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Monserrate, 40
United States, Michigan, Okemos

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About Me

Where is the person that is going to Wow me. So far I am not Impressed. Maybe online dating isnt for me.I happen to think I am a good catch and I am looking for the same.( wow that sounded vain) I am looking for certain qualities and someone I will have a good balance with. I honestly am tired of fishing!! I do a lot of throwing back because I only want the best catch and I won't settle. I try to update my pictures and profile every few weeks to keep it current. I Don't understand why people have older pictures up , lie about their age weight or who they are. Why be on here???. If you ever really meet someone wont they eventually find out? I am me completely honest to a fault some people can't deal w honesty .Facts about me.Work - I am fairly successful I am a Director of Safety in the Transportation field and I have a online adult store just for fun and to keep my supplies. Funtimesex . com check it out. Buy something who doesn' t like to play with toys????? Career wise I am very Driven and have passion for what I do. Children ***she is amazing almost 16. She is a Varsity runner in High School and my inspiration. Straight A Student. Her dad and I have been divorced over 10 years but we are both active parents . I consider him my family and we raise her the right way with love from each parent. Fun- I am pretty adventurous- I Jumped off the Stratoshere on New Years eve ***I have Sky dived etc... I am the type to try anything twice. I swore I was going to be on Fear Factor one day. Life should include fun adventure travel ...... What I am looking for - I make enough money to support my self quiet well I am secure with myself mind body and soul. I do not Need anyone but I am ready to Want someone so maybe you can be that person I want????!!! I am pretty picky on who I talk to and spend time with mainly because I dont have a lot of time to waste. Attraction is huge. They say you can tell in the first 10 seconds if you want to talk to someone so hopefully you have good pictures up. If you dont hopefully your message isnt boring. I hate boring and I am attracted to personality. If your profile or message doesnt show it I definately wont message back. Sorry . I get ton of messages that say Hi. Yes I know Hi is a ice breaker and I don't expect a novel but atleast be intresting otherwise I will definately pass you by. Also I am fine great in fact and my day is probably going well. I get those messages also asking.- I Travel a lot for work and sometimes I am on the go. .... Makes Dating a bit hard. Weight I use to be FAT seriously over ***pounds in ***I lost over 80 pounds with diet and excercise... Mind set and dedication it is the only way. There is no magic pill . You have to put work into it. I will never weigh what I once did. I seriously think who was that person????? 4 years later I gained some weight back. I stopped working at it and I am up a little more than I want to be you have to work harder the older you get So I am back at it again I am very very focused. It is time to be Wonder Women again I love her. I hope by year end to have my body in the best shape it has ever been or die in the gym trying. . Anything is achievable with your mind and staying at it. :) I currently work out 6 days a week. I am a horrible dinner date unless it is sushi Sashimi . I rarely cheat with anything fun so I suck at dinner dates. I Do Not *** I Appreciate the mail trust me I read everything. So if I don't *** my Thank you. I just don't want to waste your time or mine. Nice gets you so far it is mis leading . I don't want it done to me so I wont do it to you. Please understand and respect that. I don't mean to be cold or rude but Hey I am just not intrested Nothing Personal. I am sure you are great just not what I am looking for. Oh and P....... P.S.S. I don't live there....... Thanks and Good Luck with Everything :) Sky diving ok maybe not but something intresting to keep my attention in case you're boring. J/ K

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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