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Maxine, 30
United States, Michigan, Dowagiac

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So I finally have time to write something here...About me: I'm not a complicated person to understand. I'm 30 years old born Feb. I am divorced going on 6 years now, I was with my ex husband for 6 years. Prior to him, since him, and after him I've been through a lot. I'm a domestic violence survivor if you want to look at it that way. A lot of things have happened that have shaped me to the way I am now. I wish not to post my history or any baggage as it's stuff that should be talked about when ready. I will say this, I'm not on here to look for something short term, I'm not on here to find someone who plays emotional games. I am looking for the next man who will walk me down the aisle. I took a sexual assessment from this site at the bottom of this post, reading that will explain how i am to a "T". I am not looking for games, fun, or any one night stand, if that is you please keep moving. I have been through too much to settle for less. I do not have kids, I don't know if I can have kids, but someday I would like some, whether it's my own if possible or the person I'm with. I do not have any pets, I am a huge animal lover everything from dogs to horses. I would love to own my own horse some day. I am also into cars, I used to do car shows and street race, I do not fix cars or anything on my own but I do like to detail my cars and learn about them. I currently drive a ***Mazda 3 S she is my baby, I am a huge Mazda fanatic as well as a Chevrolet Camaro fan. I hope to some day own a black 5th Gen Camaro Z28. I like to listen to all kinds of music mostly pop, i'm a die hard NKOTB fan since i was 8 years old. I like to go online, as I do play a game called Second Life, although the game is geared towards adult activities I actually breed and raise horses on it, it gives me the feeling of owning something in a game that I someday hope to own in real life. I enjoy going to the movies, bowling, mini golfing, things around that nature. I sometimes like to take a trip out to Mt. I currently live with my parents and have been since my divorce as I do not make enough money at this time to make it out on my own. I prefer not to jump into meeting someone right away, not only could it potentially dangerous, it's uncomfortable. I would prefer to talk to someone for a few days to a week on here before I even think about meeting or exchanging my number. Also I am an overweight girl and 4'11". I wouldn't say I'm morbidly obese or too damn fat, but I am not skinny at all. I also have a few medical issues such as high blood pressure, irritable bowel syndrome, gastric issues, depression; minor things such as allergies and stuff. I know that there is more to me than what you see on the outside, I have a big heart, i try to have a good personality, I do admit that i can be a bit immature (aren't we all). I believe in being honest and laying things out there I would rather someone know what they are getting into rather than finding out later. Therefore, i believe in communication, honesty, respect. I have a tendency to be insecure, impatient, low self esteem and no confidence. A lot of the feelings stem from what I have been through. I also do tend to be clingy and needy and by needy i mean wanting affection. A lot of these issues are minor and can be fixed when the right person comes around. But for anyone to truly win my heart they have to take the good with the bad. I cannot and will not change for anyone. Yes i have emotional issues and I'm overweight that's something someone has to live with there's much more to me than that. I also wish to lose weight but only for myself and no one else, I would mostly like to be healthy even if i stay fat for the rest of my life. I also work full time at a C3 for Humana. Usually i sit at home being lazy lol. I like to watch any kind of movies mostly horses as I'm a horse freak, horror, comedy. My favorite book series is the Black Stallion and the House of Night. My favorite movie is Wild Hearts Can't Be Broken. I know to some that age is just a number but I am not looking for anyone under 25 as I don't want to be made to feel like I'm someones mother, i have a best friend who married someone 10 years older than him and she treats him like a child and I certainly don't want that mess on my plate. I also do not want to date anyone older than 40. It's just getting up there close to my dads age and a little creepy for me. I also would like to point out that I get shy/embarrassed when someone says i'm beautiful, sexy, pretty because honestly I don't feel it. So please don't get offended if I don't react to your comment in a way you expect. I'm really not sure what else I can say about me that i haven't already said. I hope by this point you have read everything. Feel free to drop me a message I try to answer questions as honestly as possible. **This explains me to a T**Jennifer is not necessarily a prude or a "saint," but the overall answer patterns suggest that Jennifer is probably very cautious about to whom and under what circumstances to surrender to romantic urges. People in this category may be inherently careful and skeptical by nature, may have been deeply hurt or had a negative sexual experience in the past, or may just prefer taking things slowly in making someone's acquaintance or in getting involved in a relationship. In wooing such individuals, you may find that it takes them a while to "warm up" to you, though this should not be misinterpreted as disinterest. Sexually speaking, they may not appear easily aroused, despite being totally titillated, with many quite adept at subduing their response until you've gained their trust. Once their guard is down, you will find the rewards great, with these individuals often wildly uninhibited and receptive. First date can be as simple as dinner and a movie or bowling I'm not picky.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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