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Shona, 41
United States, South Carolina, Dalzell

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About Me

I enjoy outdoor activities like camping, hiking, fishing, riding my bike, the zoo, gardening and for indoor activities I enjoy comedy clubs. I will also take a night in playing board games or just trying a new recipe with the right person. I am an extremely competitive scrabble player. My Finnish and Swedish heritage bring out my stubborn side at times but I have no problem admitting my faults. I love photography and writing... currently working on completing my second anthology. I really don't like to be inside anymore than I have to. I love to drive into a thunderstorm and a baseball game or football game outside with friends = a great day! I love to cook my great grandmother's Swedish recipes and am not into seafood (although I will eat sushi every time I am in Japan). I am an honest person with strong values, integrity, and good self-esteem. As a business owner I travel ***weeks a month, but not necessarily in a row. My work is extremely rewarding for me. I make friends easily and will not put up with anyone not comfortable in their own skin or who is insecure. I'm a jeans and tee kind of gal but can *** with some sassy shoes and a dress. I'm a routine planner just as much as I am a spontaneous "let's go!" kinda gal who is ready for adventure. I have been known to plan a trip quickly and head to the airport for tickets as I always carry my passport and a toothbrush. Next up is Africa. My iPod is as diverse as I am: pop, rock, alternative, country, opera, and classical music to list a few. As a writer, creativity speaks volumes to me.A little bit about you: I'm looking for an educated Caucasian man, ***who has goals, takes care of his responsibilities, and isn't into the bar scene trying to relive his 21st birthday. Easy going is a big plus; it's easy for you to hold an intelligent conversation, easy for you to make plans or be spontaneous, easy for you to use your manners and be respectful . You should have a sense of adventure and like to travel whether a day trip or something more complex...you could be my Amazing Race partner! Chronic gamer? Sell your xbox and move out of your mother's basement before contacting me. I really don't care for your pictures from the bathroom without a shirt on (are they more for you??), what your house, boat or motorcycle looks like (this is meetville, not ebay). I'm not looking for my best friend as my sister does a great job already. I enjoy watching football from time to time and I hope you do too, but not to the point where all weekend plans are centered around "the game." Like to play golf? Me too as long as there are windmills, clowns and loop-de-loops. I hope you take care of yourself physically (without being a gym rat), mentally and spiritually - being grounded is a big plus. Politics? Anything is better than "middle of the road" - kind of a cop-out don't ya think? Am I too picky? Nah, I just know what works for me and what I want. Thanks for pausing your day to read my profile and for being respectful of my criteria. Coffee is always good for talking and a chance to see if there is a connection. I do not reply to "meet me" so if you want to get a hold of me, write me a message. If you are separated, do not contact me. Give your ex and yourself the due respect of getting past things and putting yourself put back together.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Hattie from Dalzell | Woman | 41 years old | Aquarius
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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    It's taken me awhile to realize that I am looking for something really simple....an uncomplicated relationship with someone I can be friends with above all else...but now that I have I am going to give online dating another shot...so here it goes!I am a fun loving, caring person who can be shy at first but once I get to know you I promise I will keep you laughing!I love music and I listen to all types. I am super open to listening to anything new so suggest away... I can't promise I will love it but I am always willing to give new things a shot...within reason of course ;) I also love to read and paint and enjoy cooking for the ones I love :)I enjoy traveling and have a lot of big plans to take an extended holiday and go to the far east...here's hoping!I guess I am looking for a good guy who is easy to talk to and who shares some of my interests so if I sparked any interest send me a message. I look forward to chatting!Oh and according to meetville experts I am looking for the following:you seem to be looking for a "MOTIVATOR." A motivator is well-poised to meet the hidden or unspoken needs you might actually be trying to fill in a search for a relationship. A motivator is… •Someone who doesn't make you feel like an underachiever, but who can act as more of a support and by giving you physical and emotional space to focus on your personal interests and goals.•Someone with strong self-control and patience, who'll respect and seek out your feelings and preferences rather than be domineering and controlling. •Someone who strives for and models longevity by being true to a physically and psychologically healthy lifestyle, which includes taking pride in his appearance and working at being attractive to you. •Someone who'll renew your passion for life through exploring and sharing new experiences and opportunities.•Someone who's steady and economically stable but keen to balance professional ambition with being accessible to loved ones. •Someone who's vulnerable and unafraid to show physical affection, loyalty and emotional connection towards you in public, as well as in private. •Someone who feels no need to impress others and who prefers to focus on life's other matters.•Someone who respects and adheres to social etiquette, which reflects well on you among family and friends. HMMMM! Sounds about right! :) Causal is always best :) so maybe a nice talk over a drink?

