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Aiah, 54
United States, Maine, Kennebunk

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About Me

We are all a mix of nurture and nature. In my case the nurture included a lot of arts, culture and liberal politics. Nature gave me my pale skin, red hair, blue/grey eyes and a perfect 0.7 hip to waist ratio. Before I knew the curves were an asset I found I had a pretty good brain that needs a lot of stimulation. I've heard "treasure" and even "odd duck", meant in the nicest way, to describe the fact I don't exactly follow the herd. So unique brew is probably an apt description. It's no big surprise I work in a creative position. And it follows that I frequent galleries and lectures probably more than most. I listen to NPR, watch Charlie Rose and have been buying my food from farmers markets since I was a kid. Those that don't give their word lightly. People who are passionate, be it for their work, their hobby or life in general. Friends describe me as an ever-curious good conversationalist who can make people feel comfortable. I have a knack for finding those interesting little places and things that aren't on the public radar. So there's the touch of the explorer. Very often you'll find some leaf, seed pod or shell in my pockets.On a day-to-day level I possess a good amount of stick-to-it-ive-ness that keeps me grounded. I don't match the flighty artist stereotype at all. After eighteen years of marriage and over twenty years in my vocation, commitment and tenacity come naturally.But being grounded doesn't mean I've spent a lot of time standing still. I have adventured to some out of the way places. Travel is a mind-expanding experience.What might be a matching brew? Not sure...I am like my worst client in that regard, I keep thinking I will know it when I see it. I do think taking any action ripples out toward a final positive outcome. Even if it seems like a numbers game or random chance, to my mind even the small step of coffee, increases both our odds of finding that someone we are seeking.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Traveling Spanish Turkish Vietnamese
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  • Tamsen from Kennebunk | Woman | 52 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Hi there to all!!!!, *** ¸¸.•¤**¤•.¸.•¤**¤•…... *** .•* Welcome to my profile *•. .•*/.•*•.\ ¸..•¤**¤•., .•¤**¤•.*.*/.•*•.\.`·.¸.·´¸.·´¸.·´¨) ¸.·*¨)(¸.·´ (¸.·´ .·´ ¸¸.·¨¯`· .*.*.*.*. ; HOPE YOU READ ALL OF IT! ""WOW"" ,SO MANY "SHY"MEN OUT THERE!!!I WONT BITE!!! UNLESSYOU HAVE CHOCOLATE ON YOU !! HAHA...AND WE CAN BE FRIENDS FIRST ,NOT JUMPING INTO LONGTERM RIGHT AWAY, I realize that can't happen without the foundation of friendship first, and that takes time. I'm not here either for Games,to pull on your Heart Strings or mine,THANKS!!!!!!.Like to say I'm. Very Rich with having GREAT Family & Friends, which is very important to me!!!!("Any man can make several women happy for a short time...It takes a special man to make ONE woman happy for a lifetime"...Author..My Mom...:) I AM very happy go lucky,, sweet person..., must be from all the sugar I ate as a kid LOL but I'm told lots that i look younger than my age...must be the good"" genes""..lol.Well here are some of the things I enjoy,~~~~~like Concerts, Karoke, Beaches, Sunsets,Northern lights( awesome to see ) Traveling ,GOOD MASSAGES, CUDDLING,Movies,Camping and Camp fires , Boating, Fishing,"LOVE TO DO GARDENING ( WATCH THINGS GROW)" , RENOS, Bowling, Dancing, Race Car Races, Volleyball, ,Shopping ,*I'M A GREAT COOK*, so staying in and eating......BBQS....WITH FAMILY AND FRIENDS, or going out dinning is all great as well,... Good Laughs and Deep Conversations ,Walking Hand in Hand on a beach or just down the street ,LOOKING FOR MY LAST FIRST KISS!!! THATS LASTS 4 DAYS......SERIOUSLY;.....I do think that physical attraction is important in a relationship (AlTHOUGH I know its not everything as well) so I am hoping to find a man who can look at me in the special way,that makes me wanna MELT... and have that Butterfly Feeling.....and i hope I do the same for him. A close physical connection energy is important to me and to find that i believe,is not only Rare & Special thing...but also a* beautiful experiance* and something* I DEEPLY *** NOT A ...*10*.. BARBIE.. HAVE A HOUR GLASS FIGURE with CURVES IN THE RIGHT PLACES:)A girl without curves is like a road without corners. You get where you're going quickly - but it's boring as heLL:) "I do have a heart of $ ~ gold ~$ that is a *TEN*!!!"If YOU live FAR AWAY"... WILD HORSES COULDNT KEEP US APART IF ITS MEANT TO BE!!!! WILLING TO RELOCATE FOR THE RIGHT ONE( or left lol)I KNOW WE HAVE TO DATE FIRST TOO SEE IF THERE IS ANYTHING FOR US SO LETS CHAT AND SEE!!!...... "NOT"...... into the bar scene over that stuff....... just want my last good man....!!!!we are all looking for the same a mate and woundn't that be great if we all could get what we want !!!!And too get off this site for good!!! only have one chance at life so lets live it as much as possible!!!:p.s. so please have recent pics too not when you were 20 years old!! its only fair!!!! thanks again!!!!....Whats funny also.. is when people say that I'm "Only looking for Local People".. well what if your soul mate is "Not Local".. Then What? Who knows where your soul mate might be hiding... she could be anywhere....D.C. MAYBE!!!LOL Think positive! With a little optimism and a few airmiles anything is possible! I'd Rather be persued...... then persueSweet words dont melt menot a ****.......im a sweety with confidence .....hehenot selfish....i am generous at giving love and affection..LOVE.., LOVE to be spoiled and .....ITS TIME!!Hitting close to home these days: "If someone wants to be a part of your life, they'll make an effort to be in it. So don't bother reserving a space in your heart for someone who doesn't make an effort to stay" ACTIONS speak louder than Words!!!!Sometimes I think about the what if's, the has beens, and the what nots, then i wake up and realize the right nows...... Meeting someone for the first time is not what I would ever call a "first date" If it was then I have been dating all sorts of MEN at the NO FRILLS GROCERY STORE! LOLBut once we do meet WE will know IF THERE IS A CONNECTION........THEN MAKE PLANS FOR A DATEBut the first meeting I would say is a coffee nearby and maybe a bite to eat if the time works for us.(Please don't take it personally if I don't respond to your *** would be because I didn't see a connection after reading your profile,& didn't feel there is any compatibility there and I don't want to waste anyone's time. I appreciate your interest though and thank you for considering me. :) Thanks & Good Luck IN your search

