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Shaunte, 54

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About Me

Not looking to be taken care of but would welcome being cared for and eventually loved. Yes, I said the "L" word..if that's scary for you...please stop reading now. Wanting to meet someone to do things with, I love my life and am tired of living it alone. My girlfriends are all in relationships and I'm always the proverbial "fifth wheel"...so I opt out of functions and work *** I might add. It's time to get balance back in my life...work to live, not live to work as they say.I'm independent yet don't want to go it alone. It would be nice to share my life with someone. To know I have a strong shoulder to lean on, someone I can depend on, at those times when things get overwhelming and I don't know which way to turn. Occasionally I just need a hug, and the reassurance that everything will be alright, as much as I love my Dad, it's just not the same as if it were coming from "my man". :). Would love to meet someone who wants what I do. Not looking to move in together or get married after the first date thank you but do want to share my free time with a significant other with the hope that the relationship will develop into something long term. You should like (or even better love) dogs as I have two and we are a package deal (no different than you guys with kids still at home but I can send my "kids" off to boarding camp when I want to go away on a trip, I hope you have that flexibility too). You're a little bit old school, and know how to treat a woman, you're a romantic at heart. You enjoy travel to warm tropical places when it's cold in BC, exploring our beautiful province in the spring and summer months, fishing, going for long walks/hikes (with the dogs), dining in or out, reading, playing board/card games, music (extra points if you favor R&B of the 60's, 70's, 80's), the occasional movie, preferably at home, curled up on the couch with a beverage and appies readily available. You relish the thought of sleeping until 9:00 a.m. on a Sunday morning...lol. I am complicated in an uncomplicated way and I live a simple life. I believe in karma and paying it forward. Yes, I have my faults, but if you can't deal with me when I'm at my worst, you'll certainly not be able to handle me at my best. I give as good as I get. I am fortunate to have been blessed with both brains and beauty (so I've been told). I can be wild and crazy, calm and demure, sophisticated and classy, down and dirty, a little girl, a mature woman. I can be athletic or lazy, conservative or liberal, silly or serious. I'm hard to define and perhaps best described as a predictably, unpredictable, multi-Love your life, like I do, and be looking for some one to complement it, not complicate it.When I look back over my life, I don't want to be one of those people who says "I wish I had", I want to be someone who says "I'm glad I did". ~ Me I, with a deeper ***, choose a man who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naive or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman.” - Anaïs Nin As long as it's legal, doesn't hurt me or anyone else or involve being outdoors in really cold, rainy, dismal, dark, windy, I can't stand it anymore, I need to get out of the lower mainland weather.........I'm in :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jill

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Looking to meet a nice, respectful,romantic,sharp,sophisticated, honest individual that is serious about finding me.Looking for the what are you doing here guy!! I am a good communicater,passionate,compassionate ,try almost anything once person, who is considered attractive, though beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, I am looking forward to getting to know you.(Young at heart , wise in mind) I am into guy things, like sports and fishing, motorcycles and cars, at the same time very feminine.I love the moon and stars and the sound of the ocean.I love endless possibilities.Hope you love life and want to experience it with the right person...People ask, what do you like to do for fun? Well I think fun is always fun in the right company ,and I can be content spending it with the right person at home watching tv or even enjoing music together.(No pun intended) I am a good kisser ,but you would have to find that out for yourself.We can ride off into the sunset or just take a walk...Come get me ,By the way ,I wish I could say I was a different age.Not because I am not happy with me,but I know when you guys see the age you might feel discouraged,,Please don't. I seem younger to people in every way including looks(they say lol)I would prefer men between 42 and 52 give or take,please don't lie about your age.You should know who you are by now ,and know what you want, and then all new and exciting things that come your way is a bonus,, Never stop learning YOU....Never stop learning about others , then you learn more about you!! Are you S-P-E-C-T-A-C-U-L-A-Rstand up ,people person,exciting,titillating,admirable,captivating,uberous,loving,articulate,real? I love a smile.Show me.P.S If ou are still trying to get over someone else , you are not ready to give your 100% to me , like I will you ..Honesty is respect ,,, thankyou. I feel I am worth it ,Are you?::bye...ps. If you are here reading this ,you were interested,if you are passing me by ,can you stop by and tell me why, Maybe I can learn from it. I would appreciate it.ThanksUPDATE: Now that you read all of that , my situation has changed, All of the above still holds true , but as of now I am just looking around , if we connect good, if not it's ok , my time is limited now,,,,,,if you want to stop by and say hi in the meantime , please feel free, good luck to all of you!!! First dates depend on the person and thier life style. I don't believe it should be anything too heavy. I believe we should get to know each other through communication over dinner or coffee. We will know ........

  • Cherilyn

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I love to garden,walk in the wildest thunder storms,darts ,pool,cats.I'm a every honest person,try to a good deed for some one,every day.do have a few tats.just ask if u want to know any thing about me if i can answer i will,lol.And the first thing you might notice about me is my raspy voice.Love to dance ,being with good people,life is to short to hold a grudge,so i do forgive and forget.Just looking for that special man to spoil.I just want, well Uncle Kracker says it best in his song Smile.Oh yes ***is good. Lets both decide together.

  • Karon

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I am an intelligent woman who has much to offer a special man. Here is a little about me. A former New Yorker but have lived in the Northern Va area since the mid-70s. I am an optimistic, affectionate, compassionate, honest, loyal, dedicated, understanding, supportive woman who is full of energy. I am comfortable wearing blue jeans but can dress up for a formal event at a moment's notice. My friends are important to me but I also enjoy quiet moments with my significant other like attending a concert, enjoying a glass of wine, cooking dinner together, watching a movie, walks along the beach or rooting for our favorite sports team.I am looking for someone who is honest, intelligent, understanding, committed, has a sense of humor, youthful looking and likes to have fun. You must be kind, respectful and looking for a meaningful relationship. You treat others the way you would like to be treated.Currently, I'm very happy and content but am very open to commitment. I am looking to find a partner to enjoy and grow old with.I appreciate you taking the time to read my profile and if you want to learn more about me, feel free to *** don't date outside my race. If you’re the type that won't post pictures then don't expect a response. It's only fair that if you have seen me, I see you. Thanks for stopping by! Drink or coffee

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