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Tanja, 43
United States, Minnesota, Long Lake

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**Update** Please have a picture, it's only fair - thanks! I'm a "glass half full" kinda gal. I live my life with 110% put forth. I love seeing the joy that a simple thoughtful act can bring to others. I want someone who appreciates that and who also wants to get the most out of his life. Friends say I seem to have limitless energy and up and able for just about anything. A selfless wingman, I can be your greatest supporter or caregiver. I think. A lot. And feel things passionately. I am moved by music and art. I would like a soundtrack accompanying me all day. I adore all animals and children. I love roller coasters, chocolate, and coffee. I love to cook and explore different foods. I love cheese and wine and not in that order, have won a game or two of trivial pursuit (junior - ha). Sports, definitely - playing or watching. I think a well dressed man, whether he be in jeans or a suit is very attractive. I am drawn to men who are confident in their experiences and choices, affectionate, athletic, possess a great sense of humor, have the respect of family and friends and are still discovering things about themselves and the world. Still curious. Not judging. Know when to be a gentleman. Travel. Yes, please. Travel and culture are a big part of my life. I am fortunate to have visited more than a handful of countries and their cities. I enjoy new places and sharing old favorites. Weekends. Love them. I can be as active or content with the paper or book as the moment and company suggests. More importantly, I enjoy time with people. Next weekend I could be found probably playing pool, experiencing a new restaurant, spending a night at the movies or listening to live music somewhere. But if I have someone special in my life, I melt at the sight of him. We would decide where the day would take us for breakfast...or dinner,depending on the mood for the day. Go for a hike - great. Explore museums - awesome. A football or soccer game - yes. Throw in some wonderful conversation, big laughs, a shared, flirtatious smile, a walk, or relax on the sofa, download some Netflix, pray for some decent leftovers or take out and I'm a happy girl. There is one caveat to these life lessons, musings and understandings however...the level of sarcastic output. I can rarely let the ironic or the ridiculous go unnoticed and love finding my match in mindful exchanges. So please be clever as you are kind and quick witted as you are attentive. You would be a rare find indeed. So if you are unfamiliar or find it unpleasant, please disengage immediately. But if you think we could be a great match, I'd love to hear from you. "Anyone can make the simple complicated. Creativity is making the complicated simple."

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Single and new to the area. Looking for fun people to go out with, share a laugh and good time. Ive been Single for a few months and although I am currently enjoying some "me time", I will not exclude any possibilities, my perfect match may be right here. Please don't message me if you don't have a pic. Oh yea I almost forgot. A job, car and class, are a must! I am 5'7 and love to wear heels so I especially love tall men. ( In good shape too):). First dates are always a little awkward, so its ok to keep it simple. I like to think that if I chat with you long enough to go out with you on a date then you should know enough about what I like and don't like too plan the date. Id rather it be a surprise anyway. Please don't invite me to your house to watch a movie. :) My biggest turn off on a first date: Having nothing planned then asking me what Id like to do. Ughh XoXoXoXoXo

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

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