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  • Terina from Dalzell | Woman | 45 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I would describe myself as a fun and easy going person. I am a little quiet at first... but my friends would not describe me like that at all! I like to see things in a positive way rather than negative...it's not part of my personality.I listen to all kinds of music. My favorite is R and B, Sole, Rock, Pop, 80's, 90's. If you are beside me in the car then I am most likely singing to one song or another. I love going for walks, exploring new places and going for nice drives on the weekends discovering new places. I enjoy dinner out, but also like staying in and cooking as well. However breakfast out is one of my weakness'..what can I say ;-) I like visiting museums, live theatre, going to the movies or just hanging out at a book store discovering new books. I enjoy my career but do not live to work but rather work to live, but I am happy doing what I do during the day. Exploring new places or revisiting old ones. I like to visit and experieince all the non tourist areas. I want to keep on traveling to new places and seeing all there is to see in the world. Family and friends are really important to me. My closest friends are like family to me. I try to spend time with them as much as possible.Of course there is the most important person to me my son and I am proud and lucky to be called Mommy.It is hard to narrow down what kind of person I am looking for.....we all go through different experiences that shape us. I consider myself kind and smart so I'd like to meet someone with similar traits. I am looking for a connection of not just love but common interests, direction and communication. For a first meeting it is good to go to a place where we can talk a cafe place.).

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  • Evette from Dalzell | Woman | 44 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I heard once ..."we are not humans having a spiritual experience, but rather spiritual heings having a human experience". I cannot recall where this came from, but it has stuck with me for a long time!Just a bit about myself, I am pretty easy going. I have a great life and I have a terrific son, family and friends! I am self employed and operate a business as well as have a small part-time business on the side. I absolutely love my jobs. I love working and I enjoy people. I want to laugh. I want to make you laugh. I like to dance, go to movies...but not horror movies...they creep me out too much. I enjoy watching them at home too. sometimes snuggling on the couch with a great glass of wine is amazing!Music is a pleasure to me. don't much care for rap, but everything else iis fantastic :) We have this cool little live music venue in my town that I love to go to. It's small enough that you can meet the artists and it is truly fascinating to talk to these folks and learn about their music. Food and cooking are important to me. I love to create new dishes and really like to have people sample them. One of my businesses is a Bar/Restaurant so I am always trying new stuff in the kitchen. Don't you want to be my guinea pig..LOL?In this industry, you would think that I would meet plenty of ":fish" in that giant Lake I look at everyday. It is hard to meet someone at work, plain and simple. I hear from men that they find me intimidating, but I just don't see that in myself. from my perspective, I am kind, generous to a fault, attentive, bright and amusing...and slightly amused most of the time:)Yes, I am looking for a relationship and someone to grow old with, etc., etc...but I would really like to date first. I am not one to jump in with both feet. I want to find someone who is a good friend. And it may seem old fashioned but let's take it a little slowly.At the same time, I would like to find that guy who can support me emotionally and mentally and will treat me with respect and learn to cherish me; we all derserve that....not just women, but MEN TOO! Someone who can challenge me and has similar values. We cannot know these things unless we go out on a date.... we cannot go on a date if we don't message one another. Please send me a message, if you find me appealing at all and we can go from there. I think that the "meet me" feature is the most annoying thing about this site. If you click yes, then why won't you start a conversation...we cannot meet if we don't message...hellooooo:) Also, goodness do not click that "yes" if you don't mean it. Then what's the point.GOD I hope I haven't said too much...too little...the wrong thing...this is hard, but all in all we all just wanna be happier with someone than without!OH I ALMOST FORGOT! PLEASE BE SINGLE. I AM NOT INTERESTED IN YOU IF YOU LIVE WITH YOUR WIFE, GIRLFRIEND, BABY MAMA, ETC...ETC..ETC..thank you! I enjoy having conversations and learning about someone. I think that a fist date should be something fun like a ballgame, dinner or a few drinks. Nothing too crazy or noisy. Let's take some time to relax

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