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Nicolasa
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Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 43-53
I guess there are those who talk the talk but don't know how to walk. would love to find one who knew how to do both! Why am I here? Just....why...beating my head against a wall here. One needle in this cyberstack of hay is all im looking for. Keep finding thorny weeds.Little boys need to keep looking for another playground...won't find one here. Promise.Recent conversation with a Personal Trainer/Model: Me: If I could ask you, how do you deal with women always looking or treating you like a piece of steak?Him: Lol.. Thank you so much! Not always going to be in great shape so better work on that personality as well.. lolMe: well yea...but Im not even close to your stunning looks and I know there is more to a persons beauty than the outside. It can make a handsome one turn ugly in a minute. But what I seem to be having problems with is guys only wanting one thing from me and thats all lol they dont even know me. Its a compliment on one hand but empty in the other. All different guys and all the same. Disgusted lately with them all really.You are right tho,.... As far as the guys go, it's tuff because we are physical beings, while woman are more emotionally based. I think the sooner you accept that the better. Every guy is gonna want sex, find a guy who wants to work to get to that point.Me: yes, this much i undoubtedly know! And I don't mind that part, its how men and women are wired. And sex is great but better with that special someone (yes, emotionally based). Finding that one is the hardest part!! SO! Having said that, here I am. HMMPH! Me: country, tattooed, animal lover, playful, loyal, communicative, work out but (not insanely), head strong, conservative, military mama, reserved, respectful, one on one kinda girl (not a serial dater), caring and loving. I'm the kind of girl who doesn't do things half ass. Say what ya mean, mean what ya say. Action does speak a whole lot louder than words....Can you back it up, or are you just yelling into the wind? Ok maybe I have a bit of a roughness to me as well?,...can't help it, I was raised around guys lol But I can be quite soft, warm and loving with the right person. Team player--but "team" as in my partnership with a man, not as in a relationship with the entire soccer team "team" HA! :) I love to laugh....most times it's at myself just cause if I didn't find some humor in some of the things life throws at me, I might have to be in a straight jacket! Don't seem to act my age (or look it from what I am told). Younger gravitate to me. Won't settle tho I don't expect perfection and don't want it expected of me either. Love to laugh but know when to be serious. Love a new adventure. Miss romance. What happened to that anyway? Why are most guys out for "it" (between their legs), and not "it" (inside their chest) anymore? Its such a turn off when guys just talk about "it" as tho "it" is unattached to the rest of the body. ya know what I mean? Inanimate. You know we are connected to it all..Mind, heart, spirit, body. That "wired" thing,...see above again. Some of you need to think before you speak. yea? Not attracted to overweight, older, non white men. Sorry, its just not for me. We are old enough at this point to know what we like and don't. Right? Oh yea,...and when if I say six pack, and beer comes to your mind, probably need to keep going. Drunks are a no go. Social drinking on occassion is just fine but every nite,..not so much. No drugs, no married, no BS...no drama! ain't nobody got time for that! If you think we may have some things in common, message me. Any questions, just ask.... but don't waste my time, or yours, with one line messages or if its pretty obvious we are not a match. Good luck to ya'll Who knows. I don't tend to plan things out...kinda go with the flow...cliche but true..its not where you are, or what you are doing, but who you are with!
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Clara
Online
Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 45-55
Hi ; )I'm a strong person but every once in a while I would like someone to take my hand and tell me everything's gonna be alright.I like to bake for my friends and my favourite part is seeing them enjoy the sweets. If you've ever seen the movie Au Chocolat, it's that kind of a feeling for me. I love making homemade jam when the summer fruits come into season and giving them to my family and friends.I also love to sing but haven't given it much focus in the last year or two. I used to enjoy jamming with some friends every week who love the blues. I love all kinds of music. I love how it takes us to another place, how it evokes emotion and makes us move. I'm planning to get back into voice lessons this fall and work on some songs.I've recently taken up yoga and I get it! I get why it attracts us. We need to spend more time slowing things down and moving our body. I like hot yoga because it brings a little intensity to it....like I used to get with more aggressive exercise routines. I'm only 6 weeks in but looking forward to reaping the physical and emotional/spiritual benefits as the months go by. I like the emphasis of it being a practice...It helps me let go of the need to be perfect.I love connecting with nature, photography, reading, watching movies, eating great food, laughing out loud with friends, love animals, and making people smile.;Soulmates are a partnership of equals for the purpose of spiritual growth"As far as finding a long term partner, I remain open to which ever way destiny has in store of delivering on that. It may be online, it may be through friends, or a casual serendipitous encounter at Farm Boy lol. I think all we can do is be OPEN and try to keep the judgement in check. You never know unless you try..... It only takes a few minutes to gauge and is crucial in the process. I have found it to be helpful and coffee can turn into drinks, dinner, or a game of pool, if it feels right.Then first date...well, the possibilities are endless. I be potential discussed over tea/coffee?
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Audrea
Online
Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 46-56
I am an energetic, easy going, woman looking to start dating again. I love the water, music, hiking, boating, fishing, and going out anywhere fun. I'm always up for a quiet romatic night at home also. I don't feel or usually act my age! I'm young at heart and want someone that can keep up. I am a total tomboy and quiet the "handywomen". I have 2 older sons and an amazing 11 year old son who lives with me full time. I don't mind if you have children, I only ask that you don't mind that I do! I love to laugh and a good sense of humor is a must. I am an inside sales account manager for a steel distribution company which is new to me, but am learning and enjoying it.