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Alyvia, 48

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About Me

I am looking for friends first. I am a Christian and looking for same. I am open and honest and can communicate well. I enjoy travel and meeting new people. I like to be outside, bike and hike also.I am at a place in life where I would like to meet a great guy and see what happens. My children are grown and I have one grandchild. I enjoy family time and love my kids. I want to develop a friendship and see where it may lead to. The next chapter is waiting to be written.....let me know if you are interested!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Carreen

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    First off, I do not think I am God's gift to every man....but I do think I am God's gift to one man. Somewhere out there is exactly the match that was created for me and vise versa. Everyone you meet will not be relationship material...so call it what it is. I am looking for the one, but I am not opposed to making some great friends along the way. I am not looking for a man to pay my bills, play daddy to my daughter or mow my lawn. I have all of that under control. I need a man to enjoy life with me, laugh at stuff that only we would understand and have some degree of meaningful conversation. He needs to have a great sense of humor and a keen sense of when I am being sarcastic and how to read that sarcasm. I always seem to fall for the guy with an attitude or at the very least overstated confidence. Wish that fact were not true, but it is what it is. I do believe that you have a pretty good idea from the get-go if there is an attraction and should be honest and not waste someone else's time by "settling" until something that feels right comes along. People get hurt that way and I do not play games with emotions. If it turns out to be friendship...call it friendship and hang out and have good times all the same."Serious user" seals out by your picture scream desperate and getting no mail. That was just some FYI...no additonal charge for it. And if you message me six times in one day or send me an *** for not replying, chances are we are not a match. I do not do high maintenance men who have nothing to do but chit chat. I want someone who has a LIFE outside of this site. I am not a player BUT love the motto: Treat me like a queen, I'll treat you like a King. Treat me like a game, I'll teach you how to play it. I am a hard worker and have dreams, goals and ambitions. Travel is my passion and I would like someone who wants to experience the world. Cruising is one of my favorite vacations, but I would love to see all of Europe someday as well as Australia, New Zealand and the Mediterranean. I am very frugal in most other areas of my life, but I think travel is worth the splurge. I do not have pictures on here of my pets, my house, my cars, or my watercraft. If I need all of that to impress you, I am perfectly content being single. I usually do not respond to profiles with pictures of your accomplishments either....it tells me two things...you do not have confidence that I will like you without all of that (and I love a confident man) and you are open to a gold-digger (which I am not). And when you picture yourself in a group with the caption "guess which one I am"......ummmmmmm, you are the ugly one or you would not hide yourself in a group!! lol .....a joke (thus the sarcasm spoke of in paragraph two comes out).If you have described yourself as non-religious, there is no need to respond. My belief in God and my effort to live a Christian life are a priority. It may sound crazy, but the one that God has intended for me is out there. I may not know him, but I pray for him every day that God will lead, guide and protect him until He sees fit to have us cross paths. If you are looking for a one-night stand or a hook-up, also no need to respond. If you have ever, or think you may ever, have an interest in men please do not respond. I do not and I will not "understand". And yes, I have run into that situation, more than once, on here. It would be nice if your profile reflected a little capitalization and punctuation...not a deal killer, but it would be extra credit. DEAL KILLERS:Smokers....just not for me. I do not participate in inter-racial dating. I have great friends from many cultures....but I only date caucasian men.Facial hair that is not neatly (very neatly) trimmed.Living at home with your parents. ....don't care what the reason....if you are over 25...move out...get half a dozen roommates or two jobs...but it is time to be independent.Only child...not to say I won't date you because of that, but if you were raised to think the world revolves around you, I don't have the energy to make you realize it doesn't. I am an only myself, but I am not selfish or self absorbed and I will not associate with someone who is. Momma's boy....I want a man who LOVES his Mom to pieces...but if you need to call momma every time you sneeze or need her approval to make an investement...or her approval to date me....pass me by. Someone who has to be in a bar every weekend or drinks daily.If you have kids you do not support or have given rights up to.....you wont love mine if you do not take care of your own. Please do not contact me with emotional baggage....be there, done that, got hurt. If you still love someone...heal....allow yourself to HEAL COMPLETELY before you put yourself out there. You may think you are just out to have a good time and someone great comes along and you ruin the opportunity because you were not ready. Yeah, been there, done that....burnt the t-shirt. Just trying to save both of us some time....thanks for understanding.I appreciate the fact that you have taken the time to look over my profile. Time is a gift and you will never regain the time you just spent checking me out...so thanks. To each and every one of you, I hope you find exactly what you are looking for in a partner. You have a desire to find something you are missing or you would not be here. Happy fishing!! Good company.....isn't that all that really matters?-looked by a hammock in the middle of no-where...things might start off on the right foot. I am more impressed with the thought you put into it than the money you spent.

  • Wanetta

    Online

    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Confidence...that's what separates me from the crowd. I have confidence in myself and my abilities. I'm a successful, career oriented woman. I've worked hard for what I've accomplished and can support myself financially. Family and friends are important to me. I have 3 great kids whom I love dearly. They have a loving, devoted Dad so I'm not looking for a replacement. My ex-husband is still my friend and we get along great. I'm really excited about meeting new people, going to new places and experiencing new things. I want to share my free time with someone special and always be looking forward to the next time we are together. Who am I looking for? I find taller men apealling. Other qualities my "catch" might have....you are outgoing, fun-loving and cherish family and friends. You're a good listener and realize that it takes two to make a relationship work. You've made mistakes in the past but have learned from them and more importantly have become a better person in the process. You are open minded and eager to explore new things. You enjoy group activities but you are also comfortable with one on one conversations. Passion follows you wherever you go: work, play and everywhere in between. You're a team player and take an active role in your life. You love outdoor activities and are physically active. You enjoy doing things around the house like landscaping, gardening and small home improvement projects but also like to get out for dancing and maybe a concert or sporting event. I'm an avid cyclist, so if you like to bike...let's go for a ride! I love to cook but having someone join me in the kitchen would make it that much nicer. I am seeking companionship and if that develops into something more than it would be a welcomed surprise. I love meeting new people and exchanging ideas and new points of view. We don't have to put so much pressure on ourselves to find "The One", I prefer to enjoy the path that leads me to "The One" and hopefully make a lot of good friends along the way. We are all entitled to our indivual likes and dislikes and we need to respect each other's feedback without taking it personally. If we weren't honest with what we are looking for than it would take us all a lot longer to find the person we seek. I think a good first date would be sharing.... a wonderful meal together, a nice bottle of wine, smiles, stories, interests, hopes, dreams, most glorious moment in life and Why?

  • Aiah

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Looking to meet new people and have fun. Must have a sense of humor. I Enjoy watching sports, movies, and going to the beach. I like live music, but not a country fan.

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