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Kirsti, 45
United States, Minnesota, Janesville

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About Me

I have always had an interest in interior design. My goals over the next few years are to acquire a house on my own and decorate it myself. The challenge is to make it look professional. I think I have a pretty good eye for it though. I would like to start writing novels which is something I have thought about for years. I lost my house after my divorce a few years ago and am basically starting over. I am very excited about the new changes in my life and looking to the road ahead. I don't want to look too far ahead though. I am learning to live for the moment and enjoy the ride. I have really developed an interest in reading these last couple years and sometimes enjoy curling up with a good book. I also have an interest in real estate which I would eventually like to learn more about. I love all kinds of music so I'm pretty open there. I enjoy all kinds of movies: thriller, comedy, romance, action/adventure, sci fi, etc. I also love animals, especially dogs! Love camping, fishing, going to the lake, jetskiing, swimming, going to sporting events, movies, dinner out, going to dive bars and listening to live music or playing pool or darts, wine tasting, beer & chicken wings, grilling, etc. Staying in and making dinner at home with someone special then eating on the patio under the stars, watching t.v. or movies and snuggling on the couch are what I appreciate most. I have always found that if you are in good company ANYTHING can be fun!Lately, I have been enjoying the simpler things in life such as the moon & stars, the sky & sun and beautiful scenery. For years, I got caught up in the rat race and was chasing the almighty buck. I learned the hard way that: money and material things DO NOT make you happy. I read somewhere that "there is only one true happiness in life...to love and be loved." I honestly believe that. Because without love you have nothing. I know there are A LOT of ladies out there (as well as men) who like to use these dating websites to play games. I can assure you that is NOT me. I am honestly a true romantic and I am very interested in finding someone special I can enjoy life with. Unfortunately, there are a lot of controlling, manipulative, shallow, gold-digging women out there and for them I apologize. I actually know a couple like that which makes me sick. We are all NOT like that. I am NOT like that. I am kind, loving, supportive, compassionate, generous, etc. and I enjoy having fun and laughing. I am NOT consumed with how much money you make, your status, the kind of car you drive, what you wear (unless it is really BAD-lol), etc.-working man who makes an honest living and earns enough to support yourself as I wouldn't want to support you (lol). I care about the kind of man you are, what makes you happy, your hopes and dreams. I care about YOU, YOUR HEART, YOUR HAPPINESS and THE WAY YOU TREAT ME. I just want to be treated with love, kindness and respect. It's NOT about what you can do for me it's about HOW YOU TREAT ME AND HOW YOU MAKE ME FEEL. A lot of women have forgotten that simple concept. I just have 3 simple rules: 1. If you go #2, please do a "courtesy spray" so I don't get blown away when I walk into the bathroom. 2. Put the toilet seat down when you are through. 3. Please, DO NOT lift the covers and share your moment of glory with me after you have let one go. We DON'T need to share everything together (lol)!-working, driven (but not to a fault), supportive, compassionate, affectionate, spontaneous, complimentary, sexy, passionate, adventurous and romantic. MUST be a great kisser and very passionate!!! Affection is very important to me!!! I cannot stress that enough! Most importantly, you MUST have a great sense of humor because I love to laugh. I want someone to laugh with and have fun with. My needs are very simple. It's all about being happy!Guys, I have to tell you in all honesty...women really LOVE muscles!!! It makes you sexier, younger looking and more attractive as every woman wants to feel secure with a man who is big, strong and healthy. Muscles, combined with confidence and passion in a man, makes you very desirable to a woman! So, you should be working out every day. ha!). For those of you who may not know who he is...Google "The Transporter". I'm NOT being critical of you. As a matter of fact, I had gained a lot of weight when I was married because I was so unhappy. It took a toll on me over time. But, now I am working on it myself and trying to get back to where I used to be. It's hard but I know it will be worth it in the end. I can't tell you how many profiles I come across where the guy is very attractive and sounds interesting but, judging from the pictures, it is evident he is overweight and out of shape which kills the interest. If you would change that and improve your health & body, you would increase your options in women probably ***fold. During my marriage, my ex became a heavy drinker always hanging out at the bars drinking or sitting at home on the couch drinking and watching t.v. He gained a lot of weight and had a horrible beer gut no muscle tone. I would try to get him interested in working out and doing things together but he always shot me down. I got tired of it so eventually gave up and let him go. Sadly, he is now a full blow alcoholic and looks terrible. It was such a turn off that I don't ever want to put up with that again. And guys, DON'T FORGET TO TAKE YOUR ANDROZENE because it makes the ladies happy if you know what I mean!!! lol!Hopefully I have sparked some interest. If you would like to talk just send me a message. I would love to hear from you. Meet for drinks somewhere and visit for a while perhaps over happy hour. Then, if things are going well, spontaneous dinner at a nice restaurant so we can talk more and get to know each other better. Basically, just take it as it comes and enjoy the moment.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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