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Mabella, 45
United States, Minnesota, Inver Grove Heights

Offline, last seen Sat, 28 Feb 2026 02:22:09

About Me

I was recently asked what I was looking for, so here is my reply.I am looking for that person that I can't wait to see again, the yin to my yang, etc. I am in no hurry and am realistic on what that looks like for me. I don't trust easily, I am not promiscuous, I can't say that part too many times. I will not jump head first into a physical relationship. I am not looking for an *** term relationship, let's go out have some fun. Not every date is about finding that "special person", it can just be two people who enjoy spending time together. Personally I can never have too many friends. I have never been, nor will ever be unfaithful. I have a wicked sense of humor that comes out more when I start to relax around someone. I am not looking for anyone to take care of me, I can do that just fine on my own. Looking for the person who loves me for just being me...who can give me affection, enjoys stolen kisses, soft caresses and whispers of love, looking for that person who wants to know what makes me, me.To look across the room for you, only to discover that you are already looking at me.I am not a jealous person by nature, if you give me a reason to be, I will walk. No games tolerated here. You are with me or you aren't it is that simple.The person I married was safe and I knew he would never physically hurt me, but with that I also learned that he wouldn't (emotionally) protect me either. We are still friends.***********************As far as drinking goes it would be nice if they had an option for once every couple of months, my drinking days are long since over.I have a great sense of humor that runs the gamet from innocent to a bit naughty sometimes.I exercise regularly but will never have a rock hard body.I have friends and family that are gay, so must be accepting and supportive. Long term I am looking for my best friend, lover and partner in life, but for now I am very content being single, enjoying life and dating here and there until the right one comes along. I will not seriously date more than one person at a time. My animals (cats & dogs) are my fur-babies, we are a package deal. I have a stable full time job since 91.. Financially responsible, excellent work ethic. The only baggage active in my life is used for travel.If you want to know more, just ask and I will answer honestly.**You may have noticed that my profession states Legal Field, this means if you have a felony record, keep looking. We are not a match** Coffee/drink (I prefer soda) or if you have a dog, maybe a meet up at a dog park, zoo, mini-golf, walk along the water front. Something low key and no pressure.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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