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Hephzibah, 42

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About Me

It's a long commute, but I don't work a 40-hour week so, it's do-able. I love to laugh and I do it often. I love to travel. I love exploring around the Bay Area and beyond. I am a very active person so I'm always up for something fun. I love being outdoors. I'm easy-going. I enjoy spending time with my family, who live close-by. I have a good heart and like to give. I'm independent. I like sharing my time with people I really care about. I can take a joke even if it's at my expense (-: I like to talk and listen, if it's interesting conversation. I am fine not talking or listening--I'm not afraid of silence. I can be introspective. I'm also outgoing. I am very empathetic to others' plights and pride myself on keeping an open mind. I enjoy a challenge and thrive on the execution of a plan. I also love spontaneity and am a romantic at heart...For my date to feel right for me he would be: kind, considerate, happy, funny, sarcastic, interesting, interested, easy to laugh, secure, charming, comfortable, attractive, tall, warm, open, respectful, polite to the wait staff, sincere, masculine, easy to talk to and easy to please...Hmmm, sounds like a lot when it's listed out like this. What the hell, let's just start with chemistry first! The rest is negotiable (-: Meeting at a coffee house or local bar is good. Have a cup or a drink and introduce ourselves. If we hit it off=easy conversation and there is that spark of chemistry, we take a walk around the neighborhood and find a place to eat where we can continue to get to know each other. Dessert maybe?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, regularly

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm not sure what to put here, so we'll just go with the truth. I am a BBW,(If that doesn't appeal to you, there is not any reason for you to continue) just starting to date again after ending a 10 year relationship about 6 months ago. I am in the banking industry, and work a swing shift Monday thru Friday. I love my weekends, my family, my friends. I am a social person and like to do things with people, but I also enjoy a lazy Sunday at home in my pj's watching movies.I I love all kinds of music... R&B, Hip Hop, Classic Rock, and occasionally even a litte Classic Country.I have a good sense of humor,a realistic approach on things, and can usually see things from every side. I am looking for someone compatable, compassionate, and an overall good person. Sense of humor is a must! After e-mail, chatting, and talking on the phone to get a feel for one another's personality, An ideal first date would be coffee or a****ail,depending on the time of day. If that goes well, then maybe dinner or a comedy show. I like to do all sorts of things, so I'm up for any number of places if we make it past the coffee! Disclaimer: I will not meet at my house or your house for the first time, it must be somewhere public.

  • Tiara

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

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