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Tiara, 41

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About Me

The fun and freedom of summer have departed and now it's time to settle in for the gorgeous fall and hopefully snowy winter. I'm looking for someone to snuggle up to during the long nights ahead and someone who doesn't mind exploring outside in the rain. I just started grad school, work at an amazing place with people I respect and admire, and I do a few other things here and there. Yes my schedule is busy but if you're the right guy I will make plenty of time for you. Although I love making new friends, I am not on here for pen pals, text buddies, or casual dating. I love my phone but I'm not looking for a relationship with it. I'd like a relationship with a real person who isn't afraid to meet up and explore the possibilities together.I'm looking for someone who is happy with his life. A man who knows how to be a man including how to treat a woman. I've lived on my own and know how to do most things around the house, but there are some things that men do better...there, I said it. I'll own it. I want a man who will share his life with me but also has his guy things as I'll have my girl things. I'm not looking for someone to go with me to get pedicures...I have friends for that. I'm looking for someone to come home to, to laugh with, grow old with, wake up next to, feel secure with, who will have my back and I'll have his. I'm also old enough now to know that doesn't happen over night. I love the beginning of a relationship when all is right with the world, but I cherish the time really getting to know someone and fall in love...that deep, warm feeling that doesn't burn but grows and grows.If this resonates with you, contact me. Let's see where it goes! Something simple, drinks, coffee, a walk?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Wisdom

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Where to start...So I'm told I have an infectious smile. Whether or not that's true, I do smile often and hopefully that speaks to the way I live my life. I'm blessed with a fantastic family, surrounded by amazing friends and truth be told, my kid is amazing. Now I've also been told I can be a bit feisty...but that's open to interpretation. Am passionate in my endeavors and known for my energy and enthusiasm. I'm warm, confident, independent and can hold my own in most situations I get thrown into... but am all girl and embrace everything that comes with that! I completely subscribe to the "what goes around, comes around" (both good and bad) approach to life and am still ever the optimist when it comes to people, which shockingly does not always serve me well. I believe in playing by the rules (usually) and that choosing right over wrong is usually JUST that simple. I love living at the beach for more reasons than I have time to list or you probably want to hear about. But if you do, just ask :) I live for sun and when those warm balmy beach days kick in, you can find me on the sand. I love to entertain and do so often because literally, there is nothing better than a house filled with friends, music and laughter. I'm fit and I workout...run and paddle whenever I can these days weather permitting and might even possess a tiny competitive streak, which for the most part I keep in check. I am a huge fan of the written word and as you can see, brief may not be my strong suit. But what I lack in concise communication, I make up for with direct and from the heart.Let's see, what else...~am a great swimmer & awful snowboarder (plan to improve that this winter!)~admittedly, I'm a hideous trivia pursuit contender, but I play Bananagrams with a vengeance~~hate horror movies (enough tragedy in the real world) and prefer anything in print or on screen with a life lesson and a happy ending.... ~NO, I didn't play basketball or volleyball and YES I'm sure it's a shame at my height, but when you see me bowl you'll understand why :) ~do most likely have an emoticon addiction but it's well balanced with a vast appreciation for great vocabulary words~Captain Crunch cereal and the Electric Light parade....still love 'em!As for you...Intelligence is alluring, confidence is fascinating and tall is a necessity. I am a girl that loves her heels and direct eye contact!Emotionally & physically healthy...integrity at your core. Sense of fun and adventure intact still, regardless of your age. Grounded & fulfilled, you are able to find more reasons to laugh than complain in life. You are willing to take a little time and effort to look your best whether it's time put in at the gym or for a night out. Family relationships and friendships are a priority. Have direction, know what you want and how to get it and hopefully not walking around with a "bag of bitter" about your ex. Seriously, it's an energy suck! A great smile and a wicked sense of humor are hard to resist. I believe in keeping it easy....please don't ask me to climb a mountain or play Scrabble I find a drink soothes those first meet nervesAnd go from there....you never know

  • Shevon

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am a tall, slightly eccentric, very colorful woman with a lot of passion for life and the ability to get things done, be responsible! yet live in the moment and have fun.I have two children living at home, while they are big kids and have somewhat of a life of their own, they still need me and they are my priority! So my spare time is limited and precious. I am looking for someone to spend grown- up time with. I am a very easy woman to get to know and have conversation with. I have been a waitress for a very long time and have travelled a lot so I can relate to a lot of people with many backgrounds. I think first dates should be about introductions, I prefer coffee or meeting in a public place.

  • Lesa

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    PLEASE DO NOT WRITE ME ONE WORD MESSAGES I have NO interest in someone who cannot write a full sentence and spell correctly ! It is TRULY a PET-PEEVE of mine. One word will NOT get a reply. Thanks ! .(¯`*•.¸,¤°´`°¤¸.•*•*´¯) (¯`*•.¸,¤°´`°¤¸.•*•*´¯) (¯`*•.¸,¤°´`°¤¸.•*•*´¯)I am single after ***years & I am looking for my FIRST REAL DATE! I love photography, volunteering, kids, pets & REAL people. I am a fan of 80's (dance) music, love to travel & want to meet someone who makes my knees weak when our eyes meet. I am truly a people pleaser, but my goal is to be happy & find someone who makes me WANT to be happy WITH THEM. I have a 21 year old daughter who lives on her own, attends College & works. She IS my world. I do not have much other family & look forward to meeting new friends & people who are passionate about their life.; places with water.I have an 11 year-old American Eskimo dog that is my baby & have got her at 4 months old from the pound. I am able to carry an intelligent conversation, use manners & be polite. It's just a nice way to feel when someone respects you enough to use manners.I have REALLY never been on a REAL DATE. I have heard that guys pick a girl-up at her house, take her out & bring her home....I have not EVER experienced it (even my ex-husband didn't do that for me when we dated.....we MET someplace or I drove....Now it's just history ! ) I do NOT talk about my EX or other people when I am with someone. That too is RUDE & in poor taste. I would like to hope that someone else would be able to do the same for me. My favorite feature is eyes & I like to keep my attention on someone & be 'in the moment'. I can only hope I find someone who will 'catch my eye'. ;) ^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*(¯`*•.¸,¤°´`°¤¸.•*•*´¯) ^*^*^*^*^*(¯`*•.¸,¤°´`°¤¸.•*•*´¯) ^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*Since I haven't EVER been on a FIRST DATE, I will just use what I have seen (TV/movies) to create my idea of a great 1st date. I would love the guy to be excited to meet me & bring even a single flower, compliment what I look like or what I am wearing & open the doors for me. Whisk me off to someplace to talk while we order drinks or food, etc....find out about each other while finding moments to laugh, take-in one another & look into the eyes of my 1st date for a sparkle....Ok, too many Romantic Comedies ?? lol I would like it to be simple, casual & comfortable for us both. I'm not into someone spending a TON of money on a dinner. I'm simple & appreciate all efforts put forth on my behalf. I am a very kind person & DO plan on listening intently to our conversation & sharing what I can about myself without rambling on about MY life. I am shy to begin with, but I DO warm-up & get more comfortable over time. I am new to this whole experience, so I hope you can 'work with me'....I am pleasant & kind & sometimes blush easily! lol Can't wait to meet someone great! :-) ^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*(¯`*•.¸,¤°´`°¤¸.•*•*´¯) ^*^*^*^*^*(¯`*•.¸,¤°´`°¤¸.•*•*´¯) ^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*

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