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James, 43
United States, Minnesota, Menahga

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................you never know what you are going to get. I love that movie and that line sure sums it up. We don't know what life holds for us, good or bad, and I want to make the best of it. You only live once!I am recently divorced and thinking about getting back into the dating scene after 15 years. I enjoy a lot of things like taking walks, going out to eat, traveling or just comfy nights at home with a movie. I am looking for someone who might be interested in the same, and getting to know a new friend. I am a pretty independent person and can take care of myself. But I don't want to be in control all the time. Some guys think that is 'letting you do what you want to do'. That doesn't work for me. I would like to hear your thoughts and ideas, even as simple as what might be good for dinner. A relationship should be a partnership not a dictatorship.I am a huge movie buff (as you can tell from my headline) and enjoy all kinds. I like a good chick flick but do like to mix it up with comedies like the Hangover trilogy and a thriller too. I can handle gory and have seen all 6 of the Saw movies, but not crazy about paranormal scary stuff. I think I like it because there are so many simple lessons that one could improve their life with.I usually take one or two trips a year with my favorite travel buddies, my Mom and Aunt. I would be interested in a guy who is a little adventurous and would take off for a day, a weekend, or longer to go explore a new place, or return to a favorite one. It doesn't have to be extravagant, just see new things and enjoy each others company. I do love to visit the beach, but also enjoy a little cabin in the woods with a fire, or a day trip to the casino too.Basically I would like to enjoy life,experience new things, spend time with great people, laugh and hopefully retire young somewhere warm. It has been a really long time since I had a first date. So I am not sure what that would mean these days. A cup of coffee and some conversation sounds like a good start to me.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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