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Effi, 37
United States, Minnesota, Hopkins

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About Me

I am a hard-working, loyal, compassionate, independent woman, recently divorced, healed, and ready to meet someone meaningful. I am a christian woman and would make sure whoever I date is on a similar walk with God as I am. That is very important to me. I love to read, watch my favorite shows on TV-True blood, Game of Thrones, Once upon a time, Walking Dead, Sons of Anarchy, and Breaking Bad. I love to watch movies too and consider myself a amateur movie buff. I like action, superhero (Go Avengers!) and Sci-fi movies, but am not opposed to a good chick flick.I like all kinds of music-; Sons, KOL, Linkin Park, and I am a closet "Disturbed" fan. Lol) I also listen to a lot of Christian Rock.I have taken belly dance lessons for over 7 years and I love it! It is great for self-esteem and I've developed lasting friendships I wouldn't give up for anything.***If you message me asking me to give you a lap dance or make any forms of sexual advances on me, I... Will... Not... Be... Nice... I'm not on here for a booty call! What I have to give is for the RIGHT man. ***I am also out-going and a very social person, so if you want a meek and mild woman, keep fishing.I also love to travel. I have been all over the U.S. and the Carribean, Europe, and two medical mission trips to Ghana, West Africa. I have hopes to travel many more places. I am a neat person, not OCD, just "clean".I also take care of myself. I work out several times a week and eat healthy and expect the same in anyone I date.I am an educated woman. I would want anyone I date to be able to carry on a well-versed conversation and to be motivated to be successful in their career and life.As for what I am looking for-someone honest, thoughtful, affectionate without being clingy, compassionate, unselfish, someone who can make me laugh, someone who "gets" me, someone who respects my opinion, and someone I can banter with. If I call you a "douche", its an endearment. :-) A part of me just likes dinner or drinks, but on certain days when LIFE just kicks in, I like to do something different, like a picnic or go bowling or just go to see a UFC fight at a local bar. I am a huge UFC fan!I'm not into playing games, pretending, or having one night stands. I'm too old for that! LolWhat you see is what you get with me. I would expect the same from anyone I date. I don't really think ALL the nice guys are taken. I'm just looking for the LAST right one. :-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

American Indian Italian Animation Comedy Family & Kids American Football
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  • Jack from Hopkins | Woman | 37 years old | Gemini
    Jack

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    K, a list of things about me, some I knew, others my friends decided I should disclose immediately.1. i'm tall. when i say tall, really, i'm tall. and yeah, the weathers great up here, you midget **stards.2. i'm a smart ass. huh. wtf is that all about? i mean seriously, people just can't take a joke now a days. 3. i'm nice. but if i don't like you, i'll let you know.4. but don't like any of the teams here. 5. i'm a sports geek. go ahead, ask me a question.6. i was in a band. but not the cool ones everyone on my space is in. it was a marching band. ok, not a marching band, but we did play on veterans day, and at basketball/football games. and this one time, at band camp, i... whoa. completely off the subject. 7. i am an athlete though. and i could STILL run a mile in under 7 minutes. but please dear lord let there be an oxygen tank at the end, and some sort of medical assistance.8. i speak 1.75 languages. english, i'm pretty fluent in. puedo hablar espanol, et je parle un petit peur de francais. d*mnit, no tilde's on the comp.9. i used to think that i could be on jeopardy. then i tried out last st patricks day, and while i got 7 out of 10 questions right, i DID NOT GET TO THE NEXT LEVEL OF TRYOUTS. total and complete devastation. and of course, while i sat home later that nite, sulking, my roommate was down in the gaslamp, telling people that "i lost at jeopardy, baby. oooooohhhhhh, woo oooh ooooo" yeah, to the song. seriously, how can you ask what the cubed root of 1,200,543,***is, and NOT let us use scratch paper. 10. i'm nowhere near as funny as i think i am. the whole telling jokes, and getting blank stares has clued me in to that.11. i'm too picky for my own good. hi, can you say perfection does not exist??? hey, i'm just looking for perfect for me. *PERFECT FOR ME IS NOT UNDER 5'10"!!!*12. i'm much better looking in person. just ask those who know me. i am blessed with a giant irish head, and while i've finally grown into it, let me tell you, bearing a strong resemblance to a walking blow pop at 13 years of age, SUCKS!!!13. i used to be able to dunk. well, on a ***ft rim. and i could touch the rim on a 10 footer. just couldn't palm the ball. hands weren't strong enough. but man, i could jump.14. i now have a 2.2 inch vertical. which helps a bit getting up onto a curb.15. have i mentioned i'm a smartass??? ok. that's all i'm divulging at this time. if you have made it this far down, you are a strange individual. lol. j/k. take care, and maybe we'll chat soon.A NOT COFFEE!

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  • Cecily from Hopkins | Woman | 40 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Please read through profile before responding. Beauty only lasts so long and it's what in the heart that counts. I am not here to play games. My intent is to find a relationship that would last a lifetime.Only respond if you can answer a yes to these questions.1. YOU ARE A CHRISTIAN.2. WANT TO HAVE CHILDREN...3. FAMILY ORIENTED4. NON-SMOKER5. DO NOT HAVE CHILDREN6. HAVE A JOB..LISTING A JOB AND BEING UNEMPLOYED IS NOT HAVING A JOB7. IS NOT LOOKING FOR CASUAL SEX8. WANTS TO ACTUALLY MEET IN PERSONTEXTING AND ONLINE CHATTING IS NOT A REALATIONSHIP9. IS BETWEEN ***. Greetings,Everyone responds the same, but if your looking for a decent quality person than look no further. I am a single, educated, non-smoker, never married, goal oriented, family oriented, and have no children. My friends would say I am optimistic, hard working, organized, enthusiastic, and enjoy making others smile. I am both an introvert and extrovert person with a style of the old school (touch with new). My passions include anything from reading, watching sports, working out, theater...etc. I am comfortable in dressing up to wearing a tee shirt and baseball cap. God, family, and friends are an important part in my life. I am always up for challenges or trying something new. Life is too short and you never know when your last day will be..My motto.."Just Do It". I value honesty,communication, and the golden rule. Looking for not an ***, but someone who actually wants to meet and see where it goes from there..I wish you well. Keep smiling and thanks for looking at my profile.****What happened to the old fashioned method? Man likes woman. Woman gives number to man. Man calls woman. Woman and man meet. Woman and man decide if they want to pursue each other further.*****My faith is important to me. I would say that a good first date would be somewhere were you could converse with one another over a cup of coffee or at a restaurant.

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  • Aideen from Hopkins | Woman | 37 years old | Leo
    Aideen

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    The last few relationships have been a joke. i think if your in a relationship that dont have trust. you dont have a healthy relationship. if you dont have a healthy relationship. you have nothing worth fighting for. I am single mom was married for over 10 years. I have been single for over a year. Im not looking for one night thing. I can have that any night. I am looking for a down to earth man that knows what he wants. i just cant seem to find him. so for now im just looking for a friend. than we can see where it goes from there. I enjoy outside events like beach camping fishing or just chilling cookingout with friends and family. i dont drink often so when i do i enjoy it. I am a very peaceful person. we will talk about it.

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