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  • Antonina from Kennebunk | Woman | 54 years old | Taurus
    Antonina

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Howdy all.I don't really know what to say everyone asks the same things, What are you looking for then it's on to whats your bra sizes. Well that number 1 will get you booted off. I'm not on here to do the cyber sex thing I'm on here to do what we all are doing " Looking for that Right Person".What am I looking for hum?1, Honesty= at all cost if you can't be honest then it won't work2, Friend= you have to be a friend first thats where the honesty part comes in to play.3, Man= if you are a Man dont look for me to pay your way4,Humor= if you can't have fun and laugh and joke and just enjoy each other then don't bore me please5,Enjoys life, gardening, window shopping, bbq in the back yard, flee markets just enjoys being with the one you are with.WHAT I'M NOT LOOKING FOR= Drunks, Druggies or someone who is looking for a FREE RIDE Maybe a nice place for dinner and good conversation or coffee and a movie depends

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  • Pinkie from Kennebunk | Woman | 55 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    It is hard to describe yourself to someone else but here goes I am a honest, caring ,loyal,sensitive yet strong minded ,I like to cuddle hold hands long kisses and hugs compassionate .I like to cook rather then go out to some fast food place but do enjoy a night out for dinner and a movie just fro a change I like surprises I enjoy the simple things in life .My goals are to find someone that I can be myself with and be happy with some one who is fun loving caring and loving that likes to hold hands kisses cuddling on the couch while we watch a movie or just to have a conversation someone who wants to get out there and live life .ok so enough about me and my wants msg me and tell me a little bit about what you are looking for your goals in life and what you are looking for in a person on here or at the address here just copy and paste to your browser *** Looking forward to hearing from you Meet and greet in a public place for coffee or drink what ever we can discuss that at a later date

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