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Benjamina, 29

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About Me

Writing these things is so awkward. I like to think I'm more dynamic than can be described in a box.I come from a large, hilarious, wonderful family who I really enjoy. Eating healthy and staying in good shape is important to me, but not so important that I don't love a big mac every once in a while. I'm a pretty big nerd. I love reading, and I pay attention to current events and politics and other things that require independent, original thinking. I'm looking for someone who can make me laugh. I prefer to always be laughing and I don't take a lot of things seriously (probably to a fault). Let's be honest - you're going to decide if you have any interest in hanging out with me for a prolonged period of time within 2 minutes of meeting me - so I don't like complicated first dates. Let's not spend weeks getting to know each other. I prefer to grab a drink, see if we like each other, and then figure it out from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Eldreda

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    Woman. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 24-34

    i like being spontaneous, going out and staying in with the right people and things involving music, (open minded but i love live jazz and soul influenced old hip hop, neo soul and reggaeton),reading,cooking,shopping,photography,basketball,shoes,wine,boxing,traveling,NFL, learning/experiencing new things, midnight drives, educating myself, collecting vintage perfume bottles and going to the gym. My career is very special to me, I work hard and party/live hard and im extremly ambitious.... I am a generally happy person and luv meeting new people!I am obviously looking for someone into the same things as me, ***ears old, smart, funny, in to experiencing new things and culturally diverse who shares the same desires and values:) Something funny and can't take too seriously like ice skating

  • Gabriela

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    Woman. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 24-34

    I am a full-time Accounting/Auditing major at UAB. I enjoy the professional realm and have high career ambitions. I suppose I am guilty of owning a suit or two. I take my education very seriously and it is the priority right now; I don't allow anything to get in the way of my GPA. However, I am also very at home in the artistic world. I enjoy off-beat fashion, local coffee shops, street music, drawing in the park, yarn bombing and morning yoga outside. I eat organic and love cooking for people.I do have a pre-school aged daughter and I am divorced. However, those are just parts of my life and I don't allow them to define me. My kid is an amazing person and we have many grand adventures together, but I don't look at myself as a "single mom". She's just a person whom I am privileged to spend time exposing to the cultures and experiences of life. I hope one day she will be successful in her ventures and remember that at the heart of it, who we are is simply defined by the compilation of thousands of moments and a single decision can alter it all.As far as things I enjoy doing, really, I just like to have fun! It's that simple! That can mean pretty much anything: reading, studying, people watching, downtown hide & go seek, bouldering, local festivals and art shows, exploring new places, taking crazy photographs, checking out local breweries, chilling at the house with friends, hanging out at the city park, sitting on the kitchen floor and talking about life. There is really only one rule: Misdemeanors Only! As long as we avoid any felony charges, I'm probably in.I suppose that I am looking for someone to "get to know". If a relationship happens, that's skippy, but it's not necessary. I'm very content with my life and don't need a relationship to finish off my existence. We are each our own person and must stand on our own two (or one.. or four) feet. Relationships aren't about depending on one another to fulfill a void. They are about sharing life experiences with another soul whom you enjoy being around just for the sake of them being around. Honestly, I'm a laid back, happy person. I know what's important in life and it takes a lot to knock me out of whack. I'm independent, self sufficient, sometimes a little crazy, sometimes a little chill, but overall I just like to enjoy life. Feel free to enjoy it alongside me. Oh, and if you triple dog dare me... odds are, I'm going to do it!!! Surprise me! ...but seriously, can we stop for coffee on the way?

  • Maribeth

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    Woman. 28 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 25-35

    Hey there! I'm glad that you stumbled upon my page (unless you are a creepy stalker, and in that case please go away.) Now that we've weeded out the creepers, a little about me. I'm a what you see is what you get kind of lady. I truly believe in being honest and upfront from the get go. Whether that be blunt, feisty or even a little sassy sometimes, I'm proud of who I am. I'm a tomboy girly girl. You'll normally find me watching sports and cheering on my favorite teams (I'm a huge Sporting KC fan who rarely misses a match) over getting all dolled up to head to a club. I'm finally settling into my life in KC but I'd love to meet someone who I can explore with and who can show me sides to the city I may not have discovered on my own. As I will be honest, I'd hope you would be too. I've had some good luck on here, met some that are friends, but haven't really found 100% what I'm looking for. . I'm dedicated, passionate and a bit mysterious. I love intelligent conversation and debate (even if we don't see eye to eye), random ventures into the unknown (take that as you wish), and living my life with no regrets. I've recently switched career paths, and am now doing healthcare sales at a great company. In my "free-time" I also am working on starting my own freelancing firm working with social media marketing. We'll see how that goes.One of my greatest passions is good conversation and getting to know people. I believe intelligent conversation and debate is an art form that has unfortunately gotten lost in the shuffle of everyday technology driven lives. Beyond that, I love live music of all forms, getting down and dirty playing sports and basically doing anything unplanned. Something outside of the box. I want to talk and meet someone but also just have a blast being a kid. I want to know you before I plan our first date, though.

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