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Lia, 43
United States, Minnesota, Northfield

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Hi! I am a country girl at heart and just displaced near cities. I am easy-going, laid back, and love to laugh. I work very hard and when I'm not at work, or at home, you can find me at the barn! Yes, I own my own horse. Well, I have one and a half. One is 11 yrs old and the other is 16 months old. I also have 4 cats. (No, my house does NOT smell like cats. Lol) My family, a few close friends, and my animals are my world. If I'm not at home or work, you can find me at the barn.I have so much love inside of me just waiting to ooze all over someone special. I am a very warm and affectionate girl. I can be serious if need be, but prefer to be a kid at heart. Joking around and having fun is just who I am. I'm often accused of being a smartass, but it's all in light hearted fun.I'm ready for the next chapter in this book of Life. I love to be loved and to give lots of attention and love right back. There is nothing wrong with "dating", so if that's what you're looking for,....let's go have fun! But, I will say that I really don't want to be single the rest of my life either. If it's solely sex that you're looking for, well, we all have needs, but keep it moving past my playground. Nothing wrong with "needs", but there's more to me than just that. My idea of a perfect relationship is for you to have your own life and interests, I have mine, and we meet in the middle to balance things out. I don't want to be smothered nor do I want to smother you. Don't take that wrong...spending time (quality time) is a must. I have learned over the years you can't change a person, nor can I be changed, thus, my theory. It doesn't matter what we do or don't do. It doest matter where we go or if we just have a quick meet-n-greet in a parking lot somewhere. My advice on how to get to me? Just be real. Be yourself. "Yourself" will eventually come out anyway. Who knows, I'd probably like the real you over the one you try to portray anyway. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Drama History Horror Cricket Sailing
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