without it. My faith is pretty important to me, it has gotten me through the tough times and has helped mold the person I am. I like animals, I volunteered last year at the Human Society's "Walk for Animals" along with my daughters. I've thought about volunteering at the humane society. I have one dog, my daughter has a cat and bird.I like Saturday and Sunday mornings, not being in a hurry to go anywhere, having my first cup of coffee with the sun streaming through the window. When it's not winter out, I like sitting outside in the morning with my coffee and listening to all the outdoor sounds. My favorite seasons are probably spring and fall. Summer is good too. Listening to music while working, cleaning, dancing with my grand daughter in the living room, I like most kinds of music, especially songs with meaning to them. One Republic is probably one of my favorites lately. And I will sing out loud sometimes, much to my 18 year old's dismay, I am pretty sure I sometimes mouth the words to songs at work too, when I have my earphones on. As long as no one hears me. Gardening is a hobby that I have been missing some. I am stuck with container gardening for now, working towards buying my own house, I don't care too much for apartment living, I miss having a yard to work in. Gardening is a good release after a day at work, getting my hands in the dirt. It's peaceful and a wonderful stress reliever and a good place to have a silent talk with God while pulling weeds....

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