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Xylina, 38

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About Me

"*******..sorry.********I'm a hard working single mother of a very sassy soon to be 4 year old. I'm an excellent mother, loyal friend, thoughtful daughter, and dependable sister. I come from a big family and almost always have an event on the calendar. I'm cheerful, affectionate, & fun, but do take my responsibilities seriously. I have no time or interest in drama. I like my life simple & fullfilling. I find joy in the little things...a good cup of coffee, random artwork from my daughter, a card from a friend, etc. Friends and family describe me as grounded, attractive, and funny. I am in NO WAY materialistic, and don't want someone who is motivated by $$ or status. I am very affectionate and time together & touch is very important to me. I do what I say & say what I do. I say what's on my mind...communication is essential. I'm just as happy at a fancy dinner as I am at a bonfire or just relaxing at home. I am looking for someone local that is stable, has regular job, solid finances, & no ex drama that is down to earth and has morals. Must be understanding about my limited free time and willing to work around my somewhat hectic schedule. I need a man that brings as much to the table that I do with enough in common to be compatible, but differences to teach and learn from. I am not interested in someone who is never home & works too much...time together is key in building & maintaining a solid relationship.DO NOT CONTACT ME FOR SEX OR HOOKUPS....NOT HAPPENING!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Sherrell

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    FIRST OF ALL...PLEASE DO NOT SEND ME A MESSAGE SAYING ANYTHING YOU WOULDNT WANT SOMEONE SENDING YOUR MOM OR SISTER!!!! Its not that Im super sensitive,but if you dont know me that well than I find it very disrespectful and does nothing for me. I dont find it cute!!!That being said...I enjoy meeting people. Once you get to know me you'll fall in love. Im pretty busy during the week,but weekends pretty free most of the time.I would like to meet someone that just wants to going out and have a good time. I just dont want drama. I love all types of music. I enjoy action movies. I dont talk much about myself but if you have any questions...Im a open book. I collect hellokitty and love candy. If your super sensitive I'm not for you.... even just coffee. just a place to get to know each other. I wouldn't mind doing something like a shooting range or an arcade!watch a ufc fight.... What ever....:)'

  • Prudence

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I am a Paramedic and I am an also very intuitive and empathetic woman and single mom of a eleven year old brilliant little boy, whom is Awesome. If you are not a gentleman or plan to message me with ungentlemanly chat, don't waste our time :) During the warm months I spend most of my free time with my son at the beach where his grandmother owns a home and we love the salt water and fishing. Winter months I enjoy watching movies and just enjoying my time off and relaxing and being with friends and family.... Please understand I am not interested in material things, I have my own thanks to my father and all he taught me. Love my career and I am very good at what I do. I have learned many, many lessons in life and feel that I am a pretty evolved human being lol, I am looking for the same. I care about people a lot and try to even love my enemies. I am easy going and love to laugh and smile all the time. I have been hurt and I've hurt people, I think maybe we all have. I am honest and loyal to a fault. I am a very positive person and love to surround myself with positive people. I have been on this site before and had my share of dates, just have not found what I am looking for. Physical attraction is important, but character, honesty and a good sense of humor goes a lot further with me. I read a lot of non fiction books and am business oriented as well. My body type, I would describe as busty curvy and some people think I'm pretty attractive. I am a country girl at heart and a lot of fun, I love the water and the sun...and again love to fish. I can be shy at first but once I come out of my shell...look out.... I love to slowdance in the kitchen or anywhere for that matter. My taste in music ranges from country, motown classics, R&B to top 40. Hmmmmm, well I am pretty open to anything, a casual meet somewhere public and if everything goes well...I'm sure we will come up with something for an actual date. I do not meet every one that messages me lol....7 total in a off and on, two year period. If this fact bothers you... I am also not going to be your cup of tea...because I am absolutely not fully vested in meetville.. meaning I am not a full time dater, not even part time. However, I am sincere in wishing everyone good luck finding exactly what you need and desire in life :)

  • Becki

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I am an active women, who is always on the go. I think its about time i slow down a bit, and start dating again. My life is very simple so please no drama! Honesty is the best policy. I play volleyball, enjoy rollerblading, nature walks, historical sites, interior decorating, a good book, cooking, good wine, many different things but im not going to go on about likes. i am spontanious and am always up for just about anything, however im not much into partying. i am ambitious, set goals for myself, independent, have a sense of humour, think everyone should smile atleast a few times a day(and yes i realize that i wasnt smiling in my pics)i need to be treated with respect if you want the same from me. i have lots of life experience but would now like 2 share my life with someone other then my children. i work in a long term care facility and am on call all the time, and work shift work. it comes with my job however there are some days i do say no to call ins.i feel that if im not attracted to a man there will probably never be a connection between us, so yes looks are important. however they arent everything to me. im looking for a man that is understanding and patient, abit adventurous, doesnt sit around playing video games for hrs on end (but from time to time i am known to play the wii), can hold a good conversation and my hand, sense of humour,good morals, respectful, prefer no criminal record....if you like what youve read and think you are a man for me, feel free to mess me. if i dont mess u back sorry but i know what i am looking for and its not that im a rude lady just picky on my men Hmmmmmmm......i think it depends on likes and interests. But communication is the key to a 2nd date ;)

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