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Haven, 50

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About Me

I am independent and intelligent, although I think it's more interesting to be curious than smart. I'm interested in people-- all kinds. I like hearing about others' perspectives on life. I don't have to agree with you (or you with me) to like or even love you. I've traveled a lot, walked some interesting paths, and have had some even more interesting detours along the way. I love that. I try to live in the moment as much as possible, or at least slow down enough to find meaning in what's going on around me. That said, I can be silly and playful; I love to laugh and make you laugh too.I'm in a helping field and my professional life is an important part of who I am. Most important of course are my children. If you have children you understand that. And you understand unconditional love. I definitely like to have fun when not working; movies, dinners out, wine, live music, cooking, friends, travel. I've been divorced for a while and have dated, but have not been ready for anything serious. My children are a little older now, more independent, and I hope to have more and more time to offer to a relationship. After my divorce I thought I did not want to marry again. What I really want is to commit myself to a person and they to me. If that means marriage that's great. If not, that's ok too. I want to meet people, hopefully make some friends, and be smart enough to recognize the right person when he comes along.Thanks for reading. Early evening... A cozy corner in a busy restaurant for a drink or dinner.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Enriqueta

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Oh no didn't know there would be an essay to join.lol I am a fabulous forty something petite little firecracker. I am an artist so i am a little kooky. Work :with pastels so i can feel like a little kid finger painting. I have pretty ecclectic taste in music blues,rock,some country,and anything that i can dance too. I love to garden for beauty and for food. I love sun water and sand. Kinda a tomboy sometime. I dont feel the need to put on makeup and fix my hair to go tto the store.lol Fyi u guys I DONT WANT TO SEE THAT...lolDidnt your mama raise u better. What would she think of your behavior "Young Man"?lol By the way guys narcisissism is not a turn on! I truly dont care how much money you make or what you drive or where you live. If u think i will do whatever you want because you have money you are mistaken. I am not hung up on materialistic things. I dont measure anyone by what they have. Its who they are on the inside that is of value to me. Why is it that man can say they hv a preference for petite women but its not okay for me to say i have a preference for taller men? Can we say Double Standard? what is this dating thing you speak of? i think i forgot how.lol Omg are u friggin kidding. Is this what dating is like? Oh the stories i already have.lol people are crazy

  • Kortney

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    One of my good friends just got married to someone she met off meetville so I guess it can work. Hoping to met someone normal :) I work a lot and don't enjoy the bar scene so it's tough to meet people my age. I'm looking for someone under 55.I really love watching college football. I like to go to sports event but don't have to many friends that like to go so I end up going by myself or not at all. I attend church regularly and it's something that is important to me. I'm a pretty kick back person. I am probably more of a going to a pub with friends on occassion and having a beer than dancing at club all night long, every weekend person. I'm not interested in meeting someone married for a hook up or who needs to borrow money... Sorry to have to put this in my profile but you'd be surprised.... unfortunately Somewhere casual where we can talk...

  • Jodie

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I'm a genuinely happy person, with a bright smile a contagious laugh and a tender heart. I love hanging out with my friends and value my family very much. I am supportive, and fiercely loyal and I love doing those little things that make you feel special and loved. I am discerning, but not fussy. I love to go out and have fun, talk, laugh and be silly- in just about any location. (Except I'm not a big fan of the bar scene) But I am also a passionate cook, and preparing sumptuous, unforgettable meals brings me great joy. I love finding a great new dive as much as dining at a favorite 4 star. I have a great job with an international luxury hotel company. I've been there 18 yrs and love what I do. I went to TCU (go Horn Frogs! I'm half Italian, half Polish. Oh... And I'm a natural red head!! Do you like to cuddle & snuggle under a blanket outside in front of a fire on a cool night? Will you hold my hand as we walk down the street? I'm interested in someone who is motivated by a strong belief in the importance of treating people with kindness and consideration. Who can see himself as part of a couple, while still maintaining his independence and identity. I need a strong, chivalrous, confident, professional man who is emotionally engaged, passionate, affectionate, & knows what he needs and isn't afraid to communicate his needs clearly. If you are looking for a skinny girl.... I'm not what you need, for I have a full, lush feminine body and an eagerness to inspire passion and desire. Treat me like a lady, bring some romance and a robust sense of humor.... and who knows, we could have a fabulous, fun, amazing future. Let's meet up at a charming, quaint little wine bar. Have a glass of wine together, or maybe two. OrHang out together with our dogs at Mutts.

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