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Bethney, 44
United States, Minnesota, Owatonna

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About Me

Seems I always find the wrong people for relationships. Tired of being hurt so lets just hang out and see what happens.I'm a warm, caring, loving, compassionate, passionate, loyal, honest person. Like to go out dancing every now and then. Enjoying eating out or BBQing *** home. Enjoying quite times at home. Watching movies... Horror movies are my favorite. I love the beach, The Lake or anything 2 do with water, spending time with family and friends. I've been trying to learn how to golf, Anyone want to teach me? I love to people watch. I love warm weather, HATE the cold. I'm a lover not a fighter. I'm pretty much your girl next door. I'm slim and average in height with shoulder lenth hair (naturally curly) but I straighten it. Very routine type of person. I took care of my mother til her end I've worked hard all my life and now I'm just looking for a little pampering that I think I so deserve. I do have 2 children that are grown and on their own. Family means the most to me. I'm A LOT to handle. I enjoy what I have but looking for more with the right one. I'm your typical down-to-earth woman, always treating people with respect and honesty. I'm the type who's always looking to improve on what I have. I've reached the point where I'm ready to meet someone I could spend a lifetime with. I'm in the mood for a real, substantive relationship. I want to build a stable life with the one I love. I look forward to finding the right person; I know you're out there! I hate being alone. I love companionship and having someone to wake up to every morning. I'm not changing my life, I'm changing how I live it. I am not desperate and I can take care of myself But had rather spend my life with someone I love. Feel free to drop me a line if you think you meet my standards. I'm extremely selective, but worth it. I can go for a beer and a game of pool to elegant and classy. I do love to travel and hold a valid passport. I also love to just stay home and cuddle on the couch with a good movie. I am a christian so your belief in God is important to me. A woman that can love God, Can surely love me.The only thing thats not in my profile id I had a seizer when my mother passed away and that brought on Seaver Neuropathy.I was extremely close to my mother... I am the baby of the family. The seizer and neuropathy also cause half of my sebrebreable brain to die. My dr *** MUSC said that part of my brain will grow back but would not give me a % of walking again... So I had to move in with my sister and bro-inlaw. I'm taking Nerotin now and like i said, I'm beginning to walk again. It's a slow progress but i'm working hard to beat this awful nerve damaging hell! I can do simple things around the house and I can even drive but I can't walk well enough nor have the strenth to walk say, around the dollar store or Walmart. I feel exactly the same about what you are saying about friends first then maybe a relationship and if feelings change and how to take care of the situation. I hate cheaters and have been cheated on and knows how that feels and would NEVER want to hurt anyone like that!! Oh yeah, ty very much for the compliment!After finding out about my disability and thats an ice breaker, I understand completely. ALL LIARS MOVE ON!!!! Let's become friends and get to know one another really well before jumping in head 1st. "LOVE" I've not found a woman yet that’s strong enough to be my woman. By that I mean she has to be understanding, caring, passionate, fun, sweet, easy going, has a great sense of humor, caring, compassionate, positive, respectful, attractive, loyal, honest with a touch of class. One who is financially able to take care of herself (no moochers). She is a woman who will care for and respect me, as I will her. One who is not so self-centered so shallow that she can't have a true relationship. One who truly desires to be in a relationship and wants to grow old with the one she loves. I'd rather be alone than not have what I'm seeking and be unhappy! I KNOW what I want, DO YOU?So if you are still interested after all my demands lets meet and go from there. If I've scared you off and you are no longer interested that is fine too and I understand. I am a pretty smart girl and will not be played! I'm genuine and true and just wanting the same!I hope you have a great day and I look forward to hearing from you. I'm not perfect and I don't expect you to be either BUT I do expect 100% from you as you will get the same from me.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 40-50

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 42-52

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 39-49

    I want forever. The special someone who completes me completely. I'm not rich, but I have what I need. I work hard, play harder, and love with all my heart ! Being honest, comfortable with who you are, and an adventurous personality, along with the ability to get a joke... tell a joke... and hold up their end of a conversation are a plus! My kids are older teenagers, life is good where I am and I love my state... so unless you are looking for friends only, ya need to be local ;)The bar scene was 20 years ago... so not into that much, but i do enjoy a rare adult beverage... I am a hippie at heart, looking for that someone who appreciates the gifts on this planet that God provides, enjoys the beautiful sunrises and sunsets that He gives us, and understands that life is as easy as you make it or as hard as you let it be. We all have baggage in our lives, and these things shape who we are in life. So make lemonade!! :)So then, if you are similar in mindset, looking for an amazing partner, and want to make the best out of what life has to offer... hit me up already!!!! :-) There is no easy first date, even if you have been messaging for a while. Best bet is coffee or brunch somewhere chill where getting comfortable with each other. Maybe then a walk in the woods or along the river. I am flexible... as long as we are having fun, its all good!

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