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Idelle, 45
United States, Minnesota, South Saint Paul

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About Me

I am looking for friendship and go from there. I am looking to find someone who knows how to treat a lady right. I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A SLEEPING BUDDY. So please dont ask me out if you have that one thing on your mind. I do not sleep with anyone on the first dates. Respect my decision. I am looking for the right one to someday hopefully have a life together with. Love to take road trips even though I dont get to very often. Love the mountains. I think they are very beautiful. I just want a man to love me and want to be loved back. I am a good woman looking for the right one. Yes I am into interracial dating. I could say that about other places. My last relationship was with a black man. And we lived here. It didnt work out because he was a liar not because of where we lived.And if you are just looking for a sleeping buddy then keep looking. Do not ask me out and expect sex. Will not happen. I am looking seriously for a relationship.Also be a man and if we go out and it dont work thats fine. I say up front you like me thats fine. If not thats fine too. But dont call me up and ask me out for a second date and then stand me up. I call that a man without balls. I come ***all the way and will tell you that and expect ***in return. I am a good woman and wont disrespect you unless you disrespect me.Is there any real honest old fashion men out there any more. I like dating black guys. So why can't I find one that will respect a relationship. Do you really have to have another woman on the side to make you happy or can you be happy with just one. Going to dinner or just somewhere talking and getting to know each other. Be a gentleman.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Metal Caribbean Chinese Middle Eastern Vietnamese Soccer / Football
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