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Rutha, 51
United States, Massachusetts, Wilbraham

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About Me

Life is a gift and I try to enjoy every day! I am active and adventurous. I like watching movies, reading, cuddling by a fire, and jigsaw puzzles. I am a country girl who also enjoys dressing up for nights on the town. I know how to act like a lady and like being treated like one, but I also like to play hard and get dirty! I love life, the outdoors, my family and friends! I don't have to work a lot of hours. I work to live, but I am lucky to be doing something I love and can be proud of. I am who I am. I don't try to be someone else! I am not desperate, and not unhappy. I am normal, happy, and comfortable with myself and my life. I am a good person and do not play games. I am honest and loving and would do anything for those I care about. I am loyal and considered a good friend and nice person. I like to laugh! I'm easy going, smart, sexy, kinda sassy, and I like to have fun!There is more so if you are interested, write me, talk to me, meet me, and get to know the rest! - People who get to know me, love me! I do not act or look ***no one who meets me believes that I am) I am looking for someone young at heart, who likes to get out there and do things, but also likes to spend time hanging out at home, “just us” time, and family activities. I am very close with my family and that is important to me.I am looking for a man willing to make an effort. Say hello, ask me out, show you’re interested.“I don’t want the whole world, the sun, the moon, and all their light. I just want to be the only girl you love all your life.” I live in a small town and don't have any good way of meeting people so I am trying this. I am looking for the one, right, person and would love to find that lasting relationship. I miss having strong arms to hold me, someone to snuggle with and share my day with, and kisses that make your toes curl! :) But, I am not in a rush (I'm not looking to settle down with the first person I meet and want to take the time to get to know someone) and am happy to make new friends along the way. You may or may not be the one, but we'll never know until we meet! Friendship or romance could be in our future! Take a chance, and find out!! :) I'd like to meet you!One last note, I would like someone that has looked at more on my profile than just my picture and sees some things that we may have in common and who really is interested in "me." ..... Also someone who is honest in their profile.... Please have pictures and a profile that are current and honest. Don't start off a relationship with deception. I enjoy talking and ***, but if we hit it off I really want to meet … soon! ..not *** Please no smokers. On my first date I'd want to do something where we could talk and get to know each other, so anything like dinner, drinks, coffee, taking a walk, a picnic, or a day at the park. It doesn't have to be fancy or expensive, just fun!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Watching Movies American English German Italian Thai Animation Sci-Fi Basketball Golf Charity
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