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About Me

Born & My goal in life is to just be happy & content. I'm very spontaneous & love to laugh. so if you don't have a good sense of humor and can't take a joke, then no need to waste your time or mine. I'm witty, sarcastic and one of the biggest sweethearts you'll ever meet, until you take my kindness for a weakness. I've been single for quite sometime and I'm not getting any younger, so I'd like to be able to meet someone with the potential of it growing into something, without rushing into it. The man I end up with has to be my best friend, someone who will always have my back at the worst of times, and be there with me to celebrate the best of times, as I would for them.One more thing..Communication is HUGE to me. If you suck at having a actual conversation, please do not even waste your time or mine.I don't care how good looking you may be, they can only take you oh so far.’s love with no intention of loving her...What I am not looking for:-Someone who is dependent on others-Someone who has no goals in life-A drug user-A liar, I simply have no tolerance for themp.s. I dare you to make me want to erase this profile ;)"I'm want love. Real love. Ridiculous, inconvenient, consuming, can't-live-without-each-other love."-SATC“He’s not perfect. You aren’t either, and the two of you will never be perfect. But if he can make you laugh at least once, causes you to think twice, and if he admits to being human and making mistakes, hold onto him and give him the most you can. He isn’t going to quote poetry, he’s not thinking about you every moment, but he will give you a part of him that he knows you could break. Don’t hurt ...him, don’t change him, and don’t expect for more than he can give. Don’t analyze. Smile when he makes you happy, yell when he makes you mad, and miss him when he’s not there. Love hard when there is love to be had. Because perfect guys don’t exist, but there’s always one guy that is perfect for you.” Bob Marley =)“I am good, but not an angel. I do sin, but I am not the devil. I am just a small girl in a big world trying to find someone to love.”?“I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.”

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Miya

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    Woman. 29 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 26-36

    About me, I have a great family and I have a great group of friends that I love to see when I get the chance; life does get busy. I tend to be funny, so I am told. I guess it usually happens accidentally, but it usually works out for the best. I like the simple pleasures in life, such as, movies, going to dinner, just hanging out at home, museums, mini golf, the zoo, going out, concerts, sporting events, pretty much anything that I can have fun doing and have fun with whomever I am with. I absolutely LOVE The Blackhawks and going to games! There is nothing like a going to the United Center for a game! I like music, usually Country. My hobbies include; writing, scrapbooking, reading, cooking, things to that affect. I have tried meeting people through friends, blind dates, and at bars but all of that gets fairly old very quickly. I am looking to meet a nice, well-rounded individual that has some of the same interest and values I have. I am a very outgoing person and have a great personality. I get along with everyone really well. I love laughing and usually am ok with making fun of myself. I like to be silly at times. I am good with friendly "teasing," if I can take it, I can also dish it out; so have a good sense of humor, no uptight people! I am OK with saying I am kind of a "dork!" It would be nice to meet someone who can laugh at themselves as well. Life is too short to not laugh and enjoy it as much as possible! I like guys who can take control of a situation, such as making certain decisions on plans. I like guys who open doors and treat girls with respect. I would like to believe chivalry still exists in guys. I do NOT like liars or people who say things they "think you want to hear." I'd rather have someone who can be honest and say how they feel, than someone who *** situation/problem. Nothing gets resolved by not talking about it. Please be able to communicate. I am very comfortable being dressed up and wearing high heels as much as I am being in jeans/t-shirt. I need a guy who is just as versatile. I like guys who aren't too pushy in a relationship, but like to get to know the person first. I am not the type of girl who is into dating alot of people; I would just like to find a good guy to get to know and spend time with and take it from there. I tend to be very easy to get along with, I don't like much of the complications that relationships tend to emulate. I don't want guys that are involved in too much drama, that isn't for me. I would just like to meet someone that I can have a cup of coffee with or go to dinner with. Basically, just meet somebody and no matter what we end up doing, having a good time with it. I think relationships are difficult enough, so I want to find someone that I can be comfortable around just being myself. I don't want to sound shallow, but I do believe that appearance is important when you initailly first meet someone. I think you have to be physically attracted to someone to begin with. Most people don't just go up to people and ask them out if there is no attraction. So, in the beginning attraction is important, but it becomes less important to me as I get to know the person. Once I get to know someone, it isn't there looks at all, but their personality and how well we get along and relate to each other. In the end that is the most important factor. With that said, if I don't respond to a message, please don't take it personally. Most likely because I don't think there could be a connection for whatever reason and I don't believe in wasting my time or anyone elses for something that will not go anywhere. I have never tried online dating, so I am only doing this because I want to meet someone who is seriously interested in getting to know someone else. Plus, I get to talk to people I normally wouldn't have come across in my daily life! I am fine with hanging out and getting to know each other and go from there. I have dated enough people who have exhausted my time, that is not for me. So please only talk to me if you are serious about getting to know someone and can see what can develop. So, I guess if you are interested and I sound interesting let me know! I believe a first date should consist of something simple, so that 2 people can sit and talk to each other and get to know one another. Maybe going to get coffee, a drink or something to that affect. No movies or concerts or anything excessively loud because that would defeat the purpose of "getting to know someone." Although, something kind of random and out of the ordinary could be an interesting choice or a fun first date story!

  • Darien

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    Woman. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 27-37

    I love sports and the outdoors. I'm currently in school and focusing on myself and my life. I'm very out-going, have a great personality and good sense of humor. I love to listen to any kind of music that has a great beat to it. I love to work-out and have a work-out partner as well. My ideal of a first date is to have a nice candle light dinner with some music and connect with the other person .

  • Tawny

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    Woman. 28 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 25-35

    I'm not good at this stuff so here it goes.. I am a hard worker, I like to go to concerts, go down the shore, anything fun. I also don't mind sitting home watching a good movie and relaxing. If you want to know more lets chat

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