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About Me

I've been divorced over a year now and have two kids (teens) who are the main focus of my life. But, to be honest, I'm missing the companionship of a man. I don’t want to get serious right now but my ultimate goal would be a committed relationship. However, right now I want to go out and have fun, take things slow and see where it goes from there. I enjoy virtually all activities from dancing, walks, travel and camping to just hanging out, laughing and watching a good movie. I am open to just about anything. I am not a needy person, I am self-sufficient and driven. I want the same in a man – someone who is financially stable. Sorry to be blunt, but I'm not interested in being the sugar momma nor am I looking for a sugar daddy (although it is nice to be spoiled once in a while and that goes both ways) Please don't contact me unless you're financially stable and can afford to go do fun things with me....I'm not interested in going backwards, only forward to enjoy what life has to offer...... I have been at my work for 19 years and plan to retire there within about 10 years. I love my job and take it very seriously. Vacations and leisure time are important to me, I love to travel and go on cruises with my girlfriends (the Caribbean is my favorite place). I served in the Army right out of high school and was stationed in Germany and I've been overseas to many different countries and would like to revisit those places someday. I was raised by a single mother who struggled most of her life to raise my brother and I. She inspired me to be strong and independent. I have been told I'm fun to be around. However, I feel kind of shy in new situations sometimes. Being single is not something I am used to and I am definitely out of practice when it comes to dating. It's been 20 years since I was single. I do miss the passion and the newness of a relationship. I like that feeling you get in your stomach (butterflies) when that connection is mutual. If I sound interesting, I'd like to start via *** how it goes from there. I am very responsible, definitely have my life together and I can afford to treat myself and my children well. I'm looking for someone between ***, fun to be around, responsible, has a sense of humor and just loves enjoying life. My mother passed away suddenly of a heart attack and I miss her a lot. I've learned that life is too short and you just never know when your time is up, so I'm getting out of my comfort zone and putting myself out there with the hope that I can rewrite my happy ending. If I don't ***, that means I'm not mutually interested, but thank you for taking the time to ***, if you don't have a picture, I won't respond. If I have to post some for your viewing pleasure, I want to see a recent picture of you too.........lol Would definitely meet in a public place, maybe over a drink or coffee to see if the chemistry was there.....I work in the legal field and my best friend works for corrections so you can imagine the stuff I hear and see........let's start over ***, then go from there...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Daria

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Excuse the 'I' statements, it's hard to write about yourself without them... here are some of the superficial and some of the significant things about me:• I listen attentively, & enjoy your jokes & stories• The next girl is a stalker ;)• Seeking outdoorsy and kind• I've always been a nurturer• I'm super--female'• I love hiking, even switchbacks (not Mt. Si, please)• I'm easygoing and fun, except when I'm serious & stressed• Of course as a redhead.. I can be a smart-a$$ (but I'll bet you are too)• I don't care for reality tv, but love watching sports• I'll never expect you to ask for directions• I like current popular music, but I'll give your Classic Rock a try• I'm warm hearted and feminine, an outdoors girly-girl• I can ski backwards even though there's no reason to (except to teach you to ski)•;• My family & friends say I'm sweet & affectionate• I love people more than animals• My car's recently paid off so should start breaking down any day• I sometimes swear for emphasis• I (try to) learn from my mistakes• All we've got for sure is - Right NowSkate to where the puck is going to be, not to where it's been.~~Truth is, everybody's going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for.~ Bob Marley ~Eventually, our looks and physical abilities will fade and all we'll have left is what we have to say to each other.~ One of your profiles ~FREEDOM***!!!***Put this on your***!!!***page if you---!!!!!!!!!!!!!!-- know someone in the***!!!***Armed Forces or to***!!!***show your support***!!!***and respect to all***!!!***our troops***!!!***You hooked up to a lie detector with a bright light shining in your eyes being asked hours of pointed questions, OR a nice cup of coffee or a drink in a quiet place. You pick. ")

  • Mathilde

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    ******No Inmates******Yes...this is a lot to read...but it gives you a good idea of who I am. :) I'm just looking for friends first. I do still have all my warm and fuzzy dreams of finding my soul mate...someone to share a perfectly normal, boring and wonderful night curled up on the couch watching a movie...or sitting around with a bottle of Jack as we do spot-on impressions of our co-workers that we don't like...lol...or eating a big bowl of hamburger gravy at 12:00 on a rainy Sunday and then spooning up for a nice long nap. :). I like normal and comfortable and I think it's what you do together most days of the year and at home that are the most important things to look for in a person.What I like in a man...I like tall or taller than me and a man with some meat on him...lol...good for snuggling! I also like blue collar, maybe a little redneck or good ole boy...lol..but sweet, kind and passionate where it counts...a gentleman..affectionate..I'm not into the motorcycle thing..but I do like a big truck...I like to be treated like a lady and I like to treat a good man like a man.;). Big muscles and big bank account...not important...big heart...super important :).More about me: I'm a romantic person, I wake up happy or at least positive, I stop and smell the roses, I love a great sense of humor, people that never smile bum me out...I don't like arguing and angst. Things I absolutely do not like (tolerate) or bend on: If you have a criminal history I do not, will not and can not hang out with you, same with drugs, no drugs users need apply. Seriously...those are biggies and there is no compromise. I also don't like dead-beat or rotten parents. There's nothing worse than seeing a child hurt, humiliated, *** neglected by a parent. Same with animals, same with your mama. It's all so telling and bad/cruel behavior towards all people, but especially those that love you the most, is a deal-breaker in friendship and in love with me. I have zero tolerance for angry, hot tempered, overly jealous, violent people. If you have ever hit a woman then go away. Seriously...I live a pretty drama free life and I will not have that kind of ugliness attached to me in any way. I'm a mellow peaceable type B)...lol. We're all grown up here and not youngsters anymore so lets all be realistic and honest...I don't look I did when I was 25 and chances are you don't either..;). I'm not a Barbie doll and I'm not thin...but I'm a friggin sweatheart...lol...;). No false advertising here...:)Lastly....chances are we have all had ex's that treated us poorly or whatever...I'm not your ex-wife and you're not my ex-husband so lets not punish each other for what others have done...Talk about it? Sure...of course...but if you're still bitter....we probably won't get along. I've been hurt too...we all have. I'm moving on..:) Also, though my boys are grown and gone...sigh..I'm very open to children :). I miss having a family with me so bring it on!****is a favorite...he slays me!Music: I'm all over the place!....lol.....***! I always say I can go from June Clever to Joan Jett in 60 seconds...lol! Coffee/Tea...let's chat...honestly. No pressure, no baloney. We might both be super cool, but not a match. Or we might really click and start a Once Upon A Time....

  • Lexa

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Update: As of ***'13 I'm off to teach internationally. It's going to be a grand adventure! So, here I am. :) Now, it is hard to meet men here because of the distance thing. I'm pretty sure if we both have cars we can work on the distance thing. I am looking for someone who not only believes in God, but lives it out. I know this looks different for everyone, and I'd be interested in hearing what God means to you. When I have free time I love to travel, go to the beach, hang out with friends and family, some sports, go to the movies, art museums (oh how I miss a big city), watch movies at home (snuggled up on the couch with someone is even better), and of course shopping (lol, including thrift shops and garage sales). I also love to read, paint, and be creative whenever I can. I'm not skinny, but I am active. I love to walk and am looking for someone to go to the gym with. :) What I am looking for? A man that is fun, loves God, loves people, has a sense of humor, honest, has his own interests and hobbies but open to doing things together, romantic, and the list can go on and on. I'm looking for the man God has for me. Is it you? *** me or send me a message to my inbox. I dare ya. :) I would love to hear from you. Don't let distance be an issue. :) Thanks for reading my profile! I bet you have an amazing idea! Let's go!

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