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Effie, 54

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About Me

I am a woman with a creative background who loves to be with people who can make me laugh, whom strangers think I may be shy, but inside has a wicked grin, the occasional inappropriate thought, and friends whom I prove this to often. I am extremely loyal, compassionate, affectionate, and non-racist (don't judge me by my intolerance to intolerance). I love a good conversation, and to have my mind challenged. I believe I am smart enough that you wouldn't be tempted to throw blonde jokes my way. (well maybe once in awhile, I often push a door when it clearly says PULL). I make mistakes, but I own them. I need feedback and the truth. (I have yet to develop the skill to read minds and as cliche as it sounds, communication is key). The type of man I thrive with is an outgoing take-charge kind of man, it brings out the best in me. While I'm very independent, it's nice to throw the keys to someone else for a change. I enjoy my own company, but it's nice to share time with a good man. I've learned that looks are for the most part irrelevant (although you need that initial spark) and that it's how a man makes her woman feel that's important. And this goes both ways. A small gesture goes a long way with me. My musical favourites run from blues and rock and everything in between. I love to watch live bands. I'm just looking for someone special to share some of my favourite things to do, and would love to be introduced to some new ones.While I'm fine with myself where I am physically, I am a constant work in progress, working on bettering myself and need someone to accept me as i am right now, and enjoy the ride with me. I am a big woman with an even bigger heart. If you judge me by my hair colour, skin colour, or body size, you will miss entirely who I am. My mantra? Say what you mean, and mean what you say. I think that bridge should be crossed when we get to it. Something casual and simple.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I am high energy, interested in everything around me, and all that life can offer. I am intelligent, and have a sense of humor that goes from bawdy, to high brow. I love to kick back and relax, but generally only after doing everything I could get done in a day. I am passionate about everything that is important to me; those who I love, and all that is around me. A glass of red wine, and any kind of music excluding rap, will find me dancing- with you?- or alone. I am surrounded by nature, and I love it- I am enveloped in love for my animals, and the time that I spend with them, and it fills me with joy. Yet, there is a place in me that wants more. I want it all. I know what that is, and I have felt it, and I want it again. So, here I am, searching.My favorite movie is probably "The American President", and I adore musical theater. If you are a right wing conservative, we probably will not get along. If you are open to discussing all of the possibilities? Well then, maybe we will. Life is a process, and if you have already determined all of the answers, my questions will not agree with you. You must be athletic, TALL, passionate, driven, and someone who has had goals, and found a way to achieve them. Artistic, kind, and with a fabulous sense of humor are simple necessities.- sorry! If you are not tall, athletic, and fit, please do not waste either of our time.......one never knows.

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    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

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  • Joceline

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I’m seeking balance in my life.I have a wonderful career, a great family, a close circle of friends I can depend on and I wake up happy each morning. So what am I missing? A companion. A great guy who has …..*A sharp wit to keep me laughing. * A love for music so we can burst into song on a car trip or check out some of my friends performing around town. * Spring in his step so we can do the happy dance together. * Youthful exuberance to match mine. * A keen intellect to remember what I’ve forgotten during a ‘menopausal/blonde/it’s been a really long day’ moment. * An adventuresome spirit because darn it, it’s time we had some fun!* Optimism because the doom and gloom attitude is very unhealthy.* An open mind... don't worry, your brain won't fall out.* Patience for when I have to put in crazy hours for an event or deadline.* Decent cooking skills so we don’t starve during previously stated crazy hours for an event or deadline. *The most important thing is integrity, because with that, trust and a good foundation begins.Now.... as for me.....* I am healthy, happy , and I just LOVE to laugh.* I evaluate people by their character, not by their ethnicity.* I don't relate well to men who have to have their way all of the time. We can meet in the middle like intelligent adults.* I find that self confidence is very attractive.* I'm a real snuggle bug and very affectionate.* I'm optimistic 99% of the time.* I have degrees in fine arts AND accounting. Both sides of my brain work well together.* I am blessed to have a beautiful studio and art gallery. Thus the reason for events and deadlines mentioned earlier.I'm a happy woman who wants to share her life with a happy man....... simple as that. surprise me!

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