• Janesville
• Minnesota
• United States

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Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

"I don't want to be his entire world....just his favorite part."For me, being in a relationship is not about being completely consumed by another...it's about maintaining your individual lives & everything that interests you...while sharing all of it, the good & bad, with another. It's not about spending ***together, giving up friends, breaking important routines or pretty much neglecting everything that has been your life up until that point. It's about still hitting happy hour with friends, but making time for him after. It's about surprise texts...just because. It's about spending time together...but also spending time apart. Above all...it's not about molding someone into your idea of perfection. Take me, faults & all...or leave me. Be with someone for all they are....& in despite of all they're not. And I'm not a hypocrite....I believe this as much for myself as I do for the guy I'm involved with. Never lose yourself to anyone!As far as I'm concerned, honesty & trust are by far the most important qualities...& are my best attributes. I am an extremely loyal, completely trustworthy person....& require the same of anyone I let into my life. I am affectionate, sensitive, considerate, love to smile, generous, laid back, & equally comfortable at a club or cuddled on the couch. I am not jealous by any stretch of the imagination....& it's not something I can tolerate in a relationship. Jealousy is not an indication that someone cares about you....it's an indication that they are insecure or do not trust you.Looks are not everything....but they do matter. Initial attraction is what sparks your interest. My look may not be what attracts everyone...& I'm not offended by that. People are attracted to all different types...& what is beautiful to one...is not to another....don't take it personally. That being said, looks only take things so far...there has to be a compatible personality to maintain the interest.Family is extremely important...& I'm very close to mine...they are truly a priority in my life. I absolutely love the beach...probably my favorite place in the world. Little things usually make me happier than grand gestures. I could watch fireworks or blow bubbles for hours. You will find me barefoot every opportunity I get. I do not believe in doing anything out of obligation. As a very open-minded, accepting person, I have little tolerance for judgmental, prejudice, opinionated people. Worry about yourself....let everyone else be themselves. If you don't believe in something...don't do it...it really is that simple.I have plenty of faults...; *** obnoxiously.I'm looking to spend time with someone who makes me happier far more than not. I am a completely independent person....I do not need to be with someone...but I would love to find someone I want to be with.Not sure what will come of this....but you miss out on all of the opportunities you don't take...

• Janesville
• Minnesota
• United States

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Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

About me and who I'm looking for.....hmmmmm. OK, about me; I tend to be passionate about things when they are important to me, I'm loyal to a fault, I work very hard but love to spend time thinking of new ways to waste time, the most ridiculous things make me happy - like the sound of the pouring rain, the smell of cut grass, a great cup of coffee, an ice cream so rich it makes me unconsciously make a mmmmmmmm sound, or finding a great new dark beer, I love to try new experiences and eat new foods, I don't like (but am trying really hard to tolerate) country music, I love a great fine restaurant but also find joy in finding a great dive restaurant, hockey and football sometimes make me yell at the TV, I'm not a princess - however when a girlfriend took me four-;wear mud clothes" - I was pretty sure I didn't own anything which qualified, I love to create art and renovate houses, I'm smart enough, sort of silly, and lots of fun. On to who I'm looking for; someone who looks at life as an opportunity for new experiences, someone who laughs a lot, someone who is confident, someone who doesn't want to jump into a relationship - but who would jump in with both feet if it seems right. I don't want to say too much about me or who I'm looking for because both are subject to change. Nothing is written in stone. I'm a pretty happy person and I like my life the way it is, but finding the right person....well, I'm thinking that would make everything even better.

• Janesville
• Minnesota
• United States

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Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

I have always had an interest in interior design. My goals over the next few years are to acquire a house on my own and decorate it myself. The challenge is to make it look professional. I think I have a pretty good eye for it though. I would like to start writing novels which is something I have thought about for years. I lost my house after my divorce a few years ago and am basically starting over. I am very excited about the new changes in my life and looking to the road ahead. I don't want to look too far ahead though. I am learning to live for the moment and enjoy the ride. I have really developed an interest in reading these last couple years and sometimes enjoy curling up with a good book. I also have an interest in real estate which I would eventually like to learn more about. I love all kinds of music so I'm pretty open there. I enjoy all kinds of movies: thriller, comedy, romance, action/adventure, sci fi, etc. I also love animals, especially dogs! Love camping, fishing, going to the lake, jetskiing, swimming, going to sporting events, movies, dinner out, going to dive bars and listening to live music or playing pool or darts, wine tasting, beer & chicken wings, grilling, etc. Staying in and making dinner at home with someone special then eating on the patio under the stars, watching t.v. or movies and snuggling on the couch are what I appreciate most. I have always found that if you are in good company ANYTHING can be fun!Lately, I have been enjoying the simpler things in life such as the moon & stars, the sky & sun and beautiful scenery. For years, I got caught up in the rat race and was chasing the almighty buck. I learned the hard way that: money and material things DO NOT make you happy. I read somewhere that "there is only one true happiness in life...to love and be loved." I honestly believe that. Because without love you have nothing. I know there are A LOT of ladies out there (as well as men) who like to use these dating websites to play games. I can assure you that is NOT me. I am honestly a true romantic and I am very interested in finding someone special I can enjoy life with. Unfortunately, there are a lot of controlling, manipulative, shallow, gold-digging women out there and for them I apologize. I actually know a couple like that which makes me sick. We are all NOT like that. I am NOT like that. I am kind, loving, supportive, compassionate, generous, etc. and I enjoy having fun and laughing. I am NOT consumed with how much money you make, your status, the kind of car you drive, what you wear (unless it is really BAD-lol), etc.-working man who makes an honest living and earns enough to support yourself as I wouldn't want to support you (lol). I care about the kind of man you are, what makes you happy, your hopes and dreams. I care about YOU, YOUR HEART, YOUR HAPPINESS and THE WAY YOU TREAT ME. I just want to be treated with love, kindness and respect. It's NOT about what you can do for me it's about HOW YOU TREAT ME AND HOW YOU MAKE ME FEEL. A lot of women have forgotten that simple concept. I just have 3 simple rules: 1. If you go #2, please do a "courtesy spray" so I don't get blown away when I walk into the bathroom. 2. Put the toilet seat down when you are through. 3. Please, DO NOT lift the covers and share your moment of glory with me after you have let one go. We DON'T need to share everything together (lol)!-working, driven (but not to a fault), supportive, compassionate, affectionate, spontaneous, complimentary, sexy, passionate, adventurous and romantic. MUST be a great kisser and very passionate!!! Affection is very important to me!!! I cannot stress that enough! Most importantly, you MUST have a great sense of humor because I love to laugh. I want someone to laugh with and have fun with. My needs are very simple. It's all about being happy!Guys, I have to tell you in all honesty...women really LOVE muscles!!! It makes you sexier, younger looking and more attractive as every woman wants to feel secure with a man who is big, strong and healthy. Muscles, combined with confidence and passion in a man, makes you very desirable to a woman! So, you should be working out every day. ha!). For those of you who may not know who he is...Google "The Transporter". I'm NOT being critical of you. As a matter of fact, I had gained a lot of weight when I was married because I was so unhappy. It took a toll on me over time. But, now I am working on it myself and trying to get back to where I used to be. It's hard but I know it will be worth it in the end. I can't tell you how many profiles I come across where the guy is very attractive and sounds interesting but, judging from the pictures, it is evident he is overweight and out of shape which kills the interest. If you would change that and improve your health & body, you would increase your options in women probably ***fold. During my marriage, my ex became a heavy drinker always hanging out at the bars drinking or sitting at home on the couch drinking and watching t.v. He gained a lot of weight and had a horrible beer gut no muscle tone. I would try to get him interested in working out and doing things together but he always shot me down. I got tired of it so eventually gave up and let him go. Sadly, he is now a full blow alcoholic and looks terrible. It was such a turn off that I don't ever want to put up with that again. And guys, DON'T FORGET TO TAKE YOUR ANDROZENE because it makes the ladies happy if you know what I mean!!! lol!Hopefully I have sparked some interest. If you would like to talk just send me a message. I would love to hear from you. Meet for drinks somewhere and visit for a while perhaps over happy hour. Then, if things are going well, spontaneous dinner at a nice restaurant so we can talk more and get to know each other better. Basically, just take it as it comes and enjoy the moment.