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Effi, 37
United States, Minnesota, Hopkins

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About Me

I am a hard-working, loyal, compassionate, independent woman, recently divorced, healed, and ready to meet someone meaningful. I am a christian woman and would make sure whoever I date is on a similar walk with God as I am. That is very important to me. I love to read, watch my favorite shows on TV-True blood, Game of Thrones, Once upon a time, Walking Dead, Sons of Anarchy, and Breaking Bad. I love to watch movies too and consider myself a amateur movie buff. I like action, superhero (Go Avengers!) and Sci-fi movies, but am not opposed to a good chick flick.I like all kinds of music-; Sons, KOL, Linkin Park, and I am a closet "Disturbed" fan. Lol) I also listen to a lot of Christian Rock.I have taken belly dance lessons for over 7 years and I love it! It is great for self-esteem and I've developed lasting friendships I wouldn't give up for anything.***If you message me asking me to give you a lap dance or make any forms of sexual advances on me, I... Will... Not... Be... Nice... I'm not on here for a booty call! What I have to give is for the RIGHT man. ***I am also out-going and a very social person, so if you want a meek and mild woman, keep fishing.I also love to travel. I have been all over the U.S. and the Carribean, Europe, and two medical mission trips to Ghana, West Africa. I have hopes to travel many more places. I am a neat person, not OCD, just "clean".I also take care of myself. I work out several times a week and eat healthy and expect the same in anyone I date.I am an educated woman. I would want anyone I date to be able to carry on a well-versed conversation and to be motivated to be successful in their career and life.As for what I am looking for-someone honest, thoughtful, affectionate without being clingy, compassionate, unselfish, someone who can make me laugh, someone who "gets" me, someone who respects my opinion, and someone I can banter with. If I call you a "douche", its an endearment. :-) A part of me just likes dinner or drinks, but on certain days when LIFE just kicks in, I like to do something different, like a picnic or go bowling or just go to see a UFC fight at a local bar. I am a huge UFC fan!I'm not into playing games, pretending, or having one night stands. I'm too old for that! LolWhat you see is what you get with me. I would expect the same from anyone I date. I don't really think ALL the nice guys are taken. I'm just looking for the LAST right one. :-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

American Indian Italian Animation Comedy Family & Kids American Football
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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

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