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Ainsley, 52

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About Me

Hmmm...describe me... It's probably best if I state what my friends say about me which is sometimes very different from how I would describe myself. So, they say that I'm funny, honest, passionate, smart, fearful, a bit walled off at times, very creative, hard-working, a nerd, intuitive, extremely strong, very helpful, attractive, athletic, analytical, ...Yikes! That's plenty. I obviously have some REALLY GREAT friends. Oh, and I asked my mom to describe me, and she said, ..."well, you're just perfect"... That's probably where I get my sense of humor, and definitely my capacity to love on such a deep level. I moved to CA with the man that I am now divorcing (we separated over three years ago). Divorce-- The marriage was supposed to be 'until death do us part.' I couldn't exactly kill him--that would be immoral. But I refuse to share MY man with other women, so it had to end. I guess I'm selfish that way.I must say, I strongly value honesty. Although I CAN read minds, it's just easier if I don't have to waste my superpowers on someone whose intent is to deceive me. I guess maybe I should be honest then. I don't really have superpowers; hence, no mindreading skills. I do have a bit of women's intuition though, and I pray for clarity on a regular basis. The truth comes out eventually, why not just start with it?I'm told that I'm easy to talk to and actually quite down to earth. I'm somewhat of a homebody, but after 15 years of marriage, I'm finding that I love to get out and socialize on a regular basis. I have a fondness for the dancefloor. I like R&B, rock, and old school music to dance to, but when I'm just listening, I'm country all the way. My favorite hobby is to crochet, but I also love home improvement. There's nothing sexier than a man that can build and fix things. And I definitely want to be right in there helping to get things done.This seems so 'all about me' and one-sided. I think I'd rather have a two way discovery process. Fabulous chemistry is mandatory for that deep connection that I'm looking for. I know there's a man out there that is my everything. I'm ready to find you. I'm a bit old fashioned, so I'll let you decide that one.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Alane

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I’m a lady and love to be treated as one. I’m comfortable in jeans but also love being a girly girl wearing alluring dresses and sexy heels being desirable. I love to travel.....guess all that military moving around stayed in my blood! I love music, movies, sunsets and quite times. I cry at movies, I’m passionate, loyal, loving, caring and a true romantic. I love to spoil my man, wear his shirts and brighten his day by just walking into the room. Love to send cards or leave little notes just because and show him how much I’m thinking of him. I play no games and want no drama, been there, done that, and never want it again! I’m not into one night stands, young boys or someone wasting my time. At this point in my life, I’m ready to love again, settle down, and give one special man my heart forever. I love a clean cut men who smells good and takes care of themselves. I like a man who opens my door, pulls out my chair , sends cards or flowers just because and makes me smile. I’m looking for my lover, best friend and someone to have a great conversation with and to be a great listener. I want to feel his breath on my neck and feel the Goosebumps and butterflies in my stomach when he touches me. I want to lay in his arms all night and wake up to his breath in my ear. I want to spoil him and to always take care of him and be there when he needs a shoulder to lean on. He must be honest, loyal, and above all faithful. I’m looking for a man who believes in God, family and loves children. I'm also looking for a man close to my age. I want a man who looks at me as my father did with his love, compassion, and adornment for my mother, to be there with one another until our last breath on earth together. I want a man who just can’t live with me, but who can’t live without me. I want to long for one another when we are apart and count the minutes till he walks through the door with passion in his heart and eyes for just me. I want to always make him feel he is as special, loved, respected, and adored by me and as I am to him. If you are this man, I'm the woman that was meant for you..... I don't do the whole club scene any more but do enjoy still getting out and listening to good music. I'm happy to just walk hand in hand along the beach, hold one another on the sofa and watch a movie, quite romantic dinners, and spending time with family. It wouldn’t matter what we are doing as long as we are doing it together. I am only looking for a meaningful relationship that can grow into a lifetime of memories and great times.

  • Matthew

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Enjoy fitness training, cycling, and healthy food choices. Wine and chocolate are considered healthy in my book! Love to cook, trying new recipes for that special someone.Enjoy going to sporting events but honestly I'm more of a "people watcher". Love the fall season and the many outdoor activities that happen this time if year. Divorced since ***after a 23 year marriage. I am excited about the opportunity to meet someone special and share good times and conversation! Have written longer profiles but it's more interesting to learn about each other over time.Send me a message if you would like to learn more. Very relaxed and nice conversation is all that is necessary.. Maybe a cool beverage as well!

  • Heleen

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I am an energetic women who enjoys working out and on weekends relax by taking in some hiking trails with my four legged friend. I am not one to be a couch potato but I do enjoy the simple pleasures of relaxing with a glass of wine and sharing a movie with that special someone. Traveling is my passion so when I am not working hard at my business I am planning my next adventure. Let's start with a cup of coffee and see if we have a connection then take it from there.

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