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I am more attracted to tall black athletic men, just my preference......I have dated men from meetville before long term, it can work, just be honest . I am single because I am picky. I am told that I am much prettier in person, very laid back and direct. Very rarely do I even find anyone who interests me enough for a second date. I am hoping it is time for that to change :) I dont think we have perfect matches. I think we have chemistry, conversation and the rest is what we make of it. I am really looking for my best friend. My best friend that I call when I have great news, need to cry or just to vent. Is it too much to ask to get butterflies, goosebumps???I need the guy who can show me new things, test my limits, push me harder, someone who can tell me to shut up if my mouth gets out of control...Someone who shows me new views, teaches me new things that I have never experienced.I am looking for a long term relationship, lots of romance.I want a gentlemen, someone who opens the door all the time not just the first few dates, someone who is protective of what they want and have, someone who believes taking care of there family is number one job. I was married 13 years... I know it takes more courage to leave looking for wow than it does to stay and settle for okay.My friends would say that I am fiesty, fun, love to laugh,very passionate, loyal and have no filter. Laughing is so important:)I do not like people who are disrespectful, judgemental or talk down to others. Treat others the way you want to be treated. Pay things forward. Yes I have children however please do not ask about them at first. But...it is important to know the basics of what your getting into. I have a big family by choice.Having a big family is not crazy, busy, stressful or hard, it is a true blessing.I have no Daddy baby drama, we wrote our divorce together. I am not looking for a father for my children but a positive role model. Lastly,I hate drama and I am not here to play games. Dont tell me what you think I want to hear. Say what you mean and do what you say,even it is simple as a phone call. It is not about the phone call it is about your word. I believe men do the pursuing..old fashion yes but my beliefs. I need the guy who is going to step up and set himself aside from the rest.If you want to know something, then ask. I dont believe in a pre-conceived "this is who I am." I am alot of things and I could tell you but I would rather show you.MUST BE BETWEEN ***I HATE BS, THUGS OR PLAYERS - DO YOURSELF A FAVOR MOVE ONNO BABY DRAMANO JEALOUSY ISSUES OR CONTROL FREAKSMUST HAVE A JOB, CAR, OWN PLACEMUST NOT BE IN A RELATIONSHIP, SEPERATED OR THINKING ABOUT LEAVING CURRENT GIRLFRIEND Establish chemistry, move forward. Chemistry and conversation.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ruby

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I really have no idea how to write about myself for one of these things, so hopefully people out there are nice. It is hard to say what I am looking for........I am not seeking out a marriage proposal. I am looking for someone to have fun with, someone who is genuine, honest, and a good person.....if you are the right person, it seems that things would just naturally fall into place. So here goes.... I am first and foremost a mom.....I have 2 children (my son is 19 and away at college and a daughter who is 11). I love spending time with them, so family needs to be important to the person in my life. But they are really cool to hang with so that shouldn't be a problem for the right guy. I am trying to be more athletic, but I have to be honest, I am not that good at it. I recently completed my first Warrior Dash and I absolutely loved it. I am not an avid runner, but I loved the mud and the obstacles and challenging myself! I wish I loved going to the gym, but I get bored with it too quickly. However, I respect anyone who is dedicated enough to go consistently... I figure your fit body is a benefit for me too! I love hiking, sunsets, lazy days at the pool/beach, cuddling and watching a movie, walking around NYC, being with friends, visiting the wineries, or just a quiet dinner at home. I would rather go to a local bar for the occasional night out. I am not into the club scene. Really, for the most part, I enjoy pretty much anything. If you are with the right person, anything can be fun. I am not high maintenance. I don't need fancy things, but I am more than appreciative when I am lucky enough to splurge on myself. I prefer jeans over dressing up, and I love coming home and curling up in comfy sweats. I am no beauty queen.....that's for sure. I don't like wearing tons of makeup. I love animals. I am not necessarily at cat person, but I have a cat....kind of a ironic story how I ended up with him, but he is pretty awesome so even most cat haters make an exception for him. I guess the best kind of first date is something quick and painless. Meet for coffee or drinks to see if there is any chemistry.....and just see where it goes.

  • Deirdre

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I just want people to write me that are serious about getting to know me. If we start talking and you decide you DONT want to talk anymore then just tell me. Dont just stop talking out of the blue. It is hurtful and childish. Im a fun loving and very caring woman. Tired of getting hurt.I I think this is hard to describe myself! I am a single mother of two teenagers. One is in college and one is driving now. I love to do just about everything! From deer hunting, fishing, hiking, golfing, gardening, to staying in for movies, going to the theater, or maybe even art shows! I can listen to just about any kind of music, but not very fond of any rap hahaha Rock, bluegrass, Christian rock, country...its all good!I design jewelry for a living for a local jewelry store. I use a CAD CAM program and also do a lot of hand carving. Another job I enjoy is making quilts for friends and customers. Either starting from scratch, or if they have a quilt top done I can finish it with the quilting for them! I love to play poker, although Im alittle rusty at the moment! I want to learn to play my fiddle but havnt found a good teacher yet. I like to go out and hang with lots of friends. I have a few tattoos, and sometimes talk like a sailor haha (not too much) :)I just really love to have fun, and laugh A LOT. I want someone who is not afraid to act alittle crazy, and maybe even enjoy going to church sometimes! Scary movies, cooking at home, and having some wine! I own my own home and two cars and I dont need anyone to help me. Im just looking for someone to hang out with and maybe someday fall head over heals! I marked that I just want to date but who knows if it could turn into more! I dont know what a good first date is! Someone will have to show me!

  • Devona

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am a very simple person. I enjoy all outdoors activities, camping hiking fishing. I like most types of music but I have to say I love my country. I love to go line dancing. I like to laugh and just enjoy life, I have no time for drama , games or BS. I am looking for someone who is stable,knows what they want in life,someone who likes to laugh and have fun you only live once. I am very romantic I believe all the little things you do make a big difference. If you would like to know more about me send me a msgAnd please don't call me baby or sweetheart. Its a cheesy way to get my attention. Be more respectful. And if you're gonna hit the meet me feature. At least talk when a msg is sent to you. Just sayin... Somewhere, where both of us can enjoy eachothers company....

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