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Shona, 41
United States, South Carolina, Dalzell

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I enjoy outdoor activities like camping, hiking, fishing, riding my bike, the zoo, gardening and for indoor activities I enjoy comedy clubs. I will also take a night in playing board games or just trying a new recipe with the right person. I am an extremely competitive scrabble player. My Finnish and Swedish heritage bring out my stubborn side at times but I have no problem admitting my faults. I love photography and writing... currently working on completing my second anthology. I really don't like to be inside anymore than I have to. I love to drive into a thunderstorm and a baseball game or football game outside with friends = a great day! I love to cook my great grandmother's Swedish recipes and am not into seafood (although I will eat sushi every time I am in Japan). I am an honest person with strong values, integrity, and good self-esteem. As a business owner I travel ***weeks a month, but not necessarily in a row. My work is extremely rewarding for me. I make friends easily and will not put up with anyone not comfortable in their own skin or who is insecure. I'm a jeans and tee kind of gal but can *** with some sassy shoes and a dress. I'm a routine planner just as much as I am a spontaneous "let's go!" kinda gal who is ready for adventure. I have been known to plan a trip quickly and head to the airport for tickets as I always carry my passport and a toothbrush. Next up is Africa. My iPod is as diverse as I am: pop, rock, alternative, country, opera, and classical music to list a few. As a writer, creativity speaks volumes to me.A little bit about you: I'm looking for an educated Caucasian man, ***who has goals, takes care of his responsibilities, and isn't into the bar scene trying to relive his 21st birthday. Easy going is a big plus; it's easy for you to hold an intelligent conversation, easy for you to make plans or be spontaneous, easy for you to use your manners and be respectful . You should have a sense of adventure and like to travel whether a day trip or something more complex...you could be my Amazing Race partner! Chronic gamer? Sell your xbox and move out of your mother's basement before contacting me. I really don't care for your pictures from the bathroom without a shirt on (are they more for you??), what your house, boat or motorcycle looks like (this is meetville, not ebay). I'm not looking for my best friend as my sister does a great job already. I enjoy watching football from time to time and I hope you do too, but not to the point where all weekend plans are centered around "the game." Like to play golf? Me too as long as there are windmills, clowns and loop-de-loops. I hope you take care of yourself physically (without being a gym rat), mentally and spiritually - being grounded is a big plus. Politics? Anything is better than "middle of the road" - kind of a cop-out don't ya think? Am I too picky? Nah, I just know what works for me and what I want. Thanks for pausing your day to read my profile and for being respectful of my criteria. Coffee is always good for talking and a chance to see if there is a connection. I do not reply to "meet me" so if you want to get a hold of me, write me a message. If you are separated, do not contact me. Give your ex and yourself the due respect of getting past things and putting yourself put back together.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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