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Pat, 39
United States, Minnesota, Hopkins

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About Me

I see the glass as half full, not half empty and i'm looking to fall in love with someone that has a positive outlook on life as well.I'm fun loving yet responsible and independent. I'm looking for someone that has fun living life to its fullest and is able to enjoy the simple pleasures.Key values that are very important to me are honesty, loyalty and reliability.My favourite quote with regards to love: “I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together.” ? Lisa Kleypas, Blue-Eyed DevilPlease have a picture, it's only fair. PS:I'm not looking for cyber-dating. A few messages back and forth is ok and after that I prefer meeting in person. No ***!!and ***for your catchy question "how are you?" I've got a witty reply: "thanks. I'm great" . So now we can talk ) I think coffee and walk would be just fine

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Bluegrass Rap Canadian Italian Middle Eastern
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