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Shebah, 41

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I am a happy person with three great kids, (my hearts). Divorced for several years and have had a relationship since. I get along well with my exes and have very little remorse. I enjoy being able to look at myself in the mirror and be proud that I try to be better every day at every role I hold in life. Sooo not perfect and not trying, just trying to be the best me and find someone that fits. To describe me..Easy going at home, funny and laid back. At work am very professional.I care about how I look, but not obsessed. I wear makeup on dates, but not afraid to go to the store without any. I am comfortable in my own skin and do not need to inform anyone of my achievements. Humbleness is a quality I find very attractive. I do not care how much money you make, as long as you pay your bills and take care of your kids if there are any involved. When a man *** and calls me "babe" or "princess" it is a turn off for me. I do not date anyone in their sixties or twenties. I am a romantic at heart and love small, kind gestures. (opening doors, etc..) Honesty is huge..I am so easy to figure out because I don't play games. If I need something from my partner, I tell them and do not make them guess. In a relationship I tend to prefer the men take the lead, but will make plans at drop of a hat. I am very old fashioned gal that was raised by strict Catholics. Was a little wild child in hight school( bless my parents heart's). but got serious during higher education. I have a great family and am very close with them, but are scattered throughout the states, save for a sister nearby. God is a very important part of my life and I go to church weekly. Anyone I dated I would need them to have a relationship with Him as well or we would never be a match. He has helped me through all my hardships and I am so in awe of Him. If you are not a Christian I do not think it could work out with you, but wish everyone luck in their search for that special person they seek. The pic in the black dress is 8 years old from a sorority reunion..others very recent.( know that pretending how u look is an issue for both genders)! Anything romantic, Sporting event, BBQ, Coffee and Conversation, truly, am easy to get along with and enjoy just about everything!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

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    Looking for: man. In age: 50-64

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

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