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About Me

Hi everyone! :D I am an easy going, romantic person. I may be blonde, but I am an intellectual tending to get along well with men that have an education working in a professional career. I am educated to the level of Master degree. I have two children that I love with all of my heart at home with me. I am not a rich person but I am accomplished and successful in most things that I have tried to accomplish. I am a published book author, screenwriter, public speaker, and so creative, and courageous that there is no stopping me once I start working on a project. I am not religious, but spiritual. I believe in God and Jesus however believe that the Bible is a long man made document or novel of sorts. I am not picky about many things but fresh breathe and taking care of your teeth are important to me. If you are a player, please move on, I will not take heartbreak well. I love Earth/environmental things. I am a very independent person that needs time to do what I do and want to do but I am also very affectionate as well to the person that I want to share my time. I am not a fan of the male ego so if you are not a kind and loving person I do not need to hear from you. If you have any questions, please don’t be afraid to ask me. I am just being honest. ~Christy Somewhere quiet so we can talk.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Season

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am more attracted to tall black athletic men, just my preference......I have dated men from meetville before long term, it can work, just be honest . I am single because I am picky. I am told that I am much prettier in person, very laid back and direct. Very rarely do I even find anyone who interests me enough for a second date. I am hoping it is time for that to change :) I dont think we have perfect matches. I think we have chemistry, conversation and the rest is what we make of it. I am really looking for my best friend. My best friend that I call when I have great news, need to cry or just to vent. Is it too much to ask to get butterflies, goosebumps???I need the guy who can show me new things, test my limits, push me harder, someone who can tell me to shut up if my mouth gets out of control...Someone who shows me new views, teaches me new things that I have never experienced.I am looking for a long term relationship, lots of romance.I want a gentlemen, someone who opens the door all the time not just the first few dates, someone who is protective of what they want and have, someone who believes taking care of there family is number one job. I was married 13 years... I know it takes more courage to leave looking for wow than it does to stay and settle for okay.My friends would say that I am fiesty, fun, love to laugh,very passionate, loyal and have no filter. Laughing is so important:)I do not like people who are disrespectful, judgemental or talk down to others. Treat others the way you want to be treated. Pay things forward. Yes I have children however please do not ask about them at first. But...it is important to know the basics of what your getting into. I have a big family by choice.Having a big family is not crazy, busy, stressful or hard, it is a true blessing.I have no Daddy baby drama, we wrote our divorce together. I am not looking for a father for my children but a positive role model. Lastly,I hate drama and I am not here to play games. Dont tell me what you think I want to hear. Say what you mean and do what you say,even it is simple as a phone call. It is not about the phone call it is about your word. I believe men do the pursuing..old fashion yes but my beliefs. I need the guy who is going to step up and set himself aside from the rest.If you want to know something, then ask. I dont believe in a pre-conceived "this is who I am." I am alot of things and I could tell you but I would rather show you.MUST BE BETWEEN ***I HATE BS, THUGS OR PLAYERS - DO YOURSELF A FAVOR MOVE ONNO BABY DRAMANO JEALOUSY ISSUES OR CONTROL FREAKSMUST HAVE A JOB, CAR, OWN PLACEMUST NOT BE IN A RELATIONSHIP, SEPERATED OR THINKING ABOUT LEAVING CURRENT GIRLFRIEND Establish chemistry, move forward. Chemistry and conversation.

  • Abbye

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    BIG BOOTY WHITE GIRL... I can be shy initially, but once comfortable with someone, I can open up & be a goofball. Looking for someone who can make me laugh a LOT! I'm loyal and if I believe in something strongly, I fight for it. That's the passionate Scorpio in me. I am looking for my "soulmate". Chemistry is the key. That thing that is hard to explain but you know it when you've got it kind of thing. I have six tattoos. I have two boys, ages 24 & 19 who do not live with me. I have a weird sense of humor, & well it can be raunchy at times. My favorite color is purple, I love to work on crossword puzzles & sudokus. I am a leftie, my eyes are two different shades & I have an outie belly button. LOL. Is that TMI??; open to relocating to any warm climate area for Mr. Right.! I prefer to do outdoor activities & would love to do things like swimming, boating, water skiing (must learn how first), camping, chilling on the beach & enjoying the sunset. I love to shoot pool, bowling, movies, dancing, or just hanging out at home watching a movie together in bed. I also like playing cards, dominoes, miniature golf. Used to play volleyball and softball on a church league. We lost every game but we had fun so it's all good!I LOVE LOVE LOVE music, Favorite song right now is Simply Amazing by Trey Songz. See?Looking for a SINGLE HONEST man that is done playing games. I would love to find an intelligent, faithful, loving God-fearing man that LOVES to cook! I'm looking for that ONE guy. The one I connect with. The one I can talk to all day about anything and loose track of time. The one that can put me in my place when I'm wrong. The one that can take charge and BE the man. That is very sexy...My match would definitely be outgoing, to compliment my natural quiet nature. Looking for someone to have stimulating conversation with. It's okay that we don't see eye to eye on every subject as that would just be boring! I am interested in someone who is not afraid to discuss their feelings & thoughts. Someone who can be romantic at times, someone who loves to show affection & receive it. I want a man who likes to go on ADVENTURES!!! Any kind will do! Maybe at the drop of a hat go away for the weekend and do something fun or travel overseas & EXPLORE!!! Very importantly he has to LOVE a woman with meat on her bones. I would love to go to a football game or basketball game or hockey game or boxing match or whatever. I love sports and very willing to do those things with my man!I'm not looking for someone to solve all my problems. I'm looking for someone who won't let me face them alone.";. Bob MarleyThe strength of a man isn't in how many women he's loved. It's in how true he can be to the ONE woman he's trying to love.Finding someone who's worth waking up to is better than finding someone to sleep with.Every man needs a woman when his life is a mess, because just like in a game of chess; the QUEEN protects the KING. Anything fun!

  • Lorriane

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Here comes the sales pitch... I love music of most genres, and I'm a great dancer.. I'm a good conversationalist, and a great listener. My friends say I'm easy to get along with.. I am told that people are drawn to me, and I generally find the good in éverything. I'm no Pollyanna,but I do believe that something good always comes with something bad. We are here to learn from each other,because everyone has a purpose.I read more than I watch tv,and am currently reading Atlas Shrugged. I like to go to movies and discuss them after. Scary (but not gory) movies are always fun.My nieces and nephews think I am the funnest adult they know,.because I always make time for them. What happens with this aunt,stays with this aunt.I love to travel, I can be adventerous if I know what to expect. I don't like surprises, but am always willing to try something new. I love to people watch and imagine what their lives are like. This turns into a game with my friends sometimes. .I love my job, and I'm good at it. I work hard, but also play hard. I'm very liberal and open-minded. I'm not afraid to give my opinion if asked (and honestly,will give my opinion even if I'm not asked.) I like to hear other people's opinions on things that interest me, especially in politics and religion. We don't have to agree to get along. Life's too short to sit out the dance. I think first dates can be awkward...you don't know each other, maybe you're both nervous, you're wondering if you'll like anything about each other...so I think it's best to have an open mind. Go for a second and even third date. If there's nothing by then, move on.

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