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Edain, 45
United States, Minnesota, Long Lake

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About Me

As I have read at least ***times, it is hard to come up with words to describe yourself, however describing what you like to do or what you want in someone else is easy! So I asked several of my long time friends to describe me and this is what they had to say: compassionate, kind, wonderful, strong, beautiful, smart, funny/goofy, athletic, a bit crazy (but in a good way...I think this has something to do with OCR's), clever, selfless, great listener and amazing BUT I'm not Elastic Girl (bonus points if you know who she is!). Yes I do pay my friends very well, but their friendship is worth the price!What they didn't mention is I love sports. I have played some sport since I was 6 and coached off/on since college. My dream job is to be a college level coach and this is a recent epiphany. I would rather play then watch! However, that being said, I love watching a minor league or college level game. My favorite professional teams are the Celtics, the Giants (football not baseball), and the bruins.I'm looking for someone who is smart, funny (well at least to me and can laugh at themselves), likes to talk about anything and everything, loves the ocean, wants to try new things, likes/loves kids, wants to go on some adventures (well lots of them) and has a soft spot for endangered species (bonus not necessary). Those are the basic but it honestly boils down to chemistry - mentally, physically and spiritually.Ok my thoughts on dating via the Internet:1) have a picture a. Smile in your picture B. take your shades off in at least one C. Have a close up pix of your smiling face2) drop an *** read your profile and respond3) don't get drunk on your first date with me...yes this has happened4) don't talk about your ex on the first date...it is not fun to listen to and makes me wonder if you are still into her. 5) if you are at a point where young kids in your life aren't where your at that is ok, however Mine are all under 10 and will be hanging out with me for the foreseeable future. 6) ask questions ... It aides in the exchange of ideas, thoughts and fun! Like "why did the chicken cross the road?"That's all I got for now...if I haven't scared you, bored you or made you fall asleep please drop me a line or twelve! Take care and be well! My ideal first date would be to meet for a beverage of choice! if there is some chemistry play some pool (I'm terrible but I do like to play), darts , ice cream, walk on the beach, or something else....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Jazz Drawing / Painting Canadian Middle Eastern Thai Boxing Outdoor Hobbies
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