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Lucrecia, 43

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About Me

in my life I seem to encounter waves of change… what I mean is, as I grow and my life's circumstances change around me, I seem to be constantly trying to redefine who I am. Switching careers, going through the phases of entering and then ending a marriage, moving, becoming a mom… all these events present challenges to maintaining a sense of individuality. I keep trying new things, new ways to keep it real and remind myself of the enjoyments of life.I love to write, but when I can't get to the computer or focus enough to put pen to paper I enjoy daydreaming. I smile a lot… because I'm usually thinking about things that make me laugh. I'm a little bit shy and try to cover it up by being silly.I play the flute, sometimes to get my daughters to eat their dinner but sometimes I just play it because I love playing. I belong to a flute choir, and we perform about once a month. I've played since I was really young, maybe third grade, and I still enjoy it every time I pick it up. It makes me especially happy to be able to share this with others through performance. Who I'm looking for: PLEASE NOTE: If you are an overw***something-yr-old, please DO NOT CONTACT ME. If you have nothing to say, DO NOT CONTACT ME. If you have no picture and no information in your profile, DO NOT CONTACT ME. If you don't speak or write fluently in English, or have limited education, please DO NOT CONTACT ME. Just because I'm no longer in my 20s doesn't mean I'm interested in settling. No plumber-butts need apply.I'm adventurous… I like skydiving, playing pool, target shooting, roller blading, sailing & wind surfing (although I haven't been in years!) riding on the back of other people's motorcycles, going swimming at night…I love wine and good conversation! Pour me a glass and get me talking; as long as you're conversational we'll have a good time.If worse comes to worst I'll get a little giggly and start telling you stupid stuff like how my youngest daughter likes to compose songs which she yells at the top of her lungs while playing the piano (which she is doing as I write this...) My one stipulation is that you be reasonably open-minded. I sometimes get tired of political discussions, because it seems that most people who want to discuss politics seem to be far more opinionated than open-minded — but I'll give it a shot.I'm interested in someone highly intelligent, successful, with a strong personality - confident, but not arrogant; active, athletic, adventurous, kind, sincere, with a sense of humor...Someone who has something to say to me

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

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