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Soila, 55

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About Me

"I must be a mermaid. I have no fear of depths and a great fear of shallow living."thought-provoking, laugh-inducing, book-loving, adventure-craving, water-revelling, hand-holding, meal-preparing, dessert-sharing, wine-tasting, road-tripping, plane-hopping, mountain climbing, music-humming, sunset-viewing, fireplace-gazing, thunderstorm-listening, couch-cuddling-movie-watching, late-night-conversing kind of girl.While "Most men lead lives of quiet desperation and go to the grave with the song still in them" -"On Love" by Kahlil Gibran is one of my favorite poems.Meditation from Thais by Jules Massenet is the most heart wrenching, hauntingly beautiful music I've ever heard."It is more deeply stirring to my blood than any imagining could possibly have been."Please note: I am looking for a serious monogamous relationship with a man who is emotionally/physically available. That means you are unattached, over your ex, your children are older and you actually have time to date. Please have an open heart and know what you want.I hope you find what you're looking for! ....don't want to say goodbye...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Merideth

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    The dreaded box that is supposed to tell any and all possible readers about ourselves and what we are looking for. Sounds easy enough ... So then why do I have writers block ? Laughter and great conversation are at the top of my list. A real connection with someone who genuinely wants to get to know me and will allow me the honor to know his thoughts and feelings. I would like to have someone in my life , to share adventures , bottles of wine , silly text messages. I am easy going and do not come with a big bag of drama ! It is a start at least ... Update : It donned on me this morning that online dating is kind of like shoe shopping ...When I first hit the "search" button and all the various profiles come up on my screen, I recognize the same excited feeling I get when I enter a shoe store. All the many types and styles catch my curious eye. At first darting quickly from one to another, and then, choosing a few that make my heart race - just a little. I see the flashy, sparkly man / stiletto. Always a good choice for a fun night out. Alas, in the end however, the evening usually ends with my feet feeling a little sore and my heart longing for more.The athletic man / shoe is also a choice at times. Flash forward to climbing The Grouse Grind as a first date. I am sucking on my asthma inhaler , my perfectly straightened hair going frizzy from all the perspiring I am doing and my water bottle being drank with the same enjoyment that I sometimes feel for a lovely bottle of Pinot Grigio. Not always my first choice, but with the right encouragement can be good for the soul.High on the shelf there is also the comfy man / shoe. Perfect for quiet evenings at home, watching a movie or grabbing take out food. Sweet. The never go wrong kind of guy / shoe. The ever popular flip flops / man ! Let's grab a blanket and head to the beach with your guitar and some food ! ( Note to self : get a pedicure ) Oh , and then there are boots / men !!.. The choices are endless ... Some days on here, a few catch my eye. Some days, I need to keep looking as nothing quite fits my life right now. I wonder what today will bring ?Good luck to all in finding just the right fit for our perfect day !! A bottle of wine and a quiet spot , so we can have a real conversation.

  • Chrystal

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I used to play alot of ball but retired my glove had too many other things going on.I can play a pretty good game of pool love being active spend all summer outside in the yard love taking care of all my flowers and yes the weeds get attention too well thanks for stopping by have a safe fishing trip! depends on the guy something casual

  • Nya

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Born with a playful spirit, hearty intellect, vivid imagination, good nature and a penchant for fun and adventure. I’m searching for a person who likes learning, sharing, and has high self-esteem.

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