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Lashay, 49


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SERIOUS SUITORS ONLY PLEASEAre there any men out there that want a relationship and not just a hook up? That aren't full of themselves and might be close to a living, breathing flesh with a body that is warm and they actually have a heart? This site should be SHUT DOWN. Really. I want the excitement of learning about each other and my body feeling those wonderful things that go along with it. Take a chance. I am down to earth, fun-loving girl who; loves smiling and making people smile. I am a blue jeans tank top kinda girl that is comfortable in anything she has on but loves that occasion for some high maintenance. Less makeup and natural is best unless I am on stage performing. I don't bite, except for that worm that you are dangling in the water. Even then it's going to be soft, passionate kisses that reel you in. LOL. CANT WAIT TO MEET YOU FACE TO FACE. Happy fishing with many blessings to all that stopped by and thanks for the little tug on my line if nothing more. Hobbies: I love anything outdoors. I love to sing. In my down time, I love working in the yard. I want to raise my two children by setting positive examples for them. I want them to know that it is okay to make mistakes just as long as you learn as you go. I aspire to be the best I can at whatever I am doing. I am a people person who never meets a stranger. I am a touchy feely person that likes contact. I try to find something positive daily and make the best of any situation I am in. My taste in music is mostly country with blues. I am almost 50 so I love the music of the 80's. I love good dance music. No hip-hop. Real dance music.MUST LOVE ANIMALS or appreciate the fact that I have a loving, caring heart and I do. Is there any man on this site that wants a REAL relationship? If so, I would love to meet him. I would love to meet at a resturant, kareoke type bar attached maybe looking out over the water. Not too loud so we could talk over dinner and get to know each other a bit better. Maybe go from there to bowling or anything competitive - shooting some pool. If the night went well then maybe we could top it off with a walk in the moonlight and some wine; maybe laying on a blanket looking at the stars Something where we could get a bit closer to see if we felt anything. Must be some little spark. Why waste each others time right. Definitely go slow though. Friends first for a strong foundation then whatever else if anything.


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  • Mara


    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Hi ! I am silly, fun and down-to-earth....I get along best with a man who is very positive and optimistic, loyal, easy going and active. My hobbies are walking, riding bikes and dancing. I like rock music the best but have begun to appreciate a little country....I would like to run my own business someday or help run/manage one. I like to keep busy and keep active.

  • Abbigale


    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Alittle about me....I work hard during the week so I like to have fun and let loose on the week-ends. I do like to go out once in awhile for a few drinks. I like to play pool and listen to live music. I've never been married, although came very close. I am looking to start off as friends and see where it goes from there. I am pretty adventurous, and will try almost anything once. I won't jump out of an airplane and I don't want to learn to down hill ski at this point in my life. My all time favorite vacation spot is Cape Cod. Spend many vacations there. I also keep busy working on my home and I like my down time too. ** I've been asked quite often "what kind of guy are you looking for?" and I have to say honestly that I obviously want there to be an attraction physically, but I like confidence in a guy, a GREAT sense of humor like someone upbeat and who makes me laugh and smile. Someone I can feel comfortable with and be myself with. I like someone who is alittle rough around the edges but a good hearted person on the inside. I'm more attracted to the blue collar work boot type. (please don't wear sandals on a date with me!..LOL...oh and I really dig blue eyes!!!Sorry, hate to sound shallow...but I am also looking for someone with an "average body type or maybe alittle bit "buff". A small beer belly is okay but not into fat men either. guys don't want a fat woman, well we don't want a fat man either!!! * I also don't respond to people on here without a please don't waste your time sending messages without a photo. * I would like to chat on the phone a few times before the first date to see if we connect at all. I wouldn't even call it a first date. It would be a first meeting....for drinks, coffee, or maybe a walk with the dog. Keep it simple to see if there is any chemistry.The SECOND DATE... it doesn't matter to me what we do if there is a connection!!

  • Philis


    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I've been through it all and back again. I'm thankful for all the blessings God has given me-- I'm proud of all I've accomplished in my education and career and give work all I've got and then some more. I believe in the value of education, and I'm committed to public education down to my very core. I'm proud to be an educator, and believe I'm making a difference in the lives of children.I'm very passionate about everything in my life, and that passion defines me as who I am. Intense, quirky, and gung ho, I go at life with everything I am and everything I have. No, I'm not easy to handle and I wouldn't have it any other way. I march to the beat of my own drum and while I welcome company during that march, I won't change the cadence of the march to make someone else happy. I like me just the way I am and am lucky enough to have so many friends who also like me that way!While life has not always led me to where I wanted to be, it has always led me to where I needed to be and I gain tremendous comfort from that. Whatever path my journey has led me down, I have loved deeply and appreciated those who stood beside me during some of those paths through dark and scary places. I am fiercely loyal to those I love and who love me, and my loyalty never falters. I speak the truth, no matter how difficult the truth is. I am straight-forward about who I am and represent myself with integrity and honesty. With me, what you see is indeed what you get. That has been both a blessing and a curse, I guess.While I have regrets, I also know that I am who I am today because of the mistakes I made in my youth. If I had to do it all again to be where I am today, I would do so in a heartbeat. At the end of the day, I can rest my head on my pillow and know three things: I am loved by my God; I am loved by my family and friends; and I have given the day all I have inside me to give. That's how I roll.I love to hike, go for long walks, and Pilates. I am an avid reader, often reading two or three books at a time. I enjoy the theater, opera, and ballet. I'm also a rabid football fan and support my teams without fail (Go Vols, Geaux LSU, Go Titans, and Who Dat!). I guess I have a variety of interests. I'm a well-rounded person who is very intelligent and well educated. I am at my best in the outdoors, and I spend as much time in nature as possible. What am I looking for? I am looking for someone who understands that I am new to the dating scene and who will be willing to move very slowly. I enjoy being courted and am at heart an old fashioned girl. I am looking for someone who is willing to be emotionally present in a relationship and who values the same things I do. I'm not a superficial person and can't abide someone who is. I'm looking for someone who is real and down to earth, someone who has lived the highs and the lows of life and is ready to embrace life with all he has. Life is too short to be any other way. If this is you, send me a message. Something very public with quiet for talking for first dates. I'd like to get to know each other through texting/email first then move into phone calls and face to face meetings. I believe having coffee, lunch, dinner, or touring a museum are excellent choices for a first date. Once we have met and become comfortable with each other, a walk in the park or on the trails would be my idea of a perfect date. I also love sporting events, so watching football, baseball, or hockey would be a fun and exciting date. Any theater, opera, or ballet performance would work well too. I'm very flexible and have a variety of interests, so I'm very easy to please when it comes to dates.

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