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Belinda, 40
United States, Minnesota, Grand Rapids

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About Me

I take advantage of any opportunity to travel, learning about other cultures, exploring (near and far). I dabble in photography and love to photo-journal travel and life. I love the water, and love to sail.- from farmer's markets to festivals, the music, stage, and resturant scene. I love to dance, and my music interests range from jazz to 80s hair bands, with pop, rock, folk and bluegrass tossed in. I can go from a pair of jeans and flip flops and a week on a sailboat - Love yoga, camping, hiking and biking.There are many things that make me unique - you'll have to meet me to learn more. One thing that I'll share now is that I am not on this site with motives such as finding someone to help me fullfill dreams of making babies and getting married. If you have kids, that's totally cool! I love kids- I'm just not interested in making any of my own. I have been married before (divorced for over 11 years***so I know how hard marriage can be. I want to find someone to share life with - if that leads to a healthy relationship, and then marriage - even better! So no agenda here. It's quite simple. I work hard, and I play hard. I'm interested in having fun, seeking out unique experiences, and meeting like-minded people. I'm a hopeful romantic. Hope anchors my soul. Drinks after work, an evening on the water, a nice dinner, a lttle jazz, an evening stroll .... please suggest something that tells me something about you! Just invite me - I'm in!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

House Salsa Greek Turkish Action Sport
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