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Lydia, 37

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About Me

Well I tried this "online" thing once before and definitely did not have a fairy tale ending! Actually more like an episode of Dateline! Ultimately I am looking for a long term relationship but for now just want to get to know someone and see where it goes...finding a friend is just fine. PLEASE DO NOT MESSAGE ME IF YOU ARE JUST LOOKING FOR A "HOOK UP" OR "SEXTING"...sorry...just not interested! I assure you I do not need to look for the idiots that want that...they are EVERYWHERE! Also if you are married or in a relationship YOU HAVE NO BUSINESS ON THIS SITE leave my profile NOW LOSER! It has come to my attention that I should add this as well! If you have profile pictures taken in public restrooms we probably won't be compatible...I am really tired of meeting people who tell me the things I want to hear *** the truth. I respect someone who has integrity. I am usually up for just about anything within reason! I am not easily offended by a dirty joke and love a little sarcasm! I am pretty high strung and opinionated...could be why I am single...who knows?!I long for that weak in the knee, heart racing, hanging on every word, can't stand to be away from you feeling! I believe it is out there and won't settle until I find it! Even though I have set up an online dating site I am still pretty old fashioned about dating and want to be pursued (like every girl does)...so that means don't wait on a message from me...send me a message if you want to get to know me better! I would definitely need the first date to be in a public place so as to avoid anyone who might be planning on making a suit of my skin.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I wouldn't say there are plenty of fish, but there may just be a few worth taking a closer look at. I am comfortable in a dress, and I do like a guy who can be comfortable in a suit. Maybe that's because I still listen to NPR? I'm passionate about my career, I love nice wines and healthy food. I've actually been a basically vegetarian for 14 years with the exception of the occasional fish. (I also enjoy the occasional nibble of bacon. I call it ";.) I'm also a bit of a gear head. There aren't many pictures of me, because I usually have the camera. I don't watch TV at all, and I feel time is better spent adventuring, or planning adventures. I cook, and enjoy a man who is at least useful in the kitchen. I am interested in men who are driven to succeed in this life. I think smart is sexy. Passionate about food, travel, and exploring are also major pluses in my book. While I am quite easy going and easy to get along with I like a decisive guy with a strong personality. The kind of guy that makes things happen *** having things happen to him. I would also like to find someone with a burning urge to *** hardwood floors, but that's just asking for a lot...;Ted talk" for extra credit. If you don't know Ted, we might not be a good fit. I think it's a better question to ask what you wouldn't do for a first date, but that's just my opinion.

  • Kaya

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I try to get as much as I can out of life and always fight for what I believe to be important. I can be very focused on my goals. Sometimes things bring me down, but I ALWAYS get back up on my feet and keep going. Most people would describe me as strong but sensitive at the same time.I believe kindness is one of the most important attitudes to have. With it, you can do anything. You can learn to let go and focus on what's really important, you can be compassionate towards others and yourself too. Don't be mistaken, I am not saying I am a saint :-) I'd say kindness is my ultimate goal and North, the thing I use to guide my life, but sometimes I do get sidetracked as I am only human.I'm looking for someone who knows how to be down to earth when needed, but who is also capable of being different and adventurous. Someone with whom I can talk for hours without running out of things to say. I appreciate intelligence and tend to feel attracted to men who are capable of analysing problems in a deeper way. I'd really love to meet a man who has experienced enough in life to make a few mistakes and learn his limitations and his capacities, as well as what he needs in a woman.I've lived quite a bit as well and the things I've learned helped me realise what is important for me in a relationship. I feel I am with the right man when I know I can be myself, say whatever I feel like, express my deepest feeling or fears, and still be loved. And that's what I'm willing to give too. I can be defensive and even seem distant until I have made my decision about a guy, but should it be favourable (and should he want me too), I will progressively be quite at ease and confident. Physicality is as important to me as any other ingredient in a relationship and I absolutely couldn't stay with someone just because he is a "nice guy" if there wasn't passion and attraction too. And once I'm involved with someone that I trust, I give my all, both as a companion and as a lover.PS: I've noticed a few people also indicate their Myers- I did an online test that says I'm an ENFJ (if you don't know what that is, then "google" it ! )

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