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Lilita, 53

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About Me

Hello. A little about me. I am a mother of 3 adult children, two daughters and one son. My oldest daughter passed away four years ago at the age of 26. My other two (daughter and son) are twins. They are now 27 years old and on their own. My daughter lives down south so I try to travel down as often as possible to see her. I am also a grandparent of three awesome beautiful girls. 11, 5 & 11months. I am also very proud to say I am a member of the Blue Star Moms. Three Blue Stars, one for each child deployed. My son, daughter & son in-law. I have been employed with the local county police dept for the last 20 years. I've been in several commands over the years and each one was a blessing to be a part of. Would love to share the future memories with someone that also wants to share what life has to offer. At 53 years old, no children at home, I like to jump in the car and just go. Whether it be the next town over or a journey thru states. As much as I love to see new different places, I also love the comforts of home and family. I love all genres of music. Well, not all. I do not like rap. Give me classic rock, country, blues, jazz, classical, soul, reggae....I like the beach and the country. I can adapt to almost anything and willing to experience just about anything. I have knocked one dream trip off my bucket list. Awesome trip, but would have been so much better if shared with someone special. Another dream trip is an African Safari. Being a contestant or just being able to try out the course on "Wipe Out" looks like awesome fun. I love roller coasters, sling shot chair ride, anything exciting. I LOVE to laugh (I laugh LOUD), and I really love to be silly. I'm looking for someone who wants to do these silly fun things with me. I think the perfect first date would be somewhere with a relaxed atmosphere. Coffee, drinks, treats, casual n comfy. Maybe a nice casual walk/ hike at a local park or beach.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lorretta

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    CANT WAIT TO SEE WHAT LIFE BRINGS. Take each day as it comes .Hello I don't want to sound shallow, so far from that , but if you respond to my profile i would hope you would have a picture...Please know for the get go,I am a all around LADY..if your are looking for a good friend someone that loves life and all that you can make of it, you just may have found the one your looking for..This way of meeting a person is new to me, however stranger things have happened lol. please respond with picture i would very much like to put a face to the person i choose to chat with..Thanks.THINGS I ENJOY WOULD LOVE TO SHARE WITH YOUMusic.: COUNTRY MUSIC....Hey pretty cowboy lady.love to go to concerts. Love to sing...(Not to bad on the ears)Enjoy riding on the back of motorcycle..going for long rides.lunch, or a night ride.I enjoy the outdoors, walks on the beach and a fire watching the sun set.Trail riding with my horses. listening to the sounds of crickets and waiting to see a falling star having that special person holding you as the fire *** crackles .Those are the finer things in life..yet they are so simple to enjoy with the rite company.I love RomanceI love all the season ,a road trip up in the mountains to see the autumn colorsMaking snow angels and snow ball fights.or just watching snow flakes Fall.enjoy going to see the Nut Cracker its a tradition. concerts, arts,enjoy Nascar.Going to classic car shows. car races sports. fishing , huntingFine dinning, and even a BBQ. Enjoy cooking for friends and familyquite times . reading and just reflecting on how good life is.Enjoy a Midnight picnic.love laughter, compassion and passion and warmth. hopeless romantic.strong yet sensitive. candle light dinners, dancing, holding hands, walks.good conversation. watching a good movie. popcorn and extra butterNo drama, games )...just be a honest....if your single ill do my best to respond to your messages..If you are looking to play games of the heart.I am not in to that..No scams ...the only games i play are board games, wie, play station..lolI am a women that loves God . I'm blessed to have children and a fantastic family and circle of friends. I am looking for the same in a man, one that loves God.I've been told that I'm attractive,and that I'm like a magnet people enjoy my company ,since of humor. love to laugh , at home in a crowd or just being alone..I have been single by my choosing now for several years. I m not going to settle just to settle. I have a lot to share with the person that is the one for me.WITH ME YOU HAVE HONESTY,TRUST, LAUGHTER.,WARMTH,COMPASSION,AND SO MUCH MORE. I believe you can tell a lot about a person by their voice and what they and how they say it....Again if your looking for that special friend , I'm hard to find but when you find me you have a found friend for life. So come find me.who knows maybe even LTR. wouldnt we both be BlessedSeeking: A man ages 47 to 60

  • Alisson

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    So are you the one I have been casting for????I seem to have the casting thing down really well(the chatting online)! It's the reeling them in that I can't seem to figure out, ( that first date)!I avoid drama and negative people, just a waste of my time. I try to find the positive in everything, it's all in your perspective!!! Just sayin!!!I love flowers, and buy them for myself, just to brighten my work space, as I am not the only one to enjoy them that way. That is the best thing about flowers everyone that sees them smiles, and the smile is even bigger and a little sly when they are delivered!I try to live my life daily in the way that the Lord wants me to. l love to do random acts of kindness for those close to me!!! Bringing them coffee or a soda, just cause, packing a picnic lunch and kidnapping someone, a call or text just saying hi! I love cooking, and hanging with family and friends.!I am worthy of man that is grand and is a true old fashioned gentlemen. Being a gentlemen is more then just holding a door!!!!I would love to hear from you and to chat a little, to see if you are a keeper!!!!Dawn A first date...it's Fall!! More of a challenge to be creative... Roaming the streets of a local small town. Visiting the Journey Museum. Bowling, first strike first kiss, what do you think??

  • Aiah

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    We are all a mix of nurture and nature. In my case the nurture included a lot of arts, culture and liberal politics. Nature gave me my pale skin, red hair, blue/grey eyes and a perfect 0.7 hip to waist ratio. Before I knew the curves were an asset I found I had a pretty good brain that needs a lot of stimulation. I've heard "treasure" and even "odd duck", meant in the nicest way, to describe the fact I don't exactly follow the herd. So unique brew is probably an apt description. It's no big surprise I work in a creative position. And it follows that I frequent galleries and lectures probably more than most. I listen to NPR, watch Charlie Rose and have been buying my food from farmers markets since I was a kid. Those that don't give their word lightly. People who are passionate, be it for their work, their hobby or life in general. Friends describe me as an ever-curious good conversationalist who can make people feel comfortable. I have a knack for finding those interesting little places and things that aren't on the public radar. So there's the touch of the explorer. Very often you'll find some leaf, seed pod or shell in my pockets.On a day-to-day level I possess a good amount of stick-to-it-ive-ness that keeps me grounded. I don't match the flighty artist stereotype at all. After eighteen years of marriage and over twenty years in my vocation, commitment and tenacity come naturally.But being grounded doesn't mean I've spent a lot of time standing still. I have adventured to some out of the way places. Travel is a mind-expanding experience.What might be a matching brew? Not sure...I am like my worst client in that regard, I keep thinking I will know it when I see it. I do think taking any action ripples out toward a final positive outcome. Even if it seems like a numbers game or random chance, to my mind even the small step of coffee, increases both our odds of finding that someone we are seeking.

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