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I am more attracted to tall black athletic men, just my preference......I have dated men from meetville before long term, it can work, just be honest . I am single because I am picky. I am told that I am much prettier in person, very laid back and direct. Very rarely do I even find anyone who interests me enough for a second date. I am hoping it is time for that to change :) I dont think we have perfect matches. I think we have chemistry, conversation and the rest is what we make of it. I am really looking for my best friend. My best friend that I call when I have great news, need to cry or just to vent. Is it too much to ask to get butterflies, goosebumps???I need the guy who can show me new things, test my limits, push me harder, someone who can tell me to shut up if my mouth gets out of control...Someone who shows me new views, teaches me new things that I have never experienced.I am looking for a long term relationship, lots of romance.I want a gentlemen, someone who opens the door all the time not just the first few dates, someone who is protective of what they want and have, someone who believes taking care of there family is number one job. I was married 13 years... I know it takes more courage to leave looking for wow than it does to stay and settle for okay.My friends would say that I am fiesty, fun, love to laugh,very passionate, loyal and have no filter. Laughing is so important:)I do not like people who are disrespectful, judgemental or talk down to others. Treat others the way you want to be treated. Pay things forward. Yes I have children however please do not ask about them at first. But...it is important to know the basics of what your getting into. I have a big family by choice.Having a big family is not crazy, busy, stressful or hard, it is a true blessing.I have no Daddy baby drama, we wrote our divorce together. I am not looking for a father for my children but a positive role model. Lastly,I hate drama and I am not here to play games. Dont tell me what you think I want to hear. Say what you mean and do what you say,even it is simple as a phone call. It is not about the phone call it is about your word. I believe men do the pursuing..old fashion yes but my beliefs. I need the guy who is going to step up and set himself aside from the rest.If you want to know something, then ask. I dont believe in a pre-conceived "this is who I am." I am alot of things and I could tell you but I would rather show you.MUST BE BETWEEN ***I HATE BS, THUGS OR PLAYERS - DO YOURSELF A FAVOR MOVE ONNO BABY DRAMANO JEALOUSY ISSUES OR CONTROL FREAKSMUST HAVE A JOB, CAR, OWN PLACEMUST NOT BE IN A RELATIONSHIP, SEPERATED OR THINKING ABOUT LEAVING CURRENT GIRLFRIEND Establish chemistry, move forward. Chemistry and conversation.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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