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Shaylyn, 38
United States, Minnesota, Grand Rapids

Offline, last seen Fri, 05 Sep 2025 22:18:49

About Me

First and foremost, if you are allergic to cats, please stop reading now...I have two! I am as basic as they come, dont need alot to get by. I do not wear make-up and am most comfortable in jeans and a tee-shirt. Doesnt mean that I wont dress up though. Tomboy my whole life, but can definetly be a girl when I want to. I am very shy and will not jump into a physical relationship right away. If you arent willing to talk about, or get tested, dont bother contacting me. "Tested" as in sexual health. I am looking for a clean guy who keeps his place and car mostly clean as well. Not looking for loud obnoxious guy who needs to be the center of attention. I dont mind a guy who has a beer or two, but I dont want someone who drinks to get drunk. Some of my hobbies are playing ice hockey, riding my Raptor, and cardio boxing. Also like scuba diving, disc golf, rollerblading, and I am getting involved with mud runs. I will try most any sport. Have been sky diving, fencing, and go-cart racing. My taste in music is very wide but mostly 80's. Like alternative and sappy chick music too! I'm not too crazy about big sloppy dogs, but that depends on the care taker I guess. I like to watch football and hockey and I understand both sports. First date would be nothing fancy..somewehere casual, not too loud. Definetly not a club or bar person..but would go to a bar if I had a date with me. Im also basic with food, dont like seafood and have been told I eat like bird. My idea of a good first date is NOT going to your place and watching a movie..so dont ask!! If you think asking me if I kiss on the first date is an indication of how far you mite get with me...its NOT...so again, dont ask!! If you have a girlfriend, wife or are "on again, off again" with someone..please dont bother. Know its harsh but apparently needs to be said!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Video Games French Irish Korean
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