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Chaya, 47

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About Me

Whew... Filling out this form was a pain. I answered the questions as honestly as it would allow me to .lol. I am a single mom with 3 teenage boys at home, ages 16,14,***I also have a 24 year old son). First and foremost I am not looking for a dad for my boys or a man to pay all my bills, so relax and take a deep breath.....I have been single since ***, with a brief stint of stupidity in ***where I married again. That lasted about as long as a sneeze. As soon as the band of bondage was on my finger, Mr. All I can say is I'm a dork. So noooooo more marriages for me.I have a car, roof over my head, and work full time. I am in a transitional period of my life. I just finished earning my degree this summer (with honors) so I am now looking for a career where my degree comes in handy. I have been buried in school for two years, and my social life has been nonexistent. I haven't dated during this time and figure it is time to quit being a hermit and see whats outside my front door. About me: What do I say? I am a BBW. I have red hair and green eyes. I am a real woman and not a beauty queen.My heart is as big as my butt. I am comfortable about my age, I have wrinkles and war wounds from having kids. I am just me. I am a bit shy at first, but once I get to know someone then my real self emerges. I have a wicked sense of humor, and not much fazes me. I am easy going, kind, I laugh till tears are rolling, and I am very down to earth. I know a lot of people say that, but with me it is true. My humor will show that once you get to know me. I guess that's the basics about me. You are welcome to say hi and can ask me anything except my weight, bra size and favorite sexual position. If you meet me you can pretty much guess the first 2 things and the 3rd thing is something that will be known IF we are ever in a situation where I need to tell you. I have no idea. depends on the day of the week, the hour of the day and the person I meet. I am pretty open for suggestions. The only thing is I know it will not be naked. Honestly guys , I am not looking for a quickie. I am not a prude at all, l am just not looking for sex only. I am looking for someone who would like to meet and say hi and go from there. I am looking for someone to date, who would like to go to dinner some time, or for coffee, maybe meet me out somewhere, join my friends and I to listen to music and dance. I have been out of the dating scene for a while, so I plan to just "wing it" and see where it leads. lolI am a bit old fashioned, in the sense that I will not message a man first on here (or maybe too chicken lol) So if you want to talk to me, please send a message and say hello

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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