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Hannelore, 39
United States, Minnesota, Grand Rapids

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Ok so I just got out of a bad marriage and then had my heart broken severely by the one serious relationship I've had since then; so therefore I'm not really 100% positive of what I want exactly. I do know that I am tired of being lonely and tired of being hurt. I have been shattered but I think I may be pieced back together if the right man comes along; I have great capacity to love but am a little scared of it; so patience is a MUST!!! I don't have the highest self esteem and tend to be very harsh on myself. I have a young daughter and she is my number one priority in life; if you have a problem with that or with children at all; then stop reading and keep on moving. Now a little about me; I love to read,hike,play golf and do just about anything outdoors ,fairs, festivals, picnics, going on drives in the mountains, enjoying a good cup of coffee at cozy coffee shops, eating out, going to movies, shopping or just spending lazy days at home. My main goal in life is making sure my daughter is happy healthy and well adjusted. After that would fall finding a great man to love, be good to and build a happy life and future with, having a peaceful and happy home life is a very high priority. I am a very laid back and unique woman. I was once very overweight and had gastric bypass almost 8 years ago; loosing over half of myself in weight so there are no issues with an ego here; actually if anything just the opposite; I tend to have problems with my self esteem at times; though I pride myself in teaching my daughter self love; no matter what and being accepting of others no matter what; even those with differences or disabilities. As far as my interest in music is concerned I have a wide variety of taste; from classical to hardcore black and death metal. I pretty much like all types; except I am no very big into hip hop, rap or pop. If there is anything else you want to know; just ask, I'm an open book. Lunch or dinner at a quiet Bistro or Cafe, or coffee at a nice cozy coffee shop or possibly a quiet stroll at the park. I like to do something that gives an opportunity to talk and get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Fitness / Gym Indian Irish Vietnamese Golf Snowboarding